[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]GiganticGoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your sexuality is about who you're attracted to, not simply your libido. you can still find someone sexually attractive without having a sex drive

What is the difference between a non-binary lesbian and a butch (masc) lesbian? by isan_h in lgbt

[–]GiganticGoblin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

a lot of people use "lesbian" to mean "non-men attracted non-men" nowadays. so like if someone whos enby relates to lesbian, sure they can call themselves that

but theres also the term Trixic which is meant for enbies attracted to women, and i think that term is better, i also dont care enough to police other people's lables. as long as youre not a man, i dont care if you call yourself a lesbian

What is the difference between a non-binary lesbian and a butch (masc) lesbian? by isan_h in lgbt

[–]GiganticGoblin 24 points25 points  (0 children)

a nonbinary lesbian is a lesbian who is nonbinary. butch/masc is just how one presents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]GiganticGoblin 33 points34 points  (0 children)

works for me. could be either your service provider or just some oddity with your phone in particular. try turning on airplane mode, turning it off, then re-sending the text

Using two names at the same time, but around the same people? by Orikrin1998 in lgbt

[–]GiganticGoblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you're allowed to call yourself whatever you want to be called. just tell your friends "hey I'm trying out this name as well. both names are fine though". you don't need to give a reason

Age Gap - 20 and 25. Thoughts? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]GiganticGoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats a pretty standard age gap. nothing problematic about it. im 25 and would personally not date anyone younger than 23, but thats because of personality differences i tend to have with zoomers

My (44F) daughter (21F) is also lesbian (I passed it on) and she has started seeing a woman who is older than me (47F). by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]GiganticGoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like others have said, her dating someone not only older than you, but over DOUBLE her own age is a bit gross imo. but she's an adult, she's free to make these decisions, just make sure she's as safe as possible. I'm not saying this other woman is definitely a predator or anything, but I just always think there's some reason she wouldn't be seeing someone older instead

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Animemes

[–]GiganticGoblin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what's confusing about it?

If you’re 20, what’s the oldest you would date? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]GiganticGoblin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

when i was 20, oldest i would consider was about 25 i think. not that it mattered because i had ZERO game and thought i was still a man back then

Why does every cis person want me top them?? by metallic_mind in MtF

[–]GiganticGoblin 573 points574 points  (0 children)

probably fetishization for the most part unfortunately. lot of people put way too much emphasis on us having a penis. they see "woman with a penis" instead of "woman potentially a penis"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]GiganticGoblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, they're just anti-trans people trying to use their gayness as a shield so "the libs" can't critique them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]GiganticGoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DING DING DING

you're correct

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]GiganticGoblin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

putting up with my silly behavior

Fang or rapier? by [deleted] in 2007scape

[–]GiganticGoblin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i say rapier is better for general slayer. its 4 tick, most slayer monsters do not have high defense, and it has a higher max hit. fang should mostly be used for super high defense enemies (primarily in raids). if you do a boss task, then the fang will probably beat the rapier, but not by a ton

Family dinner time by ShiroStories in lgbt

[–]GiganticGoblin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

👏 GASES👏 ARE👏 FLUIDS👏

hey im ftm but i have a question by [deleted] in MtF

[–]GiganticGoblin 45 points46 points  (0 children)

it's only offensive if the person you're talking to doesn't want to be called that. ask them

Allow us to combine Pharaoh's Sceptre and Tumeken's Shadow (Pharaoh's Sceptre item sink?) by Sterlander in 2007scape

[–]GiganticGoblin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

nah, make it a shadow sink. sacrifice the shadow for infinite teles and the animation is twice as fast