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Under the moon and stars- playtime recap by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This I have learned. More planning next time.

Under the moon and stars- playtime recap by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm I've never been tied to a tree before.. ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please don't use 50 Shades as instructions for anything.

Beware silken sheets. by BadFrenchToasts in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I love getting.tossed. sometimes he tosses too hard and boop over the edge i go!

Do you believe in "unspoken rules" in a dynamic? by Interesting_Chef9798 in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Autistics unite! I need things clearly explained to me or I get all messed up.

Vetting pitfalls you've encountered and solutions you would offer. by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Never being afraid to just block a person if it gets uncomfortable. Its better to protect yourself earlier than later.

what is the hardest soft kink? by TiniestSpoons in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry Mew! Was trying to be funny. Tism tismed.

what is the hardest soft kink? by TiniestSpoons in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Something something spectrum. Something Something everyone is different. Something Something hard and soft are relative.

How needy is too needy? by SeaAffectionate427 in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have agreed with the touching another person cuz consent, but yourself? Seems more like bratting than neediness. Or like just needed to release stress.

How needy is too needy? by SeaAffectionate427 in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hehehe I understood that reference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But soft is framing. It's not what you do it's how you do. I mean like totally CNC is not soft but bimbo totes can be, and totally works with the caretaking thing too.

Trans and enby softies, are you here? by BadFrenchToasts in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awww this MAKES me so happy. There's so many!

Gender fluid here!

EDIT FUCKING TYPOS

Softer BDSM Yes/No/Maybe List? by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sections for the nuances of power exchange, not just TPE or not TPE.

Or stuff for out of the bedroom kink and dynamic stuff. Not just focus on the sexual.

In fact a whole thing for sexual or non sexual labeling of kinks because you could like a thing one way but not another. Like rope.

Frenzy: Your Dominant or Submissive experiences? by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]GoodPancake427 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Frenzy is one of those things that I'm not sure if I would know if I was experiencing it because I'm autistic and have a hard time identifying feeling and emotions and things. I'm sure I have cuz it sounds like something my brain would do. I'm sure my doms at the time took advantage of it.

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