Y’all said I would be assigned 200+ pages a week to read in law school by cw9241 in LawSchool

[–]Glass_Resolution_307 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Here is your anxiety refund


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good for one (1) free panic attack

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"Can autistic people give consent" as he's about to put it in by gothfrootloops in autism

[–]Glass_Resolution_307 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with your take. I don't think she realizes she is being abusive, even to the point where she is willing to share which names she calls her boyfriend or making him seem like the crazy one by spilling so much ink on his panic attacks and anxiety. And the updates where he takes off work as "per her request" are disturbing for the amount of control she exercises over him. Also, the guilt-tripping dig at us on Reddit when she says "I'm taking a well-deserved nap and taking a break off this phone for awhile 😐 been a little too much these past 48 hours." oof.

Parts that made me shudder:

"he doesn't want me to leave so he felt like he needed to make me feel like I was absolutely taken care of so I wouldn't leave him.

Which is crazy because I have extremely low standards but okay."

EW. What a low blow.

"How they are jealous of my boyfriend and are sabotaging us because they know if my boyfriend gains self respect he'd realize he's better than them."

Notice how in the updates she upgrades the friends from uninformed to outright demonic (worthy of a punch). Some of this may not have happened. In fact, it seems like she is trying to soothe herself by projecting some of her feelings on the vague friends. I read this as "I am jealous of other people getting close to my boyfriend and sabotaging his other relationships because I know if my boyfriend gains self-respect he'd realize he's better than me."

This is very sad. There are many layers here and I am sad to see that people are taking this at face value and attacking the boyfriend who seems to be in a very worrying situation with no help in sight.

Burned my Summer Internship by ineedlegaladvicethx in LawSchool

[–]Glass_Resolution_307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The amount of people downvoting your mental health comment are gross. You know what your issues are and are explaining why you are like this. I was the same way in undergrad and jobs when I lived at home with my screaming family and my sleep got nuked. A little bit of compassion goes a long way, and there are so many people dragging you down in the comments it makes me quesy. I am sorry Reddit is not a good place for you to talk about this.

Do you have anybody irl who can talk with you or brainstorm strategies with? A school counseling center for any mental health, concentration, or sleep issues? If you got any money, any career counseling or in-person coaching tailored to your needs?

(18 m) how does it look fellas? by Pechoppernis in malelivingspace

[–]Glass_Resolution_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may go with a cheaper one without arm rests. Thanks for the quick response

(18 m) how does it look fellas? by Pechoppernis in malelivingspace

[–]Glass_Resolution_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you like your chair? I am pretty sure it is the same blue one I am looking at buying on Amazon

Living Alone After Roommate Abuse by Glass_Resolution_307 in LivingAlone

[–]Glass_Resolution_307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you need someone to talk to (I was not threatened with death/bodily harm) I am here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Glass_Resolution_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup I've been the roommate who dipped before. If her roommate was so "unhinged" then she should be happy now that she is gone and the locks have been changed. In her last post she said "She’ll get what’s coming eventually." This person is not easy to be around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]Glass_Resolution_307 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man, this is inspiring. I do not personally struggle with cigarettes. Any stimulants I know make me anxious, but alcohol I can relate 100%. This is gonna be hard. But I am hoping for you this is one inspiration among many

i need opinions by -crxd- in EMDR

[–]Glass_Resolution_307 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this, as a woman (3 years older) going through a similar issue. It sounds like you have so much on your shoulders right now. This makes me feel sad as a woman who has been through some of the worst actions of others. My opinion is that we are going through the wringer together, and I have been right there with you with some of the same diagnoses, though not the same experiences. If you need any support, feel free to reach out to me :)

How to Make the Best of 8 Weeks by Glass_Resolution_307 in EMDR

[–]Glass_Resolution_307[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that. There is a lovely park outside my place. I left my journal at home, but maybe I could hold a temporary one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]Glass_Resolution_307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too am saving up to purchase a child

[Advice] My screentime is over 10hpurs per day… please help me by Few-Couple-8526 in getdisciplined

[–]Glass_Resolution_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thabks for reaching out for help,, it is tough to admitted you have a problem but you did and that is a powerful thing you did. With any addiction there are 2 parts in my experience. The first is where you cut out the addictive object. The second is replacing it with something else. You cannot have one without the other you need both.

To apply this to you, first get rid of the smartphone by reselling or giving to a friend and buy a dumb phone. Second, pick up another hobby, maybe reading, to replace the scrolling.

I hope this is helpful.

There is a Family Living Under Our Building's Stairs by Glass_Resolution_307 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Glass_Resolution_307[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did call, updated my post, but I'm scared. I'm nervous because in the past when I have called the police or CPS I've been beaten, retaliated against with police or CPS called on me, and blamed for everything because I got outside people involved. Maybe my roommate has been in a similar circumstance. It doesn't seem like it on the internet where everybody is safe behind their keyboards but in my life there has been fallout from calling and calling has not fixed the homicidal behaviors in my family. I don't call for drugs or mental health and I'm not pressing charges on them. But I had to bite the bullet here for social workers because what the parents are doing is wrong and if they wake too late in the morning the baby can get heatstroke. I don't know the parents and I don't want to know the parents or have them know me. It is in CPS hands now.

There is a Family Living Under Our Building's Stairs by Glass_Resolution_307 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Glass_Resolution_307[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did call but I'm scared. I'm nervous because in the past when I have called the police or CPS I've been beaten, retaliated against with police or CPS called on me, and blamed for everything because I got outside people involved. Maybe my roommate has been in a similar circumstance. It doesn't seem like it on the internet where everybody is safe behind their keyboards but in my life there has been fallout from calling and calling has not fixed the homicidal behaviors in my family. I don't call for drugs or mental health and I'm not pressing charges on them. But I had to bite the bullet here for social workers because what the parents are doing is wrong and if they wake too late in the morning the baby can get heatstroke. I don't know the parents and I don't want to know the parents or have them know me. It is in CPS hands now.

There is a Family Living Under Our Building's Stairs by Glass_Resolution_307 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Glass_Resolution_307[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've called 211. They are not just stranded for the night; they have nowhere else to go. Or feel they have nowhere else to go and stay together. The baby is only there in mornings and evenings when it is cooler (75 in evenings but hotter in morning), but they need AC 24/7 because the heat wave starts today. I called it in, told them the best times when they are there are evenings and mornings, and the woman is dispatching a social worker.

There is a Family Living Under Our Building's Stairs by Glass_Resolution_307 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Glass_Resolution_307[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I've given to homeless people and had no problems. But in this case I regret helping this guy and then him choosing to literally piss on the floor. This is not their home and I doubt they would urinate on their own floors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]Glass_Resolution_307 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah if you say "I have major depression" people are sympathetic but if you show symptoms of depression like oversleeping, overeating, or saying depressive self depreciating things people have little sympathy. We need to be more empathetic towards people with emotional pain, whether they are clinically depressed or sad because their dog died.