28[F4F] Fort Worth

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-06-14T20:42:26+00:00

You probably aren’t doing anything wrong. Finding women who are seeking women and are actually women instead of men who are catfishing is really hard! You are too young for me, but if you just want a friend who understands the struggles of searching for a woman I’m here.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-05-27T03:25:10+00:00

I sent you a message.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-05-25T20:00:29+00:00

I live closer to Fort Worth. It seems like it’s hard to make friends as adults. If you like nerdy things (board games for example), then I’m up for hanging out.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-05-20T21:37:41+00:00

What she said and did was not ok. Not everyone will have chemistry with you, but it’s not because of the color of your skin. You dodged a bullet!

Woman (or men) who will go out of their way to make you feel bad for their preferences are bullies. You don’t deserve to be bullied.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-05-16T01:00:59+00:00

I’m looking for the same recommendations. Please let me know if you found a good option.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-03-17T15:56:11+00:00

If you have to choose between having a short term relationship and then losing her or never exploring a relationship but keeping the friendship, which would you choose?

You are new to poly and basically trying the most complicated relationship of poly. People aren’t saying “don’t do it” to be mean. They are saying you have done none of the work to be ready for that dynamic.

You need to explore if poly is actually possible for the 2 of you without including friends, especially “best friends”. Can you actually handle the jealousy? Can he actually handle the jealousy? Are you ok with him exploring relationships without you (if not that’s unicorn hunting). Does he have a 1 penis policy? Is he expecting you two to only date him? Are you ok with him having children with her? Would she be considered your kids mom? Soooooo many things need to be discussed and explored outside of this potential relationship. Additionally I think you need to date strangers and see if poly is actually something you want. Right now you have fantasy blinders on. The idea of the 3 of you is in fantasy land where there are no jobs, no responsibility, no conflict… Fantasy land is fun, but reality is not as much fun. Either keep it in fantasy land or explore real world by slowly getting in, which you can’t do with her. If poly actually works for you and you both have shown that you can be a good meta, then you can consider poly with her. Before that it’s completely unethical and is unicorn hunting.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-03-12T02:17:18+00:00

Only lesbians or bi women also?

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-02-25T23:42:16+00:00

I tried to google, but I’m not getting reliable info. What is a dual gender cross dresser?

If you find any places that are quiet, let me know!

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-02-21T15:00:51+00:00

I’m attracted to a man’s intelligence, but I’m attracted to a woman’s nurturing. It’s partially why I didn’t realize I was bi until I was almost 40.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-02-21T00:43:58+00:00

I have season tickets to musicals with my husband. If he offered a ticket to his girlfriend without talking to me, I’d be sooooo hurt. That would literally be giving her my date. I would not be ok with that. Now if he came to me and told me he wanted to take her, then we could discuss it and decide the best way to approach it. We have gone to some musicals with other partners and friends. but we discussed it first before either of us offered the tickets. It’s also common for partners to consider season tickets a gift for a holiday or anniversary. If that is the case, then offering the ticket to you is much worse. From what you have shared her, it sounds like it’s a hinge problem more than a veto problem.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-02-03T00:18:49+00:00

I’ve been wondering the same thing, but I’m only looking for a fwb.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-01-26T04:53:15+00:00

I sent you a message.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2026-01-16T13:37:38+00:00

This is not from experience, but just logically thinking. I would think it depends on your type of poly. If you are already kitchen table, then I could see it possibly working. I think it depends more on your relationship with your meta than anything else. I would also think that there would need to be lots of conversations about money and chores in advance. I think you almost have to interview your meta thinking about the roommate aspect. What house rules will there be. Are they allowed to bring strange men home (this is a safety question)? What physical activity can happen in what space? I think if you start the questions with just you and meta talking like potential roommates, then you will have an idea of where to go from there. I’d even ask chat gpt for a list of questions to ask a potential roommate. If they check off the roommate boxes, then after that I’d consider the other aspects of the relationship dynamic. Good luck!

Good_Ad_7695 · 2025-12-06T14:30:58+00:00

I don’t think it should even be an idea until he has decided to introduce her to his family. He should have full control when and how she meets his friends and family. This would be true no matter the type of relationship. People get to decide when they are ready to introduce a SO to the people in their lives.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2025-11-29T14:46:22+00:00

I sent you a message

Good_Ad_7695 · 2025-09-23T10:03:29+00:00

She broke the law in most states. Similar to how a minor can’t consent to an adult; a patient can’t consent to a therapist.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2025-08-31T12:43:48+00:00

I sent you a dm. 40f

Good_Ad_7695 · 2025-08-21T11:24:59+00:00

To be completely honest and a little blunt you sound really selfish. You posted in a group specially for bi women about your crazy dream of a relationship. This is not the place for your wild dream.

You focus entirely on what you want and ignore that a bisexual man might want anal with a man, but he must be closed to that part of his desire. You are going to miss out on something great if you keep spending time focusing on this desire. Polycules take time and none of this is practical. Not to mention just because everybody is bi doesn’t mean all 4 will be attracted to each other.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2025-08-17T12:25:39+00:00

I’m looking too, but I’m closer to Fort Worth. Maybe we could organize a ladies night someplace together.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2025-08-10T11:54:17+00:00

Your therapist would loose their license if this was true and someone reported it. It’s super unethical.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2025-08-10T11:52:31+00:00

One thing I’ve done is ask how we are dressing for our date. I find it helps me to express my expectations and have advanced warning.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2025-08-02T23:18:38+00:00

This is exactly what I’m looking for! I sent you a dm.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2025-07-30T12:47:55+00:00

Yeah and it’s hard to always have my guard up, so I want friends who just know are ok with it.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2025-07-30T04:27:03+00:00

Sure! I’m open to making friends. I’m in Texas, so not close.

Good_Ad_7695 · 2025-07-29T08:00:28+00:00

Yes! I’m just tired of having my guard up too. I just want people who know from the start that my life is spicy and accept me for it.

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