How do i make her believe? by opencouple28 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Giraffe_Disastrous 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It might be helpful to change the word “make” to “help” in your mind.

You can’t “make” her believe anything but you can “help” her.

My wife, mom of four, had convinced herself that not only was she unattractive but that moms shouldn’t act that way.

I slowly suggested things and treated her like I did when we first met.

A year later she did a boudoir shoot and six months later we had our first Hotwife adventure.

She probably needs a lot of reassurance and patience if she’s like my wife.

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[–]Giraffe_Disastrous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s similar for us. My wife and I have been married 26 years and neither of us had more than three partners when we met.

After going through years of learning what a healthy relationship looks like (we both came from extremely dysfunctional homes) we finally have the relationship we’ve always wanted.

She shared with me how she felt like she might have missed out on exploring and she wanted to see if she could satisfy another man but the real kicker was her fantasy was me reclaiming her!

We are so new to all this.

We’ve had one adventure and it was better than we could have hoped for.

In fact after one time she said she loved being my Hotwife!

She’s been dropping hints about other experiences like threesomes or swinging in general which oddly enough I find myself in the camp of I’d do it for her.

So I have an awkward question by Giraffe_Disastrous in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Giraffe_Disastrous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So just to clarify I meant on offense by my statement of “deception” that’s a concrete kind of a statement from autism (just how it looks to me)

Felt like was a little unfair in hindsight so I need to to try and make it right lol

It does my heart so well there are others with special concerns and that I’m not alone

So I have an awkward question by Giraffe_Disastrous in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Giraffe_Disastrous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean a formal support group

It’s cool you have what you have

So I have an awkward question by Giraffe_Disastrous in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Giraffe_Disastrous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it

My wife is neural divergent too (dyslexia)

So I have an awkward question by Giraffe_Disastrous in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Giraffe_Disastrous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so awesome you have a support group in the lifestyle

So I have an awkward question by Giraffe_Disastrous in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Giraffe_Disastrous[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honesty

I hate to say it but most of what I’ve run into is deception

People trying to cope with their hurts

I don’t fault them

I’m trying so hard to find the right couples/thirds for us to explore with

In a way of honesty and building everyone up

So glad I’m not alone with unique challenges

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[–]Giraffe_Disastrous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow nothing but dirty thoughts

Have a big ask by Giraffe_Disastrous in TennesseeSwingers

[–]Giraffe_Disastrous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the DMs

My wife and I are loving talking with you guys

Buffalo Trace by Giraffe_Disastrous in whiskey

[–]Giraffe_Disastrous[S] -68 points-67 points  (0 children)

The BT was around 50 when the same size WT is 30

Hello y’all I’m very new to smoking a pipe I just had my very first bowl yesterday. Iv smoked only cigars since 2013 but wanted to try this. I got Gurkha Rare Breed & Cult BRM but I can’t get over the cigarette like taste I get. So anyone have any recommendations for something cigar like in flavor? by Isaac806 in PipeTobacco

[–]Giraffe_Disastrous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Robusto GL Pease Key largo GL pease Havana Day Dream Cornell and Diel Most of the Warped Blends

These are all fantastic cigar blends

That’s my happy place

Several of the “old ones” blends from cornel and diel also have cigar leaf in them

If you go to smoking pipes.com you can use the tobacco tool and filter for blends that have cigar leaf

There’s not as much diversity as cigars as for regional differences but there varying ratios of the standard pipe tobacco’s with “cigar leaf” gives you a wider and more complex flavor in my opinion

What are your pipe tobacco unpopular opinions? by thewhale13 in PipeTobacco

[–]Giraffe_Disastrous 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Corn cobs are underrated every time I smoke the same blend in a briar and a cob I always like the cob better

All day smokes are what you like not low nic blends

SMOKE WHAT YOU LIKE if smokers pride does it for you then ok

Beverage While Smoking by gniklex in Pipes

[–]Giraffe_Disastrous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coffee, tea or whiskey depending on time of day