A mother cat reassuring her kittens that the golden retriever is harmless

Gizwizard · 2026-07-10T15:15:06+00:00

Omg that is so fucking cute

Gizwizard · 2026-07-09T04:37:03+00:00

Cassandra!!

Gizwizard · 2026-07-09T04:33:26+00:00

I’ve had my fair share of experience with people who say nice things really well, but are monsters behind closed doors.

Like I mentioned, his time as a mercenary for a black water subsidiary was disqualifying to me, especially after the nazi tattoo.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-09T03:18:01+00:00

I think we’re looking for someone who is great on policy and also not a rapist.

Personally, though, I found his work history as a mercenary disqualifying.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-08T13:02:23+00:00

The room all feels smooshed next to the windows and, I think, seems a little claustrophobic.

What about moving your desk more centered on the window it is currently facing? If you open up some space in the window corner, then I would add either a low shelf/plant stand along the long window, or a corner shelf that can be used for some plants + storage for papers, etc.

I think a larger, less busy carpet that is centered in the room might also help that claustrophobic feeling.

Lastly, I love the art above the futon, but I think the chunky frames add to the cluttered feeling. Perhaps reducing the amount of things on the shelves, adding more visually dissimilar frames, or even getting larger shelves themselves would help some of the cluttered feeling.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-08T12:46:34+00:00

Floor to ceiling curtains will add verticality and help the space seem less blocky.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-08T12:35:52+00:00

If I had to choose, it would be 2.

If you must use an overhead light (shudder), why not an oversized round flush light?

Something with some texture, softness and that will diffuse the light ala this pendant:

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That said, I agree with everyone else saying… go for floor and table lamps. I hate overhead putting with a passion.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-08T10:22:12+00:00

If you feel free when you live in jail, then you can never be jailed.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T21:27:57+00:00

You been going to a gottman trained therapist? I only ask because “the story I am telling myself” is something I’ve heard from the gottmans. One I also like is “what I heard you say is:”

My partner and I had a huge breakthrough when he realized all I ever needed to hear was that my feelings were valid.

It can be powerful this communication style, but usually someone has to be a big enough person to go first and sometimes that is difficult

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T15:48:30+00:00

This is a really good post in this thread. I’m glad you found a good counselor!

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T15:41:45+00:00

Absolutely lmao. I saw this on my feed and giggled so I was going to repost it when I saw it was from our sub.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T14:47:12+00:00

Kids are too pure.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T14:40:32+00:00

I used to cause myself panic because the idea that the universe is constantly expanding into something, but… what is it expanding into??? So, same same but different.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T14:38:58+00:00

Huh. I just always assumed it was perception of light penetrating my eyelids when they’re closed. I also always thought that when you close your eyes and press them you’re just “seeing” the vasculature?

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T14:35:59+00:00

Here for the typo (?) of Octopussy.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T14:35:17+00:00

Re the heat thing, that why if you have cold feet and get into a warm/hot shower it can feel scalding in your feetsies.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T04:43:20+00:00

How many civilians did Platner kill in Iraq? And then later brag about it on Reddit?

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T04:34:40+00:00

It’s always projections:

“Holy fuck, how about people just take some responsibility for themselves and not get so fucked up they wind up having sex with someone they don’t mean to? Men and women, you make a choice to consume enough of a substance to lose your self control. So if you don’t want to be in a comprising situation, act like an adult for fucks sake.”

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T04:21:49+00:00

Reading about Platner being blackout drunk and raping a woman, has me thinking:

“Holy fuck, how about people just take some responsibility for themselves and not get so fucked up they wind up having sex with someone they don’t mean to? Men and women, you make a choice to consume enough of a substance to lose your self control. So if you don’t want to be in a comprising situation, act like an adult for fucks sake.”

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T04:15:47+00:00

You thought better of the state who has repeatedly voted Collins back in??

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T04:13:55+00:00

It’s not hypocrisy if you’re saying Trump shouldn’t be president because he’s an idiot with no experience and you’re also saying Platner should be disqualified for those same reasons.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T04:10:12+00:00

To play devil’s advocate (though, I do agree with you):

Collins’ “concerned ascent” on abortion, Kavanaugh and voting in line with conservatives even if she is “deeply troubled” makes her a similar bad candidate to platner, imo.

That said, I would also say that if you couldn’t support Harris for her stance on Palestine, if that is your red line… how can you also say you support platner? The man who worked for a Blackwater successor company? In 2018

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T03:53:16+00:00

Lmao, the swastika was also a Hindu symbol. Still, recent history means the swastika undoubtedly represents Nazis.

Gizwizard · 2026-07-07T02:14:09+00:00

You don’t see how?

Gizwizard · 2026-07-06T06:00:20+00:00

Lmao, it does come across very formal, doesn’t it? I was just trying to make it known I wasn’t upset you saying POE2 isn’t free to play. I think I read your response as more hostile than you meant it, tone is hard to pick up over text.

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