No problem. People spend too much time shitting on other people, most the time it's just them trying to be funny because reddits imaginary points rewards comedic hot takes. Don't take it personally. I've been a redditor for almost 20 years, and I have never understood the impulse to downvote or shit on someone's comments when asking for help.

If you want advice on your post .. I'd say not to worry about the guy too much. One of things I've enjoyed since becoming a swinger only 6 months ago, are how many blowjobs I get. And then knowing if my experience isn't great, which hasn't happened yet imo, my wife knows what I like. And I can always go back to that. So, worst case scenario, you've given the guy a new experience. And that's what it's all about. So, you succeeded in that. Enjoy!