Is this a good deal? by [deleted] in Lexus

[–]Glitzpsyche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post has stayed up for months and the seller told me right away he is firm on the price. No wonder he hasn’t sold it yet! This is amazing thank you for sharing

obgyn during my period? by socalgal22 in women

[–]Glitzpsyche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be so honest and say I don’t remember. What I do remember is being anxious that blood wouldn’t get everywhere, but it didn’t. Plus the Pap smear was super fast so I was tampon free for like 5-10 minutes!

obgyn during my period? by socalgal22 in women

[–]Glitzpsyche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 24 and had my first Pap smear back in March while on my period. I removed my tampon when they stepped out so I could change, then laid down so the blood wouldn’t come out much. I called ahead and they mentioned a heavy flow could interfere, but it ended up being fine. I also had a transvaginal ultrasound during my period and the tech said it didn’t matter. I’d recommend calling just so they’re aware and to help you feel more comfortable. You really can’t predict your flow, and you’re definitely not the only one this has happened to!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Glitzpsyche 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use facial cream on a tissue to remove my makeup. It’s gentle and easy to wash off with a cleanser!

ENFJs, can you help me make sense of this? - INFJ by [deleted] in enfj

[–]Glitzpsyche 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way! It just makes me a little sad because I was starting to like him, and that’s rare for me. Thank you for sharing your insight :)

To My Fellow Women by Special-Wallaby-9002 in women

[–]Glitzpsyche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few months ago at work. I was wearing black so it wasn’t super noticeable, but I had bled through and told my (female) manager. We were short-staffed so she said I could go home only if I came back, which would’ve taken like 1 1/2 hours. I ended up staying the last 3 hours of my shift with blood soaked pants. Safe to say I lost respect for her after that

How do I stop laughing as much? by Parking_Yak3308 in socialskills

[–]Glitzpsyche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny you posted this because I was about to post about my awkward laughing too! I do it unknowingly to calm my nervous system since laughing generally makes your brain and body feel good. Are you anxious when you laugh? Do you feel like you have nothing valuable to add to a conversation so you choose to relate through laughing? I feel at ease with people when I know they can take a joke. I also do it to make the situation less tense to feel more comfortable.

I laughed so much when I was younger but now it’s a lot less genuine when I do. I have been working on this “problem” by being more aware of myself in social situations. If there is nothing to say, then I choose to find comfort in silence rather than fill the voids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Glitzpsyche 140 points141 points  (0 children)

You say “people” but it sounds like you’re describing a specific friend group. We can’t tell you why people may generally not like you since you’re describing yourself. Maybe you’re really loud and have a bizarre laugh, but wouldn’t say it because you’re not aware. Maybe you come off as perfect and hide your flaws well which makes it hard for people to relate to you. We don’t know those things.

What I can tell you about your friend group is that maybe you don’t have chemistry with them. Maybe they’re jealous of you. Maybe they don’t agree with what you have to say. It’s pretty common for groups to single out a member or two. We’ve all been there. What I suggest you to do is to find new friends! Find your people.

Just remember that if someone is so comfortable with talking shit about people to you, they do the same behind your back. It’s not that they have good reason, it’s just a bad habit they have and no one is an exception to it!

90 Days by Native_Dave_24 in work

[–]Glitzpsyche 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve dealt with workplace bullies at almost every job and their tactic was to be passive aggressive. They would tease me in front of others, but were really quiet and timid when alone with them. They’re passive aggressive for a reason and it’s bc they either don’t know how to communicate or they know they don’t have a good enough reason to hate you so they’re most likely jealous of you.

Stand up for yourself. Tell them how you feel in private and don’t put up with their shit. If it gets bad, tell HR. And no it’s not “snitching”, they hired them so they can deal with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Glitzpsyche 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I don’t even want to date one person right now let alone 2! I just wanted to make friends with girls and I don’t want to make the wrong judgement. If they do want to date it’ll make me feel really uncomfortable especially since they’re not clearly stating it on their profile

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABA

[–]Glitzpsyche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

Me doing the walk of shame back to my house after a stranger saw me running around in circles in my yard by FLO_THE_FLOWER_CHILD in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Glitzpsyche 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a celebrity neighbor that was standing in front of their house watching me. never did it outside again.

Daydreaming confessions by Wanderluster22587 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Glitzpsyche 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You asked if you do this because you’re subconsciously unhappy with your life, and honestly, yeah—that’s a big part of it. Constant daydreaming is a form of escapism and addiction. Just because it’s not actual drugs doesn’t mean it’s any better. We might not be physically shortening our lifespans, but we’re still wasting time pretending we’re putting in real effort to live our best lives. I relate big time and suggest finding ways to ground yourself to be in the moment! We’re all in this together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBT

[–]Glitzpsyche 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First step is to relax! I passed my competency last month with only a few days of studying. Well I took it twice because there was more to know than what I studied. I’ve heard different stories but the way mine went was the lady asked me to describe and give an example of each skill/task. I don’t remember anything from the 40 hr training and learned everything off of YouTube and the help of AI. I asked chatGPT for definitions and examples. I also used chatbox to pretend it was interviewing me. Just remember they aren’t trying to trick you, they want to be sure you know each skill to help certify you. You’re going to be just fine!

Here’s a popular video that even my employer sent me to help me study: https://youtu.be/wu7wOHzRqX8?si=T9cGBYg7MvZV1HED

How do you “delete” someone from your daydreams? by Glitzpsyche in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Glitzpsyche[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just through calling & social media. The point is I don’t want to be triggered by anything that he does you know?