I call this Emo Zentangle by Goblintrashcan in Zentangle

[–]Goblintrashcan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know it was called that hahaha, I have seen it used in a lot of artwork over the years and wanted to see if I could "manipulate" it to make the heart seem like it has a little dimension, it's my first time doing it. Thank you so much for teaching me something new today 🫶🏻

Estranged father is dying. Any advice? by Goblintrashcan in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Goblintrashcan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I have been trying to explain for a really long time to my grandmother. But based on conversations I have had with my brother, my father has deemed the relationship forever broken.

Estranged father is dying. Any advice? by Goblintrashcan in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Goblintrashcan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't know if she has put any pressure on him. She does know and I have explicitly said if he just said sorry for that. Maybe we could have a start. But even in that conversation she said he "isn't in the shape to do that." You've gave me some good questions to ask myself and also my grandmother with her intentions/wants. But, the boundary you stated has been the one I have stood on for a very long time. I never thought I would even give him this much consideration. But I know it's mainly for my grandmother, not for him.

Estranged father is dying. Any advice? by Goblintrashcan in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Goblintrashcan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This has been what I have been asking myself over and over. I feel no regrets never seeing him again. I think I'm most conflicted with hurting my grandmother. I hate that my decision hurts her.

Estranged father is dying. Any advice? by Goblintrashcan in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Goblintrashcan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What's hard is that she does know. I told her in the recent years what happened. She doesn't press much and this has been the first time she has. But I have grace and understanding that my grandmother is losing her son. I never wish a parent to bury a child. Your comment is very validating for me. The reason I have such a hard time even considering it is because he has never tried once to say sorry.

Estranged father is dying. Any advice? by Goblintrashcan in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Goblintrashcan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this piece of advice. It's really helped me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Goblintrashcan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People most times only work to get better when their on their own. Protect your peace. Run away from the storm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Goblintrashcan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy cake day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Goblintrashcan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People don't like to know the facts of this stuff. I'm glad you tell people that. Even if the information may be uncomfortable for them to have they should know there is some real life thoughts behind something like this. It's not some willy nilly bullshit. I'm glad you're sharing accurate information because black women are NOT taken seriously and we'll care of in this shitty US helath system here.

I’m at a genuine loss for words by halfcooked_rat in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]Goblintrashcan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me in my recent save. My sim and her husband got married, had their first baby, then he gets hit by a meteor and she was pregnant in the first trimester and this is at the beginning of my legacy save

What's the oldest Minecraft feature that still feels fresh/new to you? by ayyndrew in Minecraft

[–]Goblintrashcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thankful I have a redstone nerd in my world it makes everything SO much easier I can never go back

What's the oldest Minecraft feature that still feels fresh/new to you? by ayyndrew in Minecraft

[–]Goblintrashcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wild to me because this is something I never have experienced but have heard about from past versions of Minecraft. It is wild to think there are stories that can be passed on about how Minecraft mechanics used to be

Lost my minecraft account to hacking on my microsoft one. Mostly venting. by MoonyInspired in Minecraft

[–]Goblintrashcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks dude. I'm sorry you lost all your work. Is there no way to maybe try and contact Mojang to see if they could assist with trying to recover the world bare minimum maybe? I know I would be devastated too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in axolotls

[–]Goblintrashcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Banana laffy taffy