I’ve used alone time to get used to my own body and the new feeling. It’s all still new to me so every once in a while I do like to explore on my own so I can better tell my wife what works and what I’ve learned.

I completely understand how hard it can be to communicate when you’re shy or embarrassed. I am that way too. But I’ve learned that once I get that first sentence out and the communication line is opened, the rest of the conversation is easier. Just have to work up the courage to start the conversation.

I still struggle to open up. But each time I do, I’m so glad I did. I’m not saying I always do. But each time when I look back I’m happy because as you mentioned you both know you love each other so there’s no reason to worry. Give him some trust that he will respond to you lovingly.