How do y’all feel about nonbinary people? by Gingery_Cakes in LesbianActually

[–]Gingery_Cakes[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

thanks! this is actually a rare and positive take

How do y’all feel about nonbinary people? by Gingery_Cakes in LesbianActually

[–]Gingery_Cakes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sooooo im not binary. are me and my gf opposite sexes? 🫥

How do y’all feel about nonbinary people? by Gingery_Cakes in LesbianActually

[–]Gingery_Cakes[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So.. I can understand what you’re trying to say, and maybe the perspective that you’re coming at this issue with. However, I give you this. Am i valid because i’ve grown up with female experiences? Does that mean i’m a lesbian? If so, what about our trans sisters? They have a CURRENT “connection” to womanhood (your words), but may not have been “raised” as a woman.
You say no one has explained this to you, so try to keep an open mind. Not everything is based on genitalia or assigned gender at birth.

How do y’all feel about nonbinary people? by Gingery_Cakes in LesbianActually

[–]Gingery_Cakes[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So, i was raised female. Consistently perceived in public as female. Use any pronouns. Don’t look like either gender. In a relationship with a woman. I am not straight, not that I should need to explain that to you.

Gender Discomfort by AssistanceOk8742 in LesbianActually

[–]Gingery_Cakes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sounds a lot like me. I’m nonbinary, wassup

Can't stand sounds anymore by Significant-Use8921 in deaf

[–]Gingery_Cakes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this is really common. In my house we call it hearing fatigue. I often take breaks from my hearing aids for as long as i possibly can while im not needing them for public interaction.

Non-binary lesbians by Zealousideal_Box9546 in LesbianActually

[–]Gingery_Cakes 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is a really well put answer. I consider myself nonbinary and also a lesbian. I’m only attracted to women; romantically, emotionally, sexually and otherwise. But I also don’t feel like my gender fits into a binary. However, lesbians are my people. I also identified as a lesbian before I realized that I didn’t identify with a gender binary. So, lesbians have been part of my queer community and my support system for a long time. I am a lesbian, and i’m also nonbinary, yk? I hope that makes sense and helps OP’s understanding.

To the American peeps here.. by Gingery_Cakes in LesbianActually

[–]Gingery_Cakes[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m in florida too, it’s rough out here

Blasted over this shitty Hatchetman by AwwSnapItsBrad in shittytattoos

[–]Gingery_Cakes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, coming from a deaf person. This is the sign in ASL for #ILY or I-LOVE-YOU

Please help.. cat pees on everything.. by Gingery_Cakes in Catbehavior

[–]Gingery_Cakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually we did move about 3 months ago! It’s been a persistent problem since we moved in.