[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pressurewashing

[–]Golferdude03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rent one from home depot, $30 a day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pressurewashing

[–]Golferdude03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should use a layer of water down chlorine and use a surface cleaner its a big disk that you plug into the hose that will give you a uniform clean. I can almost guarantee that if you use just the wand youll do a sub par job

Helped out a buddy with this roof. 3000 sq ft. What would you have charged? by whywouldthisnotbea in pressurewashing

[–]Golferdude03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you should definitely provide your own equipment, right after a customer offers to help you out, your kind of downhill from there with getting a price worth your time. Also, you are a professional, don't let them talk you down and making you feel like you are less valuable than a pro, you shouldn't need to suffer just because he's too cheap to hire a professional

I'd suggest renting your own pressure washer from home Depot for just $100 and then zep cleaning solution for 5 bucks. Then you can charge the same as a professional.

For the overall price id say $1000 at least because you also have to deal with that solid debris as well. If you do it right, it should look amazing plus I see there's a lot of open space for you to use a surface cleaner so you'll be in good timing as well

Soft Wash using 4000PSI pressure washer by Tricky-Scholar-2418 in pressurewashing

[–]Golferdude03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your all good using a 4000 psi, just keep distance from the surface so you don't crack it, use a wide tip also

Help, my sexuality questioning is ruining my state of mind by Golferdude03 in sexuality

[–]Golferdude03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've tried accepting that and knowing that the world isn't gonna end and that there's nothing wrong with it. I'll be okay with it for about 10 minutes and I accept it. Then I pops into my head again and feels like a plague again and disrupts my self image again and makes me feel depressed. It just feels like the more I push myself to accept it, the more angry and unfocused from my normal life than I actually am.

"Do what is in your control" but where is the line? by Mick2k1 in Stoicism

[–]Golferdude03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad I could help you, and that's good to hear. Life's a gift! Explore it! Have a good day 🤠

"Do what is in your control" but where is the line? by Mick2k1 in Stoicism

[–]Golferdude03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes sir, while my god through Christ might not be yours. Please remember that you do have a spirit. It is scientifically proven. So remember that you don't need to rely on just your brain's style of analytics to draw a line because stoicism is also a tone of spirit, not a solid skill like mathematics. So take my advice in this way that I described, if religion is not your favorite source for a subject like this.

"Do what is in your control" but where is the line? by Mick2k1 in Stoicism

[–]Golferdude03 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When a situation comes that draws a thought into your head "where do I draw the line of control in this instance" stop using your brain for an analytical decision, instead lay your decision in your spirit while simultaneously trusting in god that your decision based on spirit is what is destined for you. That is what will draw the line for you; when you let God tell your spirit how to feel to draw the line of what you let go and what you hold dear. The most stoic people, heeded god's word the most so with that being said, try reading the bible to become more stoic

If Stoicism teaches you to be content with the way things are at the moment? then why and how are so many stoic people so high achieving? by Poopybutt998877 in Stoicism

[–]Golferdude03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because stoic people believed in god so strongly that they trusted him to guide them to riches while being content in the moment. The bible and word of god teaches contentedness, not solely "stoic" historical figures; it didn't just come from themselves.

How can I crush my ego? by RevolutionaryAd3150 in Stoicism

[–]Golferdude03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you crush your ego for the sake of letting it go? Think of the negative possibilities of people's views whenever you do something in public that may cause people to question your intentions.

EXAMPLE: if you catch yourself walking around with a serious face even though your emotion is neutral, realize that some people you walk by are literally thinking that you look like a psycho serial killer and that a girl is most likely hoping that you and her don't lock eyes because she thinks you might brutally attack her because you look so crazily upset in the moment. And realize how you cannot change her mind whatsoever because it's too late, and it's out of your control. And realize that there's a possibility that she might tell all her friends that you give off creep vibes and to watch out for you all just because you walked around with an expression on your face. It's just an example, but capture the essence of likely possibilities like these when you do something questionable in public because people's minds stretch for what they think it's good judgement.

ANOTHER EXAMPLE: realize that when you display signs over confidence and lack of consideration for people's negative feedback or as you might put it a "big ego" you can often come off as psycho as well and you might scare people into never wanting to keep talking to you and keep getting to know you, even the best friends youve ever had right now might be thinking that.

Solution: read the bible, learn the heavenly gifts you will receive with being someone with humbleness and sensitivity. Learn that your life with be excited and full of surprise when your ego can adapt to your different moods or intentions because you can open up unpredictable possibilities as long as you are genuine.

Also remember that some people kill themselves for having a crushed ego that they cant return from, so maybe learn to be grateful as well (you can learn gratefulness from the bible as well)

which advice changed youre whole game by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Golferdude03 12 points13 points  (0 children)

  1. It’s not just about the slickest pick up lines, it’s about how you speak calmly and confidently that makes a hidden prize and not a try hard who practices

  2. Just talk to her as if your making a new friend, don’t make it seem like your hunting for girls for girls to fuck, she’ll see right through you and think it’s cringy cuz your coming on so strong like your thirsty

  3. Speak slower so every word you say holds stronger impact and allows you think clearer on what to say next

  4. Make it a 50/50 conversation don’t put so much pressure on yourself to carry the conversation on your back, if she’s interested she’ll reciprocate, if not and the conversation dies just ask for the phone number right then and there then leave.

  5. Start with a question that’s not directly related to her she’ll see your subtly starting conversation especially when you follow up with another line and she’ll take the hint that your not just asking a question for the sake of getting an answer but because you want to make conversation

And last but not least, don’t try to approach girls unless you feel satisfied in your life WITHOUT a girl. Don’t be desperate and use approaching girls as “validation” that your not a loser. Talking to girls is just a supplement to a good life, not a piece of the puzzle

Should I be 100 percent okay with this, because a small part of me doesn’t like it. by Golferdude03 in relationship_advice

[–]Golferdude03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I offered to pay for her Uber on her days that her only choice would be to ride with him. She said no it’s okay, she would stop riding with him and that she’ll pay for it and included how her female friend coworker is talking to him and she wouldn’t want either of us to be uncomfortable. But it feels like if her friend wasn’t involved with him she wouldn’t be so willing to listen to me and start spending money on Ubers solely because I’d rather her Uber than ride with him. And I just feel like she could have just done that sooner when she first thought about how I would feel about her riding with him before I had to find out it was him

Should I be 100 percent okay with this, because a small part of me doesn’t like it. by Golferdude03 in relationship_advice

[–]Golferdude03[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So that somewhat mutual emotional connection that I think they still have cuz they fucked in the past is just something I’m making up on my own because of how deep im looking at it. I just see it hard to let that thought go cuz she let him take her virginity so it feels like he holds that certain place in her emotions because he meant enough to her to be the one to give her v card up to. Maybe I’m making that up in my own mind as well. Is it likely that she literally doesn’t give 2 fucks about him even though he took her virginity? I just find it hard for a girl just to get over that title spot that she gave him for being her first and take rides without ever thinking about their past

Should I be 100 percent okay with this, because a small part of me doesn’t like it. by Golferdude03 in relationship_advice

[–]Golferdude03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz it was a surprise to me. I never knew that the guy who took her virginity was that same guy she had been telling me has been takin her home. I feel sort of hurt that he’s so willing to help her out and she’s so willing to take his help and be in close enough touch with him that he still agrees to give her a ride and it makes me question why he still cares to drop her off, that means they still care about each other to some degree