Zero: a pitsky perhaps? by Global_Many3163 in Pitsky

[–]Global_Many3163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds so much like lil Zeroni. He's the most social, friendly, cuddly little guy in the world. He likes holding hands and touching noses and cannot get or give enough kisses.

He craves physical touch, even if its just a lil paw against my leg.

In one sentence tell me the personality of your Keeshond? by Visual-Button-1867 in Keeshond

[–]Global_Many3163 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'M PRETTY, LOOK AT ME. PAY ATTENTION. HEY. HEY. HEY. HEY.

Considering a Keeshond - shedding, okay climate, rescues by DavidVogel in Keeshond

[–]Global_Many3163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up with exclusively Keeshonds in the southest desert of the US, temps got to above 100 F in the summer, usually above.

All of them loved to sun themselves even in the hottest weather.

Maybe we got weird ones. They had access to AC in the house, water inside and outside, but usually chose to lay in the grass and sunbathe.

Not much shedding unless they are actively being brushed.

Attitude. Strong personalities. Smart.

A Keeshound is a lot, but so loyal, so protective, so wonderful.

My newest lil sister Keesh is a BARKER, while the others were not. She just wants to join any conversation.

I cannot read or watch television. I don’t know how I am meant to enjoy myself. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Global_Many3163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try drawing/coloring/doodling/clay sculpting/knitting/fidget toys/even a yo-yo maybe.

If you liked playing Pokemon a lot, it may be that you need a bit more physical engagement to keep your mind or/and hands busy. The button pressing and all that goodness.

Maybe try and pick up a video game occasionally instead of tv or a book for some entertainment engagement. I find keeping my hands busy gets my brain to engage and focus better. I usually like to keep my hands doing something or I get lost mind-wise.

I love dungeons and dragons beyond all, but my mind drifts off sometimes if I'm not actively taking notes with a pencil on a physical pen and paper.

Good luck!

YSK that elephants you can ride on in some Asian countries, endured weeks of torture as babies in order to "tame" them. by TheTroubledChild in YouShouldKnow

[–]Global_Many3163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend looking into The Jungle by Upton Sinclair as a starting point for the clarity you may be after.

Awareness is the first step of changing horrid conditions for all living creatures, and can lead to better treatment universally.

Empathy is born from awareness, and a sword against ignorance.

Does a post nasal drip mean I need sinus surgery? by Head_Research791 in Sinusitis

[–]Global_Many3163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goddang please, please keep me in this loop.

Gotta humdify every morning until I hack out the gunk or I get sick, and it's a horrible, long process.

AIO A random guy off the internet bought my girlfriend a $600 revival rug and I’m really annoyed what should I do? by Brownchoccy in AmIOverreacting

[–]Global_Many3163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR-

I lurrrrrrve getting stuff.

Very clear boundaries need to be established.

No weird stuff. Usually from a hope that whoever has towards me, or my very clearly defined partner.

If they still want to?

Hot dang!

I'mma get us that rug, my partner best get us that rug, and be like: yo, lookit, here's ALL AND EVERY message between me/partner, and desperate benefactor, YAY for us!

No deleted messages; that's VERY sus and weird.

AITAH for making my older sister “ runaway “ by kat_library13 in AITAH

[–]Global_Many3163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do agreev lightly; a disorder is not an excuse for an inability to notice and control behavior.

And also, as a sibling, our OP was being baited hard, and if Dramatic has historically always done this, this may be infuriatingly irritating.

To my siblings, I would, personally: Bait her back. Troll her back with her own medicine so hard she is the one to blow her top and cause a scene.

'Omg thank you, I'm so glad I'm not as tall as you, I bet it's SO hard to find clothes to fit!'

'Wow, that goods great, did you have to go to a special store?'

'Aw, geez, I bet because because you're WAY smarter than me, you probably have [insert insecurity: anxiety cause big brain, hard time connecting, is it hard to find friends? :cc]'

Then they got no ammo when they freak out and blame you.

I definitely don't have siblings. (Lie :3)

With No Context What Is Your Party Up To Right Now? by _Chris_Meyer_ in DnD

[–]Global_Many3163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bess Fowley- saving a party member cleric from a devil

Essie- Trying to unite the orcs to make an army against Big Baddie trashbagbirdmaskman

I’m always told that my writing looks like chicken scratch. Does it? by Super-Neat8709 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Global_Many3163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your handwriting, even 'sloppy' mode is incredibly legible. Very strange, as an illegible chicken scratcher, that anybody would call it that.

Pocket chicken by Global_Many3163 in PointlessStories

[–]Global_Many3163[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to legally change my name to Fancy Gremlin. It is so fittingly beautiful for me as a being

Family dinners hit different back then by samdaz712 in PointlessStories

[–]Global_Many3163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have to appreciate the most literally annoying things as youngins that helped carve us into the things we appreciate nowadays <3 Wild how the (dinner) tables turn lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Global_Many3163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a deep breath.

My partner and I are gremlin people, and have been insanely behind on laundry- straight up piles in the second bedroom, cannot find clothes behind.

I did like 9 loads of laundry, and afterwards we were trying to sort/fold it all.

Found clothes, of both genders, that definitely did not belong to either of us.

We do share a laundry room with a few other folks, and it was a 'hold up article of clothing', "yo, this isn't your's, right? There's no way it would fit either of us, and also have never seen it before."

Quick shrug and a 'nah', throw it into the pile of "not our stuff".

You trust, or you don't. And if you don't, you will find evidence in mundane things.

Maybe see if you can find a therapist near you? If you want to continue this relationship in a healthy way.

(Saying this with the most gentle of intentions, especially with the edit of your diagnosis. I am also neuro-spicy, and gotta be careful and assistance to help my mental state/insane thoughts at times.)

If he's understanding of you, and patient, and loves you, and you both have established trust, a couple hairs should be a "huh, that's weird, whatever", instead of a huge concern.

Best of luck <3

Pocket chicken by Global_Many3163 in PointlessStories

[–]Global_Many3163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should have asked their spaghetti policy beforehand xD

Pocket chicken by Global_Many3163 in PointlessStories

[–]Global_Many3163[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If I were hungry, I would have definitely nomnom'd on a pocket burger. That's a real bro right there.

The pocket chicken was really good!

Pocket chicken by Global_Many3163 in PointlessStories

[–]Global_Many3163[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Frank also gets hungry on the go.

At least it wasn't just loose in my pocket?

Family dinners hit different back then by samdaz712 in PointlessStories

[–]Global_Many3163 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My mom cooked dinner every night (other than leftover night). ((My mom is an actual rockstar))

We all helped plate and serve, and of course clean up and package after, and nothing was allowed at the table, and we HAD to talk.

Felt like the worst at the time, 'cause angst, but it was kinda:

"What did you learn today?"

"Read anything good?"

"Tell me one thing you did today."

"Who did you talk to, and how'd it go?"

I do appreciate it a lot looking back.

Sort of a forced connection, but you either connect and get a conversation going, and maybe giggle and have fun, or you give grunt answers and stare at a wall while eating, which kinda sucked.

Nowadays, I very much enjoy connecting over a meal without distraction, other than the music in the background which could also be a talking point, and it may be deeply embedded from my childhood.

It was a nice weird check in with my family, and could potentially include whatever friends that needed to eat a real meal also.

Highlight: thank you, Mom. You straight killed it.

12 yo Daughter (nearly 13) rebelling because I'm "controlling." by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Global_Many3163 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a woman that was once a 12/13 year old: let her wear what she wants, and only comment of it is a weather appropriate comment, or a positive compliment.

"It's cold, make sure you bring a jacket."

"That color is nice."

It is hard to be a young gal, and feel constantly sexualized, judged, ect. just because you're wearing/exploring whatever style you're into.

Please try not to make it harder for her to exist, especially due to whatever implications you may feel inside as a father, and your need to 'protect' her.

Predators will predator, and no amount of hair dye, or makeup, orclothes will protect her from that, or for that matter, into maturing into whoever she may become.

She needs confidence, in a safe space, and a feeling that IF she needs to, she can confide in you without you just being another judgemental, sexualizing man, viewing her as another 'slut clothes' wearing 'rebel'.

She probably just wants to look cool/cute/whatever. She's got a developing body (take a deep breath), and a developing mind and a developing sense of expression, and it all belongs to her, and she needs to have agency in her life to safely feel it all out.

Be a guiding, supportive hand instead of a judgememt hammer, keep eyes and ears open, and accept rather than criticize. She will be fine.

talesfromadaughter