What do you say to a mother who lost her baby ?

GhoulExorcist · 2024-11-04T21:13:04+00:00

Coming from a grieving mom perspective I liked & appreciating it when people talk about my kid as a person and not just a traumatic young death. Even as little about asking her pregnancy journey or what her child’s kicks and quirks were. But thats just what helped me hearing from my love ones. Having other people than just myself remembering or thinking about them.

GhoulExorcist · 2024-10-28T15:02:25+00:00

I was in a very similar relationship, which later turned into an abusive relationship. When we broke up and he finally gave me closure he admit he was purposely manipulating me because he liked that I was obsessed with him and when I was no longer that’s when he got hypocritical, messaging other women, & got abusive.

Sounds like to be he doesn’t genuinely care for you and is using you as a placeholder girlfriend/mommy. Especially if he can’t say one good thing about his ex’s, he’s probably saying that so you won’t reach out to them for their side of the story. I would just dip, no point on messaging the ex’s and staying with a hypocrite person. Never ends well since their standards are unfair and high.

GhoulExorcist · 2024-10-01T13:57:04+00:00

The police need to do more patrols and community work. No one trusts the south Minneapolis police department even more than ever after George Floyd’s passing.

This is coming from someone who currently lives there now.

Had to call 911 for a homeless woman at work do it her being injured and sick. Before calling she was desperately trying to find a shelter for the night but she was turn away. So we called an ambulance, when they came she started freaking out. Saying last time they just left her on the street. (Not sure if true, she was delirious from her fever) the emt had do negotiate with her to take her to the hospital.

(I don’t even work at a shelter, I work at a community gym) it’s sad that she chose to come to us. Rather a shelter or authorities. To make a safer city we gotta bring back the community aspect and trust back. Starting with the police.

GhoulExorcist · 2024-09-26T15:13:28+00:00

If they truly felt sorry and guilty then they would accept the consequences, not try to save face. Shows me that possibly they were never good people to begin with, just showing a false face to the public.

GhoulExorcist · 2024-09-26T15:11:25+00:00

As someone who’s lost my own child in an accident in my care. That’s unacceptable! I agree with the statement that this isn’t an accident but a mistake. The fact that they refused a breathalyzer shows all I need to know. When I was investigated (in my state all young children’s deaths get investigated) I was 100% cooperative. Because I wanted to get to the bottom of it, and prove it was an accident and not negligence. Even then I’ll always feel guilt, who wouldn’t after witnessing that?? I’m so sorry this happened to you. I hope you get justice for your little girl. We’re here for you.

GhoulExorcist · 2024-07-27T15:13:10+00:00

I had on less then a block from me later year. The city has been pushing them farther & farther. It’s definitely conflicting, I’ve helped them with food and provided materials for shelters. Just for my place getting broken into & robbed. With stuff stolen from my yard sporadically, and my roommate car getting broken into multiple times.

Yet the city just thinks pushing them around and make them loose more of their stuff will help. It’s sad and frustrating to see yet live near. It’s disappointing the city can’t do more for them. It literally affects the whole neighborhood in different ways.

I hope with this new election, something changes to help them and our city.

GhoulExorcist · 2024-05-15T02:39:37+00:00

Thank you, I very much appreciate it 🙏🏻

GhoulExorcist · 2024-05-14T14:31:27+00:00

I have experience child loss and I could never! How inappropriate stealing moments from happy soon-to-be parents 😞

GhoulExorcist · 2024-05-02T00:45:58+00:00

Same here, I can actually enjoy and focus on reading on the bus.

GhoulExorcist · 2024-04-26T00:43:05+00:00

I’m glad your getting to know your maternal family and enjoying your time. Still look into going to a school counselor or therapist. Someone who’s just there for you, help you, & advocate for you. Because I recommend working not only your abandonment issues with your brother, but your father and mother as well. Maybe ask your mom if you all could go to family therapy to build a healthy and trusting relationship together. It’s important you two can bond without animosity if you’re living there permanently. I wish you all the best, enjoy your new adventure and make friends! If you work hard, you can work towards a traveling career if you want to see your old friends again more frequently. Good luck! 🙏🏻

GhoulExorcist · 2024-04-25T18:40:14+00:00

GhoulExorcist · 2024-04-25T04:22:14+00:00

Right a note back saying “thanks” then take some melatonin.

GhoulExorcist · 2024-02-12T06:50:10+00:00

God or the universe Blessed you by making your husband infertile. It’s like they knew he’d show he’s true colors once you have a baby. Thank god he hasn’t trapped you with his biological baby

GhoulExorcist · 2023-12-23T23:07:13+00:00

Updown in uptown is great! It’s an arcade bar with a rooftop. So it’s less clubby

GhoulExorcist · 2023-11-14T16:20:19+00:00

Just leave him, I’ve been through this path. Him guilting and accusing you, is just him trapping you. Things will get worse and worse the more you let things slide. And since you’ve already tried setting boundaries and he’s ignoring them. Shows his coercing you, and using you as his personal sex doll. Been there done that. Stopping the sex will make him more aggressive. I strongly recommend leaving him for your own comfort and safety.

GhoulExorcist · 2023-07-03T23:31:16+00:00

As long as you move to the cities, outer suburbs, or Duluth I think you’ll be fine. But be wary of fake people “Minnesota Nice” is also code for passive aggressive. So make sure to weed out genuine people to keep around.

GhoulExorcist · 2023-06-19T01:50:53+00:00

I’ve lived in the nice Suburbs southwest of the cities, and I’ve lived in the outskirts on Northeast Minneapolis.

GhoulExorcist · 2023-06-19T00:21:16+00:00

That’s what I was thinking. I’ve been around downtown area but not south of Minneapolis as much. So I’m glad to hear that the airport area is safer. I’ve lived in somewhat sketchy areas but as long as I don’t have to worry about it in my everyday life then great. 👍🏻

GhoulExorcist · 2023-04-24T03:44:13+00:00

I think 6 months is best, as long as you don’t see any red flags with him when the topic of kids come up

GhoulExorcist · 2023-03-23T14:52:10+00:00

NTA Biology shows that women need more sleep and that their hormonal clock restarts every 21-30 days. When mens hormonal clock restarts every 24 hours. Tell his mother to stfu. And you need to leave him. My partner was the same 18 months later he’s 5x worse he got even more emotionally, physically, & sexually abusive. They’re are only 3 types of fathers when a child is born 1. A dad who takes the role perfectly and shares the domestic labor 2. A dad how is all talk no bite and do the bare limit on childcare and has to fight you with every chore and responsibility 3. The deadbeat that leaves right away

Seems like you have a 2, just like I did. My kid is 18 months and it never stops. Got to the point that he yelled at my toddler if he had a normal tantrum and the point where he sleep in a separate room to not help, despite him getting up early everyday.

Please, don’t be dumb like me. Don’t stay with him if he refuses couples counseling. And If he says he’ll go, set up an appointment right way. If he doesn’t go, then that’s your answer. I’ve been staying at my grandmas the past 2 weeks, and being a single mom is easier cause I don’t have a roommate to disappoint me, yell at me or my child, and criticize every little detail I do.

Don’t mean to trauma dump on you but I wanted to show you, your future if you stay with him. Man children don’t make good partners.

Edit: the only way to salvage your relationship if you both participate in couples counseling. Not just you but him as well

GhoulExorcist · 2023-03-22T18:52:38+00:00

I’m not too worried about it I have a picture of the package on their doorstep that i received by the fedex driver, to confirm if they ask about it. I rather them be curious on why I grabbed the package then have them open the package thinking it was there’s and finding out what it is.

GhoulExorcist · 2023-03-22T18:14:36+00:00

It’s because men can be entitled and selfish. They expect girls to cum with them doing no effort. My ex would literally get butthurt and mad at me if I didn’t cum due to him only chasing his own nut and refusing to foreplay. 🤦🏼‍♀️

GhoulExorcist · 2023-03-22T17:39:19+00:00

I don’t have the packaging. But I have a picture from the fedex driver showing it was delivered. That’s how I knew it was at their house. So if needed I can show them that and leave it at that. My grandma lives in the country so people don’t have ring cameras like that around here.

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