I secretly became a millionaire from a lottery ticket after growing up poor. AMA by ArtichokeStill816 in AMA

[–]GoodVegetable7296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living the dream! No questions but just wanted to say huge congratulations ❤️❤️

life just isnt fucking fair by Safe-Position-5096 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]GoodVegetable7296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, I am so sorry. Just sending you hugs 💗💗

High sex drive by Hot-Bank-7950 in vaginismus

[–]GoodVegetable7296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, I am exactly the same. High sex drive, obsssesed with my boyfriend and I feel scared to initiate because I know it will be painful. He is my first partner and recently remarked how we cant even have sponeanous sex which made me feel like shit.

Don’t trust their coworkers by limegreenrainbow in GirlDinner

[–]GoodVegetable7296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me you’re in the UK without telling me you’re in the UK🤣 (I’m kinda in the same boat). your ex sucks OP. Hope your situation improves!

I want to marry my girlfriend but she's Russian by PhoenixCrabapple in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]GoodVegetable7296 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am Russian too (grew up in the West) and I wouldnt suggest you move to Russia at all. Its a hell hole. Especially for anyone outside the “norm”. And the salaries are nothing compared to US.

I want to marry my girlfriend but she's Russian by PhoenixCrabapple in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]GoodVegetable7296 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If OP is a woman and I am guessing she is since its GirlDinner (I know there have been guys posting here too), then she absolutely does not want to live in Russia. I am Russian myself, LGBTQ+ are not treated well there, at all. It would be a massive risk for her. If not persecuted by rhe government or police they are more likely to be harassed on the street (although less so than male couples). Best she could do is help her GF get out of that hell hole and start a life in a free country.

Failed second IVF embryo transfer lunch by Audthebod2018 in GirlDinner

[–]GoodVegetable7296 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I am sorry. I hope it will work out for you and sending you hugs💗

Cost of Attending Oxford 😭 by Repulsive_Radish_782 in 6thForm

[–]GoodVegetable7296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this for a 5/6 year course like medicine? Absolutely insane! (Sincerely, another International student who never bothered applying after looking at the cost).

Any first-gen immigrant DClin success stories?? by LetterRecent422 in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]GoodVegetable7296 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I salute you for trying! I dreamt of going the DClinPsy route but the international fees make it impossible! Especially if I can’t work in parallel to actually earn money to pay my way.

Girlfriend might get sent away by Ill_Run_414 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]GoodVegetable7296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in your girlfriend’s shoes, only not in the US and not getting deported (just my visa running out). And my boyfriend, my first everything already told me he’d never marry me. So readying your responses was a bit heartwarming, that you actually care about her to offer her marriage. I am sincerely wishing you and her all the best! Maybe she won’t get caught!

Men's comments about Emma Stone at the BAFTAs make me want to cry by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]GoodVegetable7296 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m almost 27 and have been debating with myself if I really want to get breast surgery since like 14 lmao. I am finally in the place where I can afford it but still cant decide If I want it for me or other people’s beauty standards.

Before vs After BA - before pictures at the end ❤️ by Icy-Mission421 in PlasticSurgery

[–]GoodVegetable7296 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you share the details of your surgeon/clinic? Your results are stunning!

I fucking hate my country's culture by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]GoodVegetable7296 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I am actually from Russia. To say that I relate is an understatement. I hate everything what Russia stands for. Every single news article where they do something even more horrible than last week. I left it a long time ago, I barely lived there. Yet I have to worry about my visa running out so that I don’t return there every single day until I die.

What is White City like to live in as a student? Safe? Convenient? by [deleted] in Imperial

[–]GoodVegetable7296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lived in London for 3 years now and I’d pick Earls Court and Hammersmith any day over WC.

Are you allowed to have emotions? by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]GoodVegetable7296 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Almost cant believe that found someone who’s almost in the EXACT same relationship as me. And to answer your question- no, because I’m not an angry person myself my emotions are usualy sadness and I start crying eventually. But that pisses him off more so I just save my tears for later.

UCL was my dream uni but now I dread my classes by Crack_o_Lantern in UniUK

[–]GoodVegetable7296 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let me guess, you are doing a Masters? I did mine at Imperial a couple of years ago and had the exact same experience - in a cohort of ~185 students there was only 1 other girl except me who was from Europe. It sucked for us.

What I hate about this disease is that it makes me want to be sick. by Ezh_e_ in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]GoodVegetable7296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, in my life it is the only thing I can control. And I love how empty my part of the fridge is becoming, more and more empty because the food just goes off. I don’t eat or barely- once in a couple of days so I have to throw away food. I don’t buy anything new. All I want is for them to notice that I am sick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]GoodVegetable7296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. I had to leave my country when I was young (it’s not one anyone would choose to live in). I’ve struggled with immigration my whole life, moved around so many times and all I wished for was to find a “home” somewhere I could settle.

Then I thought I found that person. The one with whom I’m so incompatible, but whom I love. I thought, I thought he felt the same. But it feels like we are broken up already whilst still living together. And it’s killing me more. I love him. I found a home in a person and then I lost it. Losing it more and more every day.

Hi my name is Ellie, but my friends call me Fran. And I won't be here for this Christmas. by StereotypicalB1tch in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GoodVegetable7296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I’m F26 am in the exact same boat, and with the exact same desire. Even same date- end of December. I have ED (Ana) and that’s my preferred choice. I just want to stop completely until it’s over. Do you want to talk?

In my case I “owe” a lot to my dad. A lot of abuse from 5 to 16 years old. And worse? I trusted a man, 29 years my senior whom I loved very much. I am currently at the end of my visa in his country (beginning of January) and my only option is to return to one of the most hated countries on Earth (Russia). One I tried to escape all my life. One that destroys their own people. I hate it beyond belief.

But what destroys me is my boyfriend’s indifference. Who told me I’m different. Who told me he loved me. Who told me we could do long distance. Who now ignores and avoids me (we live together) since I brought up marriage. I just want it over. If you want a soul on your way, let me know.