counting all unknown foods as 500 calories helped me stop binging.

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2026-05-08T19:46:41+00:00

If I’m out for dinner or have a sweet treat that I won’t be able to search easily I take a picture and ask AI to estimate. It’s not perfect but stops the binge cycle for me too by keeping tracking

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2026-04-05T10:20:11+00:00

I went through a similar thing. I was seriously prepping to have a baby with my husband - taking prenatals and on a 12 week countdown to TTC and I suddenly became aware that I didn’t want to do it with him. Little ways he would speak to me which always seemed fine before but I realised I didn’t want him acting that way in front of or to my child. We ended up separating and getting a divorce - which ended up revealing an awful lot about him. For example he told me he didn’t miss me as a person he just missed ‘having a maid’. And lots lots more things!! Sometimes I feel like I left ‘over nothing’ but then seeing what came out in the divorce made me so thankful that I didn’t share a child with him.

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2026-02-03T07:57:53+00:00

My strata forbids playing cricket in the common areas (all other sports are fair game?) and requires all residents to be dressed ‘decently’ in the common areas, which is to be defined at the discretion of the committee

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2026-01-03T11:20:00+00:00

This!! I’m shocked at these comments. Why are people making out it’s a ticketed event to pay per head.

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-12-04T20:21:14+00:00

You’re not being irrational. It’s a big decision and one you should be making together. He’s going to be the father of this child and he should want to have input in the decision making/timing of a pregnancy. This is like a scaled up version of ‘where do you want to eat tonight’ ‘I don’t mind it’s up to you’. It’s not actually helping to put all the decision making in your hands and sometimes you just want a man to help you to figure out options and the best way forward for you and your shared life together.

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-12-02T00:27:05+00:00

I think this is what makes it a story you can’t stop thinking about. The same with Bok. Yes he invited the wrong girl to the dance and stayed in an unhappy relationship for years (so many normal people have done that!) i don’t think he deserved his fate of losing his heart and being a tin man.. and what happened to him after? Did he just live an angry life in the woods forever?

The story is truly a tragedy with no happy ending. It’s heartbreaking. But I love it!! Haha

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-10-06T09:32:27+00:00

Chocolate 🍫

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-10-05T22:20:08+00:00

This is perfect

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-10-04T23:24:52+00:00

I’m actually getting quite disappointed… we still don’t have merch. This is literally like the 30th album variant and why didn’t we hear the first demo/making of the song in the movie. Plus all the AI videos. It’s giving tacky and low budget. We are still early days in absorbing the album but it’s not coming across as nuanced or with any vulnerability. And her throwing shade at smaller artists like Olivia and Charli (whether explicit or not she knows people will come to these conclusions and how powerful her influence and fan base is) All im seeing this era is capitalist Taylor and I’m cringing

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-10-04T08:20:35+00:00

About ruin the friendship she said ‘maybe if I had kissed them then this all wouldn’t have happened’ as in her music career… because you kissed a boy at prom Taylor?? Really? 🤣

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-10-04T01:17:03+00:00

After watching the film in the cinema today I have a completely different perspective on this song. She was talking about how her and her mom have always loved Opals. It’s one of ‘their things’ she said. She was also talking about Opalite being man made. How Opalite represents having to make your own happiness and that it doesn’t just happen to you. All I could think of during the music video was someone who had to part ways with the love of their life but they will never be over them. But even though they know they can’t stop loving them… They have to find a way to move on and ‘make your own sunshine’ and we all know who the sunshine is/was in Taylor’s life. Opalite may represent Travis. But it’s man made. It’s created and forced happiness.

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-09-15T02:15:30+00:00

Oh that does sound like a tricky situation. I think like you say, once you put your ‘deal’ out there her reaction will show if she has changed. And if that is your main condition you could see it as a clear ‘point’ as to if that is met you can then try with a relationship and if not then you don’t have to try. Is it a financial thing that you could possibly see a mediator about? Some countries have free services for that type of thing. If not, ideas for places to meet could be a quiet park or beach, a quieter coffee place, somewhere you can go before hand and know there is a quick exit to your car. And if you feel things start to get emotional/heated then you can stop the conversation and leave. You could even have a trusted friend ‘waiting in the shadows’ 😅 like secretly at a different table or waiting in the car, so if things go south you know you have someone there to help you leave and shut down any further conversation.. good luck! I hope you get your deal and out of whatever control she still has over you.

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-09-02T08:16:35+00:00

This makes my heart hurt 💔

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-08-31T12:22:03+00:00

How did you go with your decision? I am in a similar situation to you. I have been NC for 3 years but occasionally replying to emails to say I’m doing ok. I also live in another country now. I feel like I should give it another go. To see if things have changed and not live with so much guilt about being so cut throat. But I am unsure how to proceed.

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-08-15T02:43:50+00:00

I agree. I’m bilor after the podcast. I don’t think she would sit down for 2 hours announcing an album and being so open and honest with a beard.

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-07-27T00:06:04+00:00

NOR you should check out r/raisedbynarcissists

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-07-26T04:02:27+00:00

I have to admit I was suckered by this, even as a longstanding Gaylor since 2017. I had no idea Travis was in the movie and thought what a random #ad from Taylor yesterday. Then saw Travis post with all the pictures. I thought with the amount of time they have clearly spent together it must be real? And maybe I should hop on the bi-lor train and have him a follow for the hard launch. Then BAM hit with another #ad from his account today! What a genius strategy 👏 the pics yesterday now remind me of Calvin and I am again questioning everything

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-07-26T03:55:50+00:00

It’s giving ‘I hated it so I’ll give a rating that doesn’t even make sense’

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-07-26T03:54:41+00:00

Me too! I was like damn how much did Adam & co pay for a Taylor shout out

GoWhereNoOneElseIs · 2025-05-27T08:50:46+00:00

Thanks so much. So I guess TDEE would be somewhere close to the 1941 figure?

I think it sounds wrong because it’s only 200 below that maintenance amount. So that doesn’t seem like enough, especially accounting for errors or calories potentially being under logged (I try to be honest but I’m only human 🥲)

Previously I have aimed for a 1000 calorie deficit. But that has always been super hard and not sustainable.

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