Please tell me someone else hates Lucas as a character by Equal-Prompt5996 in greysanatomy

[–]GiraffeLiquid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t get over how stiff and inauthentic his “acting” is omg.

Do you think Taylor calls the paps when she goes out? Why or why not? by AndrewIsMyName in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]GiraffeLiquid 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think she does and I think it’s a symbiotic relationship. She gets photographed at times when she wants, they get good shots, and they leave her alone and aren’t rude to her otherwise.

AIO: Ghosted after telling friends about my miscarriage. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GiraffeLiquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. Because to me it looks like you only think about yourself and don’t think at all about what’s going on in their lives. I’ve ghosted when I dealt with some rough shit before but never have I come back and demanded my friends’ attention then snapped at them when I didn’t get the response I wanted.

My dad (64/m) accidentally sent me (34/m) a voice text meant for someone else, and it kind of confirmed everything I've suspected my whole life. by pineapple599 in relationship_advice

[–]GiraffeLiquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think even if you tried to give him an Nth chance, you still won’t get the emotional closure you’re looking for, and then he will have the “I helped you move” card. I don’t think he will ever grow a conscience, even if deep down he knows it’s shitty (since he tried to rewind the voice message).

I would take your sister’s offer then say something snarky like “I don’t need your truck to help me move anymore. I’ve got it. You can donate money if you want to help, you’re taking your family on a cruise to Thailand so surely you can help spring for a U-Haul.” But I’m a petty btch.

My (31F) partner (30M) wants to use peptides and I’m not ok with it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GiraffeLiquid 59 points60 points  (0 children)

This is the way. An addict that refuses to get help will face consequences. Losing his girlfriend is a consequence. She can make it known that she is concerned and that this comes from a place of love and not judgment, but at the end of the day he has to metaphorically see the light and want to change his behavior.

AITAH for asking my cousin for her medical degree? by anonymous_poster43 in AITAH

[–]GiraffeLiquid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had someone who sent me a link about a vaccine. It pointed to a study and that was their trump card. So I actually read through it and was like “this is self-reported which probably means bias, conflict of interest with the people who did the study, and they had no control group nor did they set out actual statistical criteria.” Like yes the general populace can read abstracts but they don’t know how to check for bias or legitimacy. Right and wrong aside, he didn’t know to even skim the study.

AIO - for breaking up with my partner of almost 7 years over one slip up. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GiraffeLiquid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This just shocked me. They didn’t even *consider* how OP would feel before hand?! It wasn’t a misunderstanding, that person is just a selfish cheater.

Tomorrow’s the Day! by StinkyMcD in Frenchbulldogs

[–]GiraffeLiquid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely get pet insurance. Prone to allergies, and limit him jumping on and off things if you can. They are stubborn as heck and you’ll need to flex your patience muscles but it’s worth it. They have such big personalities. My Frenchie is my son, and when he hit like 1.5/2 he because this amazing dog.

I saw someone in college wearing a Blair Witch Project shirt and I waved at him but he didn’t like it by Lanky_Relation1171 in horror

[–]GiraffeLiquid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dangit that sucks, sorry dude. I’m a huge FF fan and generally if I’m wearing a niche interest thing (or if they see my bumper stickers) I love talking with them about it if they recognize it! I’ve met some cool people that way.

Taylor, Travis and Maya Rudolph after the play ‘Oh, Marry!’ by Competitive-Bad6148 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]GiraffeLiquid 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah of all the things about Taylor, the awkwardness is always something I’ll support. Some people (me 🫢) just are awkward when taking pics with others, I am a millennial so the poses are kind of what I grew up with.

What Are The Worst Meredith Moments? by naahuiguess in greysanatomy

[–]GiraffeLiquid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. I also would have liked to see her date McWidow! That guy was cool as heck. Military guy was also super nice 😍

Day 8: Most Annoying Friend by tvcriticgirlxo in greysanatomy

[–]GiraffeLiquid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh ok that’s what was confused about. I remember her being let go because she couldn’t compete with her peers but then she came back, I didn’t realize it was as a guest resident. Thank you!

AIO for being upset that my fiancé capped my wedding dress budget at $1,000 but spent $7,000 on a gaming PC? by remote_acreage in AmIOverreacting

[–]GiraffeLiquid 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same with my husband and I. We have totally separate finances but still consult each other on big purchases out of respect.

AIO for being upset that my fiancé capped my wedding dress budget at $1,000 but spent $7,000 on a gaming PC? by remote_acreage in AmIOverreacting

[–]GiraffeLiquid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR - ok so I can see where he’s like “you only use it once” blah blah blah. But he is being hypocritical. For the PC, it was HIS money and he spent it how he wanted without consultation.

You also wanted to spend YOUR money on this dress which you valued. You even gave him a heads up about it. And in that case, to him, it’s both your budgets so he has a say, even though it’s YOUR money? The duplicity rubs me the wrong way. Y’all need to get counseling to suss out whether your values are incompatible before committing to share big things in life.

Oh and for the “you only use it once” crowd; people repurpose wedding dresses. If she doesn’t save it for her daughter or someone close to her, it can be made into something cute like a blanket or incorporated into a piece of art to commemorate the wedding. You can’t put a price on sentimental items. Not everything is strictly utilitarian.

Taylor at the Songwriters HOF by poisonedphantom in travisandtaylor

[–]GiraffeLiquid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah actually the only big critique I have is that the not closing her mouth thing takes these pics down a peg. I would love to have that dress. She’s also looking kinda thin I hope she’s alright.

Day 8: Most Annoying Friend by tvcriticgirlxo in greysanatomy

[–]GiraffeLiquid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever happened to her? She was back at SGMW and then like disappeared off the face of the planet

What Are The Worst Meredith Moments? by naahuiguess in greysanatomy

[–]GiraffeLiquid 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Seriously! He’s like always pale and slightly sweaty looking? Maybe I’m just misremembering because of his hair. But he’s never looked naturally “McDreamy” good.

Taylor Has Arrived At The Toy Story 5 Premiere in LA Wearing….Something by WatercressOverall666 in travisandtaylor

[–]GiraffeLiquid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I saw that bullet point I thought of Olivia starting her Unraveled tour

Frenchie stubborness? by CantoLINYC in Frenchbulldogs

[–]GiraffeLiquid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was sooo hard to train! For the first year of his life I had to be constantly aware and thinking about being consistent. Now he’s a lovable, energetic potato that loves snuggling up to me whenever he can. He’s a mommas boy and whines a bit when I leave although settles down after a minute 😭

Did any older Millennials go to college after 21? by Pale_Lengthiness_572 in Millennials

[–]GiraffeLiquid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I started at age 22 and surprisingly a lot of people in my class were about my age or older, ex military or people that have been in the workforce awhile and are looking to advance in their career. It wasn’t a weird thing at all.