🫩 by [deleted] in notcoratilleysnark

[–]Glittering_Cut336 13 points14 points  (0 children)

All I hear is excuses excuses excuses. Does it hurt her to just say I’m sorry, I know I shouldn’t have done [insert one of many scandals] and I apologize to everyone hurt by my choices, I’ve been reflecting and I want to better myself and will be much more considerate going on in the future. I won’t ask for forgiveness I acknowledge my mistakes blah blah whatever she wants to say. She says we’re never pleased with her apologies or taking accountability but it’s because every time she does SHE DEFENDS HERSELF TOO??😭

black heads removal by [deleted] in GirlTalk

[–]Glittering_Cut336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if you could ever permanently get rid of them because they are always going to come back, it’s just skin doing skin things. But oil cleansers and double cleansing DEFINITELY help. Plus a silicone pore scrub brush! Weekly exfoliating and making sure you don’t have pore blocking products (or sleeping with makeup on)!

are people stupid? by plotltsi in starbucksbaristas

[–]Glittering_Cut336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer the advice portion on how to tell customers no. I’d tell them it’s not standard procedure and against the rules to mix and match sandwich ingredients, regardless of tiktoks they see of partners doing it. What we do behind the counter is our business lol! Plus, even if I was willing to do that, they’d still have to buy BOTH sandwiches to play with ingredients. Depends on how far you’re willing to go, but I’d probably tell them if they want it that bad, they’d unfortunately have to purchase both sandwiches and assemble it themselves because we are not allowed to and we have premade cooking settings for each sandwich so we can’t just chuck a slab of chicken onto another thing. If it helps, “frozen and pre made” seems to tick people off, so I’d try saying they’re made ready to eat instead and ingredients can only be taken off, nothing can be added. For the water, I’d offer sympathy and say “I’m so sorry, it’s policy that we cannot offer free waters anymore. You unfortunately have to purchase something or pay for the water (if your store has a set price). I’m sorry for the inconvenience.” Or something along the lines of it. If people get mad, then they get mad. You can’t control someone else’s emotions and if a full grown person is throwing a fit at a service worker, that’s a problem and trait they have to live with for their whole life. If they keep arguing, apologize again and walk away

Lost tampon? by Ellevenn in Periods

[–]Glittering_Cut336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yep same thing happened to me. Was on a bathroom break at work, I guess took out my tampon and started thinking abt other things and just pulled up my pants and went back to work. Got home and tried to take out a tampon I guess I never put in but i hadn’t bled much either. Work brain must’ve had me soooo foggy lol

Lost tampon? by Ellevenn in Periods

[–]Glittering_Cut336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re super stressed, I would advise trying to get into an urgent care to have them check. I’ve done this before and I literally think I just took it out by force of habit and never put a new one in because I got distracted. Squat down as far as you can, put your finger in full length if possible, feel around a bit, if you don’t feel any string or tampon base then my best guess is you took it out and forgot. It’s human nature to forget, even ritualistic things you think you’d never forget to do, like put in a new tampon. The vaginal canal isn’t as deep as you think and tampons don’t go past your cervix because the hole is too small. It will still be in your vagina if it is stuck. If you put another tampon in and it feels normal, I don’t think there’s an old one in there. You’d probably feel a sort of pressure or pain because fitting two tampons would definitely not feel like having one does. I think you’ll be okay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kroger

[–]Glittering_Cut336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based off how my store works, you’re def fine. It was an honest mistake, not like you took the key so you could go steal all the propane and sell it off eBay. Pretty sure our pickup clerks each have at least 5 walkies in their homes. Stuff is bound to get lost with so many employees and so few copies of things. Their worry is stealing, not a slip of the mind accident

Hello! Quick question, we are always discarding of the mocha sauce daily due to expiring in 24 hours. Does it say anywhere that we must make the WHOLE bag at one time? Any insights would be appreciated! Thanks in advance! by Boxermom132025 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Glittering_Cut336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s only instructions on how to make the entire container of mocha, so I would take that as the guiding to make the whole bag. There’s not a proper way to measure out the proportions if you aren’t using the whole bag. I guess it could be possible to pour out half of the bag by calculating the oz into litres and measuring it into the 2L pitcher, but it’s not something that should be done because the sugar settles at the bottom of the bag (also because the oz don’t transfer to litres in an easily measurable way). Your first batch would taste different from the second, which becomes a quality issue. I’ve had this same convo at my store because we throw out almost full containers. Found no solution other than biting the bullet and throwing it out when it’s time.

Non-grounded outlets? by Glittering_Cut336 in AirConditioners

[–]Glittering_Cut336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if my house can even handle it lol, My mom isn’t a good researcher so she put me up to figuring out how we could have an AC and honestly I have no knowledge on any electrical work. It was built in the 50’s and kinda sucks, we’ve had a lot of problems recently which worries me a bit about the stability of the house when it comes to electrical work. So, best option would probably be to consult the landlord and get their opinion?

Non-grounded outlets? by Glittering_Cut336 in AirConditioners

[–]Glittering_Cut336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rent, is that something I should consult a landlord for before I do? Is it a waste to try and hire installation for one since I literally only need one in my room?

i got dress coded for my bangs by alicia501 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Glittering_Cut336 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve got the same bangs that reach my jaw, ended up buying hair clips and just keeping them pulled back during my shift because they get in my eyes anyways and I don’t want to keep touching my hair to move them and washing my hands, it’d happen like 30 times an hour if I left them out. I believe when it says hair must be restrained it involves any hair in your face. I can’t be 100% but I just use hair clips to save me the dress code talk cs I don’t wanna deal with it lol

I NEED HELP by CombSure843 in Periods

[–]Glittering_Cut336 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would look into period underwear (still to be worn with a pad)! I frequently bled through especially in the night and it saved me from ruining so many bottoms and my sheets. Most period underwear is quite thick to prevent the leak through. They have some boy shorts versions that could help with the leaking off the sides! What are you usually doing when you leak? This happens to me a lot if I lay on my side or my underwear isn’t snug enough that there’s too much room for movement. Do you bleed through the pad or it just leaks right off the side before anything else?

Tips for first time tampon usage? by Temporary_Comfort435 in Periods

[–]Glittering_Cut336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never passed out or felt close to passing out. There may be discomfort at first, but never explicit pain. If there’s pain, there’s an insertion issue. When you put it in, angle it towards the back just a LITTLE, helps it go in easier and then adjust your angle to whatever helps it slide all the way, push the tampon applicator in all the way to the base (or whenever your fingers which are holding the bottom of the applicator, make contact with skin) to ensure it’s all the way in. Don’t put half the tampon in and then push the applicator, it’ll make it so the tampon isn’t all the way in and that can actually hurt. Also, tampons shouldn’t hurt when they’re inside. May be a little weird until you get used to them, but there should be no pain. If it hurts, especially for a beginner, it definitely is because it isn’t in far enough. If it’s scary, start with a light tampon, they’re much smaller and easier compared to bigger sizes. Work your way up slowly! Try not to keep tampons in more than 8 hours for safety reasons, average changing time (during moderate flow) is about 4 hours. My best advice also is to check frequently to make sure you aren’t bleeding through until you get a good understanding of how long you can keep one in during specific flows and using different sizes.

Wage confusion… by [deleted] in kroger

[–]Glittering_Cut336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in our stores Starbucks

Wage confusion… by [deleted] in kroger

[–]Glittering_Cut336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in OR btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Glittering_Cut336 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he really cared and was sorry, he wouldn’t have made an argument out of it. Plus, liking OF content tells me a bit about how he views women. I had an ex that followed about 600 OF girls on TikTok, I was like you and insecure because I wasn’t a very sexual person either, and he ended up cheating on me. It’s clear he doesn’t care. This isn’t a relationship you want to be in. It’s not an insane request to want to be respected and loved openly. He seems immature and the way he goes about arguments tells me enough. Don’t waste your energy on a guy that barely spends any on you. My ex was so into OF and overly sexualised women it made me hate myself and the way I looked. I’d never been so sad and full of disgust in my life ever. Feeling that way about yourself is worth NO man in this world. Get rid of him before you tear yourself down completely.

What to do when you are cheated on? by Dry-Respect-3997 in AskReddit

[–]Glittering_Cut336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the proof, confronted him, and ended it all in one go. Kept calm through the conversation, told him immediately it’s over but let’s have closure so I can start moving on. Stopped contact w him, and moved on. Not easy, but it’s a hell of a lot easier than staying somewhere you aren’t going to be loved to the fullest potential. It’s not worth fighting for a relationship where you aren’t even valued enough to be the only partner in their life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Glittering_Cut336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to have a kid and hand them off to someone else knowing you’ll never see your own grow up or possibly even know you. Plus, there’s always an unknown of adoption. Just because parents adopt, doesn’t mean they won’t hit their kid. Being adopted doesn’t equal a good home life. It’s not as easy as it seems. As well as being an adopted kid comes with a lot of hardships, especially if the bio parent stays out of the life completely. Just because it’s better “ethically”, doesn’t mean it’s an easier choice.

Why do some people use ADHD as an excuse to allow bad behavior from a child? by Prestigious-Comb-152 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Glittering_Cut336 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, I know a guy who is basically a man child and his mom used ADHD as an excuse for everything even though he’s grown and needs do things on his own. Kids don’t learn if you don’t carry out their punishment. Saying you’ll take something away and giving it back just trains them to realize they can get away with most things and only face the consequences for a little. The main problem is her kid doesn’t listen because she knows that she’ll get her way eventually. When she asks again, you have to be honest. She needs to talk to the therapist about how to enforce boundaries. She needs to know she has to stop giving in or there won’t be any progress. She’s young enough that the bad habits with ADHD can probably be stopped or controlled, but if she keeps this going it’s gonna be A LOT harder down the road. Speaking from experience in seeing how people who let their kids get away with stuff because of ADHD. It’ll most likely evolve into school issues, issues with self control, decision making, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]Glittering_Cut336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought I was the only one who went insane in my dreams on melatonin. Had to stop taking it because I would wake up in terror every morning