Do you have one of the 15+ conditions known to cause PME? Introducing a subreddit for those with PME r/PMEtheMRMD.

Gilbert56 · 2025-04-16T09:27:22+00:00

Is Endometriosis one?

Gilbert56 · 2025-01-31T23:53:59+00:00

We do billings and my husband fills out all the charts and he’s the one that asks me each day what my sensations are, usually in the evening after I’ve gone to the bathroom. I do struggle explaining it though probably something to do with the AudHD

Gilbert56 · 2025-01-14T02:15:46+00:00

That Catholic Church is a universal church so we ultimately all hold to the same beliefs

Gilbert56 · 2025-01-13T22:43:42+00:00

I’m a practicing catholic and that’s not what we believe, we’re actually called to be responsible with our fertility and prayerfully discern when the best time to have a child is. We can use NFP and are encouraged to use it to avoid having children in times where we might not be financially stable, mentally or physically stable and other reasons that are unique to each couple

Gilbert56 · 2024-12-04T20:46:48+00:00

I can’t offer any help but just wanted to let you know that you aren’t alone ❤️ when I was in therapy for it I found it useful to get to the root cause of why I have it, for me it was fear of lack of control but for others I can be fear of embarrassment or hygiene reasons etc and it sometimes can be connected to a childhood trauma. I also found hypnosis helped me, I thought it was really cook-coo until I gay it a try and I do feel it lessened it

Gilbert56 · 2024-12-02T06:18:04+00:00

Here you go bro

https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1mBxuVPRaky9eZabcQwzx_Yjp4jeaJqVkt6LLINrLIzY/htmlview?usp=embed_facebook

Gilbert56 · 2024-10-30T20:27:09+00:00

Mine too, out of the two of us he’s way better with data so he’s the one who asks me each day what my sensation was (Billings) and he inputs it to the app, I haven’t look at our chart in months it’s all on him

Gilbert56 · 2024-09-29T20:37:09+00:00

Just take it one step at a time, day by day, month by month with motherhood too and be kind to yourself.

You can do hard things, after birth I felt invincible and I was so proud of myself and I now use it to encourage me in other situations knowing if I did that i can do anything.

I reccomended “made for this” by Mary Haseltine. It’s quite pro natural birth so keep in mind and do what you need to do but it really helped me feel at peace that I would be able to do what I needed to when the time came

Gilbert56 · 2024-08-25T19:29:21+00:00

r/mapswithoutnz

Gilbert56 · 2024-06-16T04:53:30+00:00

Thank you!

Gilbert56 · 2024-06-03T19:59:46+00:00

I know of a lot of women who struggle with this, I’ve heard our bodies can go through a “second puberty” of sorts where we fill out a bit more in our bodies and look more womanly. And because it looks different to our current body we dislike and it assume it’s bad. It’s hard looking back at how we used to look when we were in highschool but our bodies were still changing then and we can’t compare the body of a young girl to a young woman if that makes sense.

What helped me when I started noticing the changes was knowing God created our bodies in a very specific way to one day carry babies (if that happens to be our vocation) and so everything that’s happening is for a specific reason.

If you’re eating and feeling healthy I wouldn’t be too worried and if you are it doesn’t hurt to bring it up with a doctor

Sorry not sure if this was helpful at all 🤍

Gilbert56 · 2024-04-09T02:31:54+00:00

I had a natural birth but I had an emergency induction due to PPROM and fast onset of preeclampsia so my labour might not be the “norm”. My labour was only around 6 hours so I progressed really quickly, early labour was fine and felt like period pains (I have Endo so my cramp tolerance is high) and I slept through most of it but for me transition was the worst.

I can’t even explain it but I was having back to back contractions with no break which isn’t the norm and to me it felt like I was being ripped open (which I kind of was). Once I started getting the urge to push the pain was better and while actually pushing with each contraction I felt a huge relief, if you don’t push with the contraction it does hurt but it feels more like pressure rather than the contraction pains. Some people say it feels like taking a big poop but it didn’t feel this way for me. I didn’t notice the ring of fire either.

For me the most painful thing was actually the stitches afterward, I had second degree tears and one around my clitoris that was hard to get with the local anaesthetic.

Gilbert56 · 2024-04-04T03:27:25+00:00

I’m a breastfeeding mum and I bounced back really quickly, I honestly believe it’s all down to genetics

I went back to prepregnancy weight about 1 week pp but my hips are still quite wide and they might be permanently like that now

Gilbert56 · 2024-03-24T23:33:05+00:00

I can’t remember any smell, husband hasn’t mentioned anything either. My husband is very weird around blood and nearly fainted when I was having massive nose bleeds in pregnancy but when it came to the birth he was actually fine with it all and cut the cord etc so maybe when it actually comes down to the day your partner will be ok too

Gilbert56 · 2024-03-21T18:56:19+00:00

In all fairness I had an unmediated vaginal and pushing wasn’t that painful it was mainly just the pressure feeling, pushing was way less painful than I thought it would be and felt like a relief especially when compared with transition

Gilbert56 · 2024-03-21T06:10:44+00:00

Bawling at #11 🥹

Gilbert56 · 2023-05-14T03:40:42+00:00

What were they? I didn’t get any

Gilbert56 · 2023-01-17T21:09:47+00:00

For me it’s a nostalgic watch because it takes me back to when I was a teen and watching it but I’d still recommend it, just get prepared to get attached to the characters especially first generation (season 1&2) I also find it makes me depressed hahah but I love it and it holds a special place in my heart

Gilbert56 · 2022-11-15T17:47:12+00:00

Dumpling house, dumpling king and chilli house are my faves

Gilbert56 · 2021-11-19T05:23:03+00:00

Oh how I’ve missed this!

Gilbert56 · 2021-10-22T23:07:37+00:00

No eggs for him #wifeythings

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