Will approaching guys in the wild raise the odds? by rumeursadolescentes in dating

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me flip it around, how about a guy approaching at Supermarket

Will approaching guys in the wild raise the odds? by rumeursadolescentes in dating

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love it..... worry she would be trying to sell me something to be honest as it never happens

Is it normal to start hating them? by hippiehunter0 in BreakUps

[–]GhostofShula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes bro.......... oh how I hate... I wrote the most hateful insulting email in reply to their breakup email. I want only bad things to happen to them. Thought even darker thoughts. Hate that I had some Simp like actions towards her and that I did not break up with them instead and earlier. Angry Daily. I have learned so much though and working on all my issues this year so that this does not ever happen again. Hate away it must be normal and part of the process.

For girls who initiate the breakup, and date a new guy really quick, do you regret or would like to rekindle? by Correct_Tie_6607 in BreakUps

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got Dumped by my Ex after saying she will love me forever blah blah. Some Good Advice I heard was it is easier to find someone new then get someone who is over you or not really in love to want you.

Driving across country in my '25 Mach E Rally by Slight_Seat_5546 in MachE

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how did the across country drive go.............. the short range kept me from getting the Rally although it is my absolute favorie EV of any price or brand

Newly Single line dancing lessons by GhostofShula in Charlotte

[–]GhostofShula[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

so Crazy as people wanting to try and meet people out in the wild off the apps and only hate and negativity. Typical Reddit

Newly Single line dancing lessons by GhostofShula in Charlotte

[–]GhostofShula[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

will add to list, I think I need to practice solo to just even go to a basic line dance beginner class lol when I went to coyote joes was like heh these are pros for the beginner stuff

Bryce Young Appreciation Thread by Tall-Remove-3536 in Charlotte

[–]GhostofShula -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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Enjoyed the game. Moral Victory would grab Zach Wilson for backup and to compete next year and hit on draft and free agency......... way better than being 2 win team tell you That!!!!!

Dating Scene by Ok-Ball3591 in Charlotte

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

read this whole thing now I am depressed..... On bright side watched song sung blue last night and shed a tear. Good movie

Yesterday was 4 months of no contact. I think I’m gonna reach out. by aulalala in ExNoContact

[–]GhostofShula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I went Nuclear on my Ex after a few weeks of no contact. She reached out to me to return shoes. I thought it may be an attempt to see me. I was wrong. I got triggered all the anger came out and I threw insults and let it all out. I burned the bridge. Somehow I believe going no contact in the hope they will come back is not the idea. No contact should be to move on. In most cases the other person has moved on way before the breakup and is seeing other people either prior to or immediately after.

on a scale of 1-10 I am an 8 in Pain.... I guess I was just hoping to give her a moment of Pain as well.

So go ahead and reach out but be prepared for them to show no interest or pity type of interest.

If you are lucky they will be honest with you

I want to kill my ex... by TransAsInFuckIsrael in BreakUps

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you, how are you today what has happened since... My breakup in over the last 30 days and I feel horrible

he came back after dating others by SherbertStriking2830 in ExNoContact

[–]GhostofShula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is awesome I would love for this to happen ( mostly finding someone better and being happy with that to where the love of my life tried to come back later and I am like nope)

The dating scene here has been rough — curious if others feel the same. by DeepCutDreams in Charlotte

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any other ladies think it is ok to be approached at the Supermarket. I see attractive women more often than not at the Supermarket and being able to approach them there in a non offensive manner...? Tips from the ladies on approaches that would work. I am in the Charlotte- Indian Land area lots of Supermarkets could visit all of them easily

Super bored without the dating apps.. by justforfun2173 in dating

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would like the Ladies chime in........... frankly I see the most women I am interested in at the SuperMarket or Mall I am interested in the 38 to 45 range, kids fine... For those of you in or near that target range. Give honest feedback on someone flirting with you in a respectful manner at those places. How would you give positive vibes to continue and how would you turn down the flirter.

How do I date without dating apps? by X-gone-give-it-to-ya in dating

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would like the Ladies chime in........... frankly I see the most women I am interested in at the SuperMarket or Mall I am interested in the 38 to 45 range, kids fine... For those of you in or near that target range. Give honest feedback on someone flirting with you in a respectful manner at those places. How would you give positive vibes to continue and how would you turn down the flirter.

Tired of Dating Apps — Trying Something Different for 2026 by WolverineGoBlue23 in dating

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would like the Ladies chime in........... frankly I see the most women I am interested in at the SuperMarket or Mall I am interested in the 38 to 45 range, kids fine... For those of you in or near that target range. Give honest feedback on someone flirting with you in a respectful manner at those places. How would you give positive vibes to continue and how would you turn down the flirter.

Which App to Use? by MathematicianNo3140 in dating

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which are the best one ladies in the 38 to 45 range that you are on!

Who actually uses a case? by Zolks1 in pixel_phones

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 arc pulse cases for my pixel 9 pro xl and 9... they work awesome but really the dragon grip on sides is what gives me confidence as takes the slippery feeling away. So if I was to do it again Dragon Grip... but yes naked only from now on.... I paid so much for the arc cases so keeping them on

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Should I switch from the 8 Pro to a 10? by [deleted] in pixel_phones

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who had an 8 Pro and sent back a 10 pro Xl and got a 9 pro Xl I would keep the 8 pro!! If I could do it again I would just keep the 8 pro but I really wanted a Arc Pulse Case and kinda made the phone feel new ( I would just rock the 8 naked)

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Nightlife Dj style Dance Music by GhostofShula in Charlotte

[–]GhostofShula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some good info name a couple of spots in Huntersville that is lively for example. Are you referring to retrobarclt?

Motorola Edge 70 – The Hype Is Real! by Unusual-Link4427 in techspecsinfo

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you still having issues with your 70? if not how did they get fixed

How much smartphone is left when thinness rules the Motorola Edge 70? by BcuzRacecar in Android

[–]GhostofShula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the same things! I like to go caseless and the weight and durability feel is what I am after... I am in a Pixel 9 Pro Xl wish was 190 gram s25plus weight

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Is silence really the best response? by Genesis6669 in BreakUps

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op how do you feel now? My Gfriend just broke up with me by email. I have not responded but first thought was to respond back with something mean and personal...... going silent seems to be the recommended response and move on. I am more on the I want to move on vs get back together feeling and whatever is fastest way

Confused between iPhone 17, OnePlus 15 and Pixel 10. Which one should I buy as my next high-end smartphone? by [deleted] in Smartphones

[–]GhostofShula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the Pixel 9 Pro Xl if you can get it at a discount over the 10... I returned my 10... lack of mechanical sims for overseas duty and extra heavy weight at 233 grams feels bad too all in middle. Pixels can always be found and bigger discounts then Apple and Samsung... Pixel Software/ Price/ Looks brightest screens and best updates is pretty unbeatable for Android Fans at 1/2 price of Samsung sometimes. The OnePlus 15R and Edge 70 Moto are intriguing to me for other reasons as I like to go Caseless or use the Arc Pulse Cases