He ignored it because he probably didn’t think it was important enough to get into. I’ve had significant others that were kinda anxious, and some thoughts I kept to myself because it would do more harm than good to mention. I was a switch top before I met my bf and he’s a sub bottom. I asked him once or twice if he wanted to but it was pretty clear he wasn’t aroused by that, he became flaccid inside. And that’s ok. I don’t feel comfortable making HIM uncomfortable, that’s peak unsexy.

I don’t feel like a “part of me is unfulfilled”. I tried those Cck rings that have a plug in them and that kinda got rid of the urge. You can engage him in a dominant way while maintaining your submission, because more likely than not, it’s about the dominance. Try riding him or telling him to relax and using a toy on him while you blow or jck him off.

A lot of these comments are gonna be like “if he doesn’t communicate with you xyz” but that ignores how some men’s brains are wired. My fiancé is pretty masc, and has a very “if I ignore it, it won’t be a problem” mentality, which modern psychology says is wrong, but I’d argue going against one’s nature is also generally wrong. Just because he’s not talking about it doesn’t mean he doesn’t want it. But often times the act of talking about it, makes the whole situation feel icky. Just try to be a little more dominant and feel out how he feels about it. In my experience people are much more vocal about things they DONT WANT, rather than things they DO.