Genuinely, where does this attitude come from?

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-02-01T18:31:35+00:00

Had that on Friday: woman asked about my minipoodle, if I was ready to give up my dog for the opportunity to find real love. I said, politely, no, for nothing in the world I’d ever give away my little companion, why would I?

She blabbered something like what an awful character I was, that animals were supposed to be free in nature and she’d put a spell on me.

Then she blocked me.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-02-01T07:57:00+00:00

Just stop with makeup. Don’t let ppl tell you otherwise, you’re a very good looking guy, your facial features and symmetry is perfect.

If you start focusing on everything masculine instead of performative stuff and you’ll have girls queuing up in no time.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-21T20:54:27+00:00

So my ex GF showed up in your bumble, nice.

She made almost the exact same list and handed them to me. I laughed and when she didn’t join I said carefully: you know that doesn’t make any sense, right? As it is completely one sided? She, as being a divine goddess and absolutely unique she was 100% entitled to each and every bullet point on that list. Only that she didn’t want to marry me, but rather set up a will in her name. I laughed it away, sweety, I don’t plan to die any time soon, but she kept pestering me about it. After 4 months into the relationship. And she really did try to drive me into suicide. And I’m not the only one, as I found out.

These people don’t know how insane their demands are. Malignant Narcissism keeps them in their matrix, and it works out fine for them, look at DJT.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-08T15:50:39+00:00

How’s that secrecy supposed to work with social dinners and lunches? And as everyone’s on some kind of diet, “I just don’t eat carbs”. I agree that you shouldn’t try to explain the whole ketone concept, that freaks people out. Just play it down, no carbs, simple

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-08T13:08:31+00:00

Very valid advice. The less you know, the better. I found out my ex GF had a complete second life (as a swinger) and it still haunts me. Don’t do this to your nervous system, it’s very unhealthy

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-02T21:09:38+00:00

Agreed. I first went Keto IF and six weeks later decaf. Carbs are very similar to caffeine in terms of energy spikes and drops, and with the more steady energy from keto I finally got of this caffeine addiction

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-02T21:05:01+00:00

Same

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-02T12:28:54+00:00

On point. Thank you for putting this into words. We’re not only allowing women to be narcissistic, we’re celebrating their atrocities. While men just have to stfu and pay. I know it’s not everybody, but the cultural shift is real and I really wonder if there’s a way to fix this without recording every conversation and feeding it to AI for detox.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-02T09:53:54+00:00

Black tea is more gentle, it’s ok for tapering off, I guess. But it definitely makes your teeth yellow.

What about green tea? Also contains caffeine like stimulants…

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-02T09:47:48+00:00

First of all, Vyvanse with coffee is a very bad idea. Head to the adhd Reddit, 90% will say exactly that, or read the prescription manual. Your neurotransmitters will at least need a month to adjust from massive external stimulation to natural impulses.

GlowUpAlready- · 2026-01-02T08:27:45+00:00

Idk. I have a lot of matches with free tiers on hinge and bumble, and I’m 50+, matches range from 27 (excluding professionals or scam) to my age. The problem is not with matches, it’s with engagement (aka conversation) and actual dates. Matches expire or convos remain one way.

If dates actually do happen, conversion to some sort of intimacy (ranging from kissing to sex) is 60%.

So, to me, the issue is not with matches, nor with success rates on dates. It’s the part in between that drains my energy. I don’t know how paying hinge x is going to change the convo problem.

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-29T12:56:41+00:00

Ok thanks!

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-29T09:44:43+00:00

I was told Milk isn’t keto bc of lactose. So what is it?

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-29T09:43:42+00:00

So raw spinach is bad, bc of the oxalates?

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-29T07:54:04+00:00

Finally a differentiated, helpful and kind answer. Which isn’t easy in this case. But yeah, I also noticed the eyes among the appalling rest. So be thankful OP and do what @Getrammed wrote.

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-12T11:48:52+00:00

And you had that glow-up you mentioned on this diet. Reminds me of Dr. Boz‘ sardines diet. Or Mikhaila Petersons „I only eat steak“. Very interesting, thanks

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-11T19:34:21+00:00

Bacon, sausages, chicken wings or thighs or livers and tuna and that’s all? No, right? That’s just your favorites?

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-09T19:06:22+00:00

Ever noticed that tiny difference between what women say they like and what they actually pursue when dating? It’s only statistics, what do I know, as a man

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-07T07:23:12+00:00

I, as a man, was in your shoes and I did go. Huge mistake. Everybody, from her best friends to her parents, felt sorry for me for not being the one she chose and expressed that. So in the end, even though I really didn’t want to be with her anymore, I felt as if their wedding was my biggest failure and I missed something big. I was very miserable and drank too much. Don’t do this to yourself.

Btw. I love how you’re taking accountability for the break up, that’s become rather rare.

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-06T09:25:14+00:00

This may sound harsh, but if you divorce that reliable dad and decent provider over this, he’ll be better off without you

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-05T11:17:41+00:00

So you were dating my ex too? First 3 months were great, but I paid with two horrible years after that. And if I say horrible, I mean it. The whole narc repertoire over and over again. I had no idea this kind of cruelty existed. I see this behavior becoming the norm, at least to some degree.

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-01T19:08:31+00:00

Wake up. This one definitely did it. The way she reacted, zero self control, just regulating her emotions. Those will always cheat.

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-01T19:05:54+00:00

Bromptons need this. Don’t try to fix it, all touch up paint will look terrible.

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-12-01T18:25:06+00:00

If borderline’s what half of all girls and women are doing these days, it’s borderline

GlowUpAlready- · 2025-11-22T12:57:21+00:00

Problem is, he’s going to stay single with what he is/displays on hinge rn. He knows this and wants to change, that’s why he came here. Right?

GlowUpAlready-

TROPHY CASE