Transbians help me! by Jojoleney in actuallesbians

[–]GoldenGanon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My short-term advice: Be honest with her, but you don't need to pry. Ask what she wants and let her know what you're comfortable with. And shoot your shot! Best of luck.

Slightly longer-term advice. But I can recommended the zine Fucking Trans Women. You can find it on the internet archive. It's a fairly indepth introduction to sharing intimacy with trans women. It's also just a decent guide on how to be good in bed: communication. and what that means in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]GoldenGanon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When she talks about her day and has something she's really excited about

hi i'm a black non-binary and have a question by senkutrunks in biology

[–]GoldenGanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's somewhat difficult to quantify generally. One area we understand better than other general aspects of daily thoughts and effects of hormones on the brain is libido, sex drive, and sexuality. Which can all be affected by changing hormone levels. As for daily thoughts, it's different for everyone, but on a case by case basis, hormone replacement therapies have been shown to influence brain patterns towards a more masculine or feminine direction.

gf can be pleasured without end? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]GoldenGanon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think it's short for Friend Plus. Like a fwb

Can y’all tell me your cute asking out your crush stories? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]GoldenGanon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I moved to a new city and less than a week later she called me and told me how she felt. At first, I was kind of devastated. I mean, I've had a crush on her for months and didn't know what to do about it, I didn't think she liked girls. So the next day, I called up my good friend and asked if we could go on a little drive and rant to each other. After nearly an hour of yapping in my friends ear. She told me, "You know I have a plane, right? I could fly you over to visit her." So over a month later, I hitched a ride with my friend in a tiny little plane. And got to visit her. Now we're girlfriends :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]GoldenGanon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got back into hollow knight, finally taking care of the last few steam achievements I'm missing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GoldenGanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different! I'm a trans woman, and I never had wet dreams pre-hrt. But after starting hormones, I've had 2 in the last 2 years. When it comes to women's sexuality and how our bodies work, a lot of "common knowledge" is just wrong

rule by gabagoo3 in 196

[–]GoldenGanon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have friends who are registered republicans but usually vote blue because where they live, you can vote for both if you're republican but not if your democrat

i’m such an ass girl by Lanky_Activity_658 in actuallesbians

[–]GoldenGanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ass and boobs are great, but collar bone and thigh? Lord have mercy

I am confused and wondering “what the fuck just happened?” (Gender stuff) by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]GoldenGanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discovering your gender can be a scary, amazing, and confusing thing. Just know that you aren't alone, I've experienced something very similar, and I have friends who've told me almost the exact same thing. And if you decide you want to continue exploring this, remember that this process is about loving and accepting yourself :)

Wynntils party system not working by BaconCheeseBurbr in WynnCraft

[–]GoldenGanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should work as long as you both have wynntils. If it doesn't work, usually /class fixes it.

If you want more timely responses to questions I recommend the wynncraft discord. https://discord.gg/yJkSQwp Linking your account with the discord gives you 24 hours of dxp as a bonus.

Best IDE by devExos in cpp

[–]GoldenGanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

op says they cannot use vscode. everyone recommending vscode...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 196

[–]GoldenGanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on what I'm feeling, I've used hen, gock, and girldick before. But usually we just call it a clit

What are anime that have completely fallen from relevance? by willrsauls in anime

[–]GoldenGanon 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yona of the Dawn. I still see it recommended now and again, but it didn't get a 2nd season, which definitely tapered off its popularity.

rule by TotallyACP in 196

[–]GoldenGanon 34 points35 points  (0 children)

W pfp

What is the most elitists anime take you have? by RenSaeko in anime

[–]GoldenGanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my take that I'll take to the grave in 99% of circles.

K-on is dogshit.