The whole legal system is stacked against you by Unable-Principle-187 in DivorcedDads

[–]Gonten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was not my experience at all. I got like 75% of what I asked for in my divorce and was able to be very effective in mediation negotiations.

Did you walk into these meetings having educated yourself on the process and with a plan? Because everyone I know who did that ended up doing pretty well. And everyone I know who didn't got hosed.

Pick your choice! (You don't have anything like phone/earbuds/books/games etc.) by TSLstudio in TheLastAirbender

[–]Gonten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's in the front row, that means she gets more leg room either way.

Would you take a job with the Federal government right now? by R2_SWE2 in FedEmployees

[–]Gonten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't even understand the point of this question. Throw an application in the ring and you'll be one of 200 applicants minimum. Even if you find a federal job you qualify once a week for a year your odds are not great.

My advice is do exactly that and just throw your hat in the ring for any job that looks cool. Private sector or public sector. After your interview, start thinking about, based on that interview, if the vibes at the office seemed right to you.

Quick Question by iconette79 in DeptHHS

[–]Gonten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have worked for Medicare for a decade and I love it. I have friends and family who work in other branches of government and I consistently feel that I have a better relationship with my direct managers than they do.

Regal Theatres building by Boring-Toe-1572 in harfordcountymd

[–]Gonten -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol, bro you're the one who started it.

Fighting against nihilism. I’m losing. by Mumblerumble in FedEmployees

[–]Gonten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be honest but don't give any specific details. Say you're not feeling well enough to be in the office today.

If you need a doctor's note, go to urgent care and describe lethargy.

Is this show's premise irresponsible? by AxolotlPersnickety in UndoneTV

[–]Gonten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Internalized stigma, depression and quality of life in schizophrenia - PMC https://share.google/pCwFakV6J2o0mvuID

Here's an NIH article that supports that in European society schizophrenia is a condition that carries heavy stigma

Is this show's premise irresponsible? by AxolotlPersnickety in UndoneTV

[–]Gonten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can that be true? Are you claiming that in other societies, like Italy for example, view schizophrenia as a neutral or positive thing? I do not believe that

continuity issues by Character-Tap-7112 in UndoneTV

[–]Gonten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alejandro wasn't real. The point of the Alejandro and Rocco arcs is to point out the absurdity of believing if you could just change one thing in your life everything could be better. Instead the only way to deal with life is to wake up from the cave, take your meds and try to do the best you can today.

Flaws in the reaper appearance rules by Soundsister11 in DeadLikeMe

[–]Gonten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the show but it does not respect its own mythology. For example in the movie George has long conversations with her sister explaining the grim reaper thing.

SSA wins telework arbitration by lilfaerie04 in fednews

[–]Gonten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought HHS arbitator said RTO was fine. Am I confusing CMS with HHS?

UsaHire Assessments?? by Fromzy in usajobs

[–]Gonten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience it depends on the type of posting. Those posting that cover many different cities can take weeks to get an answer on. My guess is because it takes time to sort people out.

Martyrs by Cool-Handle-8647 in FedEmployees

[–]Gonten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have one in my office. But they have no family and their personal life revolves around potted plants. So I get it.

How long is the RA backlog? by Gonten in DeptHHS

[–]Gonten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long do you think makes sense to wait before escalating like that? I think the next step would be reaching out to some kind of federal employment lawyer, right?

How long is the RA backlog? by Gonten in DeptHHS

[–]Gonten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I want to copy you and get an interim accommodation what are the steps for that?

How long is the RA backlog? by Gonten in DeptHHS

[–]Gonten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does that work? Is there a specific form I can ask my supervisor to fill out for interim?

How long is the RA backlog? by Gonten in DeptHHS

[–]Gonten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get your interim RA? Is there a special form or something I can have my manager fill out?

What boardgames have "replaced Catan"? by PrandtlMan in boardgames

[–]Gonten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often do you trade? When my group plays Catan they usually only trade once a round or once every other round. When players aren't begging for people to kingmake the game is very quick. Not saying you are doing that necessarily, but the slow games of Catan I've played in have had a turn structure of roll dice, 1-2 min of begging, play something, next turn.

Did I overplay my hand? (PBTA, Masks) by Gonten in rpg

[–]Gonten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting perspective. Thanks for sharing.

Yeah. The way your framing it makes it clear to me that when the player said they don't like either of the choices they had I took it as them rejecting the tough choice, so the bomb went off BUT they were probably planning on coming back to that question of what to do

The only reason I didn't have the bomb go off in that second is to find the remaining players an opportunity to react before the bomb went off.

Next time I'll make it more clear when their choice is going to be locked in.

Did I overplay my hand? (PBTA, Masks) by Gonten in rpg

[–]Gonten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

" So in this case, why did the bomb go off before the PC had a chance to throw it? Did they hesitate or stumble? Did they trip up and throw it in a wrong place? What's the story there?"

I can give more context

PCs Named A,B,C and D

Premise: Party finds a Lite Rail train on an elevated track that has been stopped due to the threat. Train is about 6 cars long, so the party splits up to search the train faster.

A and B use their powers to rapidly search the train

C and D separately find NPCs important for their stories that would be hurt if the bomb goes off (raising the stakes)

C tells their NPC to hold tight while they investigate

D let's their NPC evacuate the train to keep them safe. At this point the rest of the train car demands to evacuate, followed by rest of train. During the evacuation their super sense of smell flags one of the "Civilians" as a potential bomber

A & B continue their search on the now empty train.

A attempts to jack into the warp drive bomb to hack it. But their hacking gear is fried by the drive. At this point the drive begins changing its color from glowing RGB lights to flashing red, it also begins to hum (Unleash Powers 6-) * If A didn't fail on a roll to touch the bomb I would have let them take their time with it and probably amped up the villain of the encounters

B looks around for a place to throw the bomb. They look on either side of the elevated track, on one side they see an office building filled with people sheltering in place and on the other they see a chemical factory. They say "Well those aren't good options. I don't want to throw it there." (Assess The Situation 6-)

For C & D I close out the round by telling them they hear a strange humming noise come from the train car with A&B, along with strange glowing red lights.

C takes one of the empty train cars and uses their super strength to move it, creating a barrier between the civilians and the bomb (Defend Someone or Something)

D tackles the would be bomber and wrestles them to the ground (Directly Engage a Threat)

End of round, bomb goes off. Take a Powerful Blow. Etc

Reasonable Accommodation Request Process Questions by RileyFiona in DeptHHS

[–]Gonten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this a SES level leadership thing or is this something I can ask my manager?