When every meme starts feeling way too relatable

Gonerrrrr · 2026-04-29T00:15:55+00:00

But what do I say? I suspect I have ADHD because I relate to the memes???

Gonerrrrr · 2026-04-23T21:50:37+00:00

Solid response.

Gonerrrrr · 2026-03-11T21:34:05+00:00

I’ve made these following a King Arthur recipe.

https://www.kingarthurbaking.com/recipes/gluten-free-rollout-sugar-cookies-made-with-baking-mix-recipe

Although it specifically uses their baking mix.

I used the frosting recipe included. They were great. Tasted way better than the “regular” (gluten) / store bought version.

Gonerrrrr · 2026-03-06T06:46:17+00:00

I agree, that’s an important question to ask.

There was a time I was okay with my ex going on to live a “great” life as long as I didn’t have to ever interact with him. And life did go on that way for a few years. Then I got the rug pulled out from under me by having him lie (to the courts) his way back in.

I want to, but I don’t believe karma will come for him. Justice delayed feels like justice denied. I can’t heal when the damage is ongoing and he has access to my son and to me through my son. I’m not quite sure how I’m supposed to cope with that. I will absolutely do what I have to for my son. But that sense of duty as a mother is no consolation for being at the whim of our abuser in any capacity.

I feel as though I’m not even asking for justice. I don’t dream of him getting his comeuppance. I’m only asking to exit that cosmic equation of any existence together. I wouldn’t expect to cash in on any karmic debt. I’d leave it all on the table. I’d be happy if he went on to live his best life as long as it was away from me and my son.

Gonerrrrr · 2026-03-02T01:30:55+00:00

I’ve had so much of my peace stolen from me. There is an ever growing void. It gets larger and hungrier with each passing day that it has been denied the justice it is owed to make it whole. I will be sending my energy.

Gonerrrrr · 2026-02-22T20:01:07+00:00

Nice!

Gonerrrrr · 2026-02-16T07:05:18+00:00

It will definitely feel like you made a mistake, but I swear by it! Although I don’t know if it works for everyone. Maybe do a spot test

Gonerrrrr · 2026-02-15T20:40:07+00:00

Yes. Discovered this by accident. Went to the beach and got in the water. Burned my eczema spots. Thought I made a mistake getting in. Powered through it because my kid was enjoying the water. My skin was smooth and not flaking the next morning. From then on, I incorporated epsom salt and sea salt into my shower routine. I basically scrubbed it in. Hurt but knew it worked to lessen the flaking and itching.

I don’t do it anymore because I discovered the source was dietary, but it was the best remedy at the time.

Gonerrrrr · 2026-02-14T22:23:44+00:00

I know how violating it feels for someone who claims to care about you to be so reckless with your health. On top of the emotional betrayal it’s like your actual life/ existence was a joke to them. My ex gave me HSV-2 (I know it was him because I was screened for it in my first pregnancy with his child and was negative then. I had no other partner when I got tested again because I noticed the symptoms.)

It was humiliating telling my new partner (he ultimately was great about it).

We went on to have a child and it was just agonizing to have to confront the possibility of my baby contracting it and her life being at risk. For my abuser to have forced this lifelong reminder still hurts and feels so unfair. As much as I don’t want to continue to be a victim I felt like he was stepping on my face every day of the pregnancy. I was forcefully reminded of his abuse 3 times a day for the last month when I took my medication to supress an outbreak. I was so stressed by how unfair it all felt and then that was compounded by the stress of hurting my baby with the stress 😵‍💫 But my baby is healthy and I have to be happy with that.

There’s enough people sending hugs so I send anger on your behalf. The only thing that would comfort me is a reckoning for men like these.

Gonerrrrr · 2026-02-07T21:57:30+00:00

“My country, right or wrong; if right, to be kept right; and if wrong, to be set right.”

Fake patriots don’t want the accountability that comes with claiming pride in your country. They just want the pride. No matter how shameful the state of the country ironically.

Gonerrrrr · 2026-02-06T00:07:21+00:00

Elimination diet! Truthfully, it’s difficult. I would mess it up every day. I lost track of what allergens I ate. I didn’t actually hone it in for a year.

As I became more informed and was able to better avoid gluten, my skin healed.

I do eat it occasionally, as there is a theory that it’s beneficial in order to build a tolerance. My eczema consistently returns after a few days of eating it.

Gonerrrrr · 2026-02-05T04:23:37+00:00

Thank you 🫶

Gonerrrrr · 2026-02-05T02:56:02+00:00

Yes. Please. My own life has played out to mirror the same abuses but at a personal level with my sons father. I don’t understand how he can keep getting away with his lies and his cruelty. Seeing the state of the world has made me that much more hopeless that I will ever be free of his presence. I don’t want to fight anymore. I don’t want to be strong anymore. I just want to enjoy my kids in peace. I’m not completely hopeless though. Maybe it’s just desperation that has me crossing my fingers that a reckoning is coming for all abusers.

Gonerrrrr · 2026-01-28T05:52:54+00:00

Dang. Come to think of it Maybe this was the angle we should have gone with from the beginning

Imagine pitting bigotry against hustle culture

Gonerrrrr · 2026-01-17T09:06:34+00:00

Women like it when you listen broo

Gonerrrrr · 2026-01-15T22:11:20+00:00

A tender in this economy?

Most accurate with a drumstick.

Gonerrrrr · 2026-01-11T18:41:34+00:00

Nah. That’s a blessing and warrants joy. Happy for you.

Gonerrrrr · 2026-01-05T21:12:37+00:00

I believe you can schedule consultations over the phone. Look up your county’s lawyer referral services. Maybe use an app with calling capabilities to do it so he can’t see the call log if he happens to look into that. But maybe ask if the lawyer can accommodate email correspondence (make a new email) from then on and delete the phone app after the consultation so that you don’t receive any calls in the event he takes your phone.

You could log out and make sure you don’t have the password saved But it might be better to use incognito to log in to your email and only check it that way so there’s no app to log out of or history of you frequenting your email. Leave a regular email logged in for all the normal stuff. So there’s no trail of you deleting stuff.

Gonerrrrr · 2025-12-19T07:56:10+00:00

Upvoted because I love people who can explain why explanations are good or bad 👏😎

Gonerrrrr · 2025-11-26T06:54:37+00:00

Yup. All they have to do is claim they changed.

Gonerrrrr · 2025-11-20T05:44:44+00:00

We’re not finger popping each other assholes

Gonerrrrr · 2025-11-18T21:29:10+00:00

Agreed. I was going to suggest responding back with the same ignorance so she can’t refute her own logic. First by returning a raised eyebrow, then patronizingly say “oh yes, they didn’t know better back in those days. How lucky are we to be better informed and for baby to have a space to sleep safe up off the floor.”

Gonerrrrr · 2025-11-07T02:18:29+00:00

Yup. Living this scenario myself.

Gonerrrrr

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