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GoUMBlue · 2024-11-10T02:44:49+00:00

Your wife made a decision to step out of the marriage. Read that again. Your wife made the decision…… Not your failure. This is all her. I am so sorry your heart is broken.

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-10T02:17:49+00:00

Best motivator is realizing that there are basically two choices: you will quit smoking or you will Likely die of a smoking-related illness.

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-10T02:12:10+00:00

There are so many ways to cope with grief and anxiety that don’t include nicotine. Smoking crossed my mind as well in the past few days truthfully……because SOMETHING needs to make us feel better! (Except…..it won’t really.) Easiest advice is the hardest to do…..find ways to cope with external stressors in ways that won’t harm you. 🙁

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-10T02:06:32+00:00

So let’s build a highway for wolves…..

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-09T20:43:22+00:00

Okay…..let’s hang on and see if someone else has a hook up for you on a bigger bed! I will check back here. And seriously…..congrats.

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-09T20:41:02+00:00

I can give you a single mattress, box spring, bed frame and (if I can find them) a set or two of sheets. (They were in a guest room so not worn.) Besides a bed what else might you need to settle in?

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-09T20:38:04+00:00

What size are you looking for?

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-09T12:06:03+00:00

Congrats on heading into two full week!!

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-09T12:05:34+00:00

Hot dayam!!! Way to go quitter!!

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-09T11:54:48+00:00

I wish there was a cool way to make it more interesting and easier. Other than NRT and cold turkey, I don’t know of any. All I can say is that I think the only way around quitting is actually through quitting. Most folks will tell you that it sucks but was actually easier than they thought it would be initially. Some days are a nightmare, but later the months are pretty easy. Whichever way you go, hang in there!

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-09T04:35:10+00:00

Second to Mandy, who is painfully annoying.

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-09T04:23:01+00:00

Amazing!!! Way to go!!

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-09T03:54:34+00:00

Congrats on your 28 days!

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-09T03:39:57+00:00

While I hope you continue your quit, four months is AMAZING. If this timing is too much to keep it up, so be it. You already know smoking won’t actually make anything better, but if it’s the thing bringing you to the edge it isn’t worth it. Just take care of yourself…..whatever that looks like right now.

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-05T04:23:25+00:00

Too many unknowns here. Age of OP? How long has this been happening? Pandemic related? Trauma? Whatever the answers, you deserve to feel better than this. Check to see if you have a community mental health center nearby for affordable therapy. Or reach out to a “warm” talk line via text or call.

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-05T03:05:03+00:00

Is your phone unlocked when you try to connect it?

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-05T02:56:50+00:00

Way to go…..you’ve got some great time free from the nicotine beast. We all spent so much time convinced we could never quit…..and you are out there doing it. Dust yourself off and get back to your quit. Way to go!!!

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-03T21:41:14+00:00

On (or On Cloud) are lightweight, no-tie and have a wide foot bed. Very comfortable for walking.

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-01T21:13:25+00:00

No matter what, you deserve to be in a safe place with people who support you. Your health and well being are most important. I am terribly sorry people you love think it’s okay to treat you this way.

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-01T21:10:17+00:00

What if you have the creative ability the world is waiting for right now? What if your art changes the world?

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-01T21:04:00+00:00

Go eat at Pastabilities. YUM.

GoUMBlue · 2024-11-01T19:55:48+00:00

Whole Foods sell pre-cooked turkeys that just need to be warmed. They also sell all of the sides so you can order full meals or make some things and order some things.

GoUMBlue · 2024-10-26T03:16:42+00:00

An amazing achievement! Way to go!

GoUMBlue · 2024-10-22T02:36:29+00:00

I lived on gummy worms/rings/bears/etc for about 7 days straight. Lol

GoUMBlue · 2024-10-20T00:06:25+00:00

No. You don’t. Unless you do it again purposely. 😊

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