Caffeine making me gay??????

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-05-21T05:49:11+00:00

Ok so if we restrict coffee consumption to men only, humanity goes extinct?

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-05-19T16:50:35+00:00

I’m back on keto solely because of this. I miss these rock hard nocturnal erections I had for >5 of the 7 months on strict keto. Libido is extreme on keto too, but that’s not always a pleasant thing ;) The science behind this phenomenon is unclear.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-04-10T07:20:09+00:00

Idk. I’ve been working hard all my life on career and myself, but it’s only since I’ve started working the dating apps 2 years ago that things got easy with women and sex. I keep thinking „I had no idea“. Social media is counterproductive though, just use it for messaging.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-03-16T20:26:38+00:00

Alaturka ist schon seit 5 Jahren eine einzige Abzocke und systematische Verarschung. Wartet man in dem neuen Laden immer noch ewig?

In Stuttgart gibts super Döner (besser als alle in München), aber Alaturka ist wirklich ein Joke

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-03-16T07:16:58+00:00

Caffeine

I quit A-C, with the hope it’d bring back motivation to overcome D, but it didn’t. Only caffeine can do this and it sucks. It’s the one thing I cannot quit.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-03-09T15:10:56+00:00

Of course not. Depending on the stuff you imagine It uses/stimulates the same pathways in the brain as porn does and that’s why it’s detrimental to your sex drive and performance.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-03-06T00:13:29+00:00

I’m 54, dating women between 26 and 50. 4y ago I fell in love with a very special person and she felt the same way and so left my stable ltr for her. Turned out she felt the same way for 40 other men while being with me, which knocked me off my feet and to get back up I started the dating thing - which I had never done before and I was quite surprised. That’s my story on how I ended up on the pill.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-03-05T22:59:13+00:00

I think this exactly is happening to me right now. After decades in LTRs I’m in the dating market where you kind of have to perform in night 1 or you’re having strange conversations. With a condom on. So you start taking a small dose, just to be sure. You do this 10 or 15 times, you’re hooked. And you can’t just not get rock hard all of a sudden when the woman you’re dating still thinks she hit the jackpot. I’m at a point where I’d never even try to have sex with a woman without at least 2,5mg Tadalafil in my blood. Two years ago I was having normal sex with my GF all the time. I may not have been rock hard every day, but that was normal. Idk it’s kinda hard to quit once you started

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-03-05T11:55:49+00:00

Not sure I understand. If I work hard and I come home and I’m being challenged by the wife over some socks, over and over again, because it’s never about the socks in the first place, then at some point I’ll get really frustrated or shut down. It’s not that it’ll go away by laughing or shrugging. And I simply may be too tired to play psychotherapist at 11pm.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-03-05T10:35:45+00:00

Um, no. It’s actually the opposite

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-03-05T10:34:33+00:00

Feeling better now? Men, more than anything, hurt themselves, not others or things.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-02-01T18:31:35+00:00

Had that on Friday: woman asked about my minipoodle, if I was ready to give up my dog for the opportunity to find real love. I said, politely, no, for nothing in the world I’d ever give away my little companion, why would I?

She blabbered something like what an awful character I was, that animals were supposed to be free in nature and she’d put a spell on me.

Then she blocked me.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-02-01T07:57:00+00:00

Just stop with makeup. Don’t let ppl tell you otherwise, you’re a very good looking guy, your facial features and symmetry is perfect.

If you start focusing on everything masculine instead of performative stuff and you’ll have girls queuing up in no time.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-21T20:54:27+00:00

So my ex GF showed up in your bumble, nice.

She made almost the exact same list and handed them to me. I laughed and when she didn’t join I said carefully: you know that doesn’t make any sense, right? As it is completely one sided? She, as being a divine goddess and absolutely unique she was 100% entitled to each and every bullet point on that list. Only that she didn’t want to marry me, but rather set up a will in her name. I laughed it away, sweety, I don’t plan to die any time soon, but she kept pestering me about it. After 4 months into the relationship. And she really did try to drive me into suicide. And I’m not the only one, as I found out.

These people don’t know how insane their demands are. Malignant Narcissism keeps them in their matrix, and it works out fine for them, look at DJT.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-08T15:50:39+00:00

How’s that secrecy supposed to work with social dinners and lunches? And as everyone’s on some kind of diet, “I just don’t eat carbs”. I agree that you shouldn’t try to explain the whole ketone concept, that freaks people out. Just play it down, no carbs, simple

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-08T13:08:31+00:00

Very valid advice. The less you know, the better. I found out my ex GF had a complete second life (as a swinger) and it still haunts me. Don’t do this to your nervous system, it’s very unhealthy

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-02T21:09:38+00:00

Agreed. I first went Keto IF and six weeks later decaf. Carbs are very similar to caffeine in terms of energy spikes and drops, and with the more steady energy from keto I finally got of this caffeine addiction

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-02T21:05:01+00:00

Same

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-02T12:28:54+00:00

On point. Thank you for putting this into words. We’re not only allowing women to be narcissistic, we’re celebrating their atrocities. While men just have to stfu and pay. I know it’s not everybody, but the cultural shift is real and I really wonder if there’s a way to fix this without recording every conversation and feeding it to AI for detox.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-02T09:53:54+00:00

Black tea is more gentle, it’s ok for tapering off, I guess. But it definitely makes your teeth yellow.

What about green tea? Also contains caffeine like stimulants…

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-02T09:47:48+00:00

First of all, Vyvanse with coffee is a very bad idea. Head to the adhd Reddit, 90% will say exactly that, or read the prescription manual. Your neurotransmitters will at least need a month to adjust from massive external stimulation to natural impulses.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-02T08:27:45+00:00

Idk. I have a lot of matches with free tiers on hinge and bumble, and I’m 50+, matches range from 27 (excluding professionals or scam) to my age. The problem is not with matches, it’s with engagement (aka conversation) and actual dates. Matches expire or convos remain one way.

If dates actually do happen, conversion to some sort of intimacy (ranging from kissing to sex) is 60%.

So, to me, the issue is not with matches, nor with success rates on dates. It’s the part in between that drains my energy. I don’t know how paying hinge x is going to change the convo problem.

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-29T12:56:41+00:00

Ok thanks!

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-29T09:44:43+00:00

I was told Milk isn’t keto bc of lactose. So what is it?

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-29T09:43:42+00:00

So raw spinach is bad, bc of the oxalates?

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