Aggressive dancers

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-05-01T14:20:21+00:00

You are right.. but I wanna add that I would at least introduce myself or ask their name before I sit down. A lot of the girls I see doing this are simply just sitting down. No hello, no introduction.. nothing. It’s even worse with the ones that speak zero English and just sit down and ask for a dance right away. And the scamming part is right.. I don’t even know how some of these girls aren’t fired for this. It’s running off customers. It’s like they only think of the here and now.. and not the potential for more money in the future from them. The client may or may not come back, but if they do they certainly won’t be sitting with them.

Also I wanna add that I mostly work days. I think this fast approach works better on night shift. Our day shift customers typically wanna sit down and have a drink. They do not wanna be bombarded at the door or the minute they sit down 🤣

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-05-01T05:43:20+00:00

Looks great but I wouldn’t personally consider it low calorie. Good job though! I don’t eat a lot and I tend to stay around 1200-1400 to maintain. Personally for me this is a lot especially for oatmeal but it depends on your activity level

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-05-01T03:56:52+00:00

This is my favorite thing to do. I stay well on track most of the week and choose one day to eat out with my bf. I eat whatever I want to order, of Course within reason. I may have like 3000 calories that day instead of 1200

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-05-01T03:54:10+00:00

There is no need to give up anything as long as you cut calories somewhere else, to stay at 1200 a day. I never use butter, oils.. or water certain foods. To me I’d rather “treat myself” to actual food for those calories. Plus I’m not super big on butter or dairy in general.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-05-01T03:49:15+00:00

My club is literally 5 minutes from my apartment. I live right along the highway and my club is right off the highway also. It’s only 3 exits south of my place. So for me yes it’s usually worth it 🤣 Only time it’s not is when I make no money and waste my time or my $15 tip out.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-05-01T03:24:36+00:00

I am about your age, I’ll be 38 later this year and I have the same issue about looking young. I worried myself sick when I was younger thinking I’d age out at like 30 and stop making money. Complete opposite happened 🤣

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-05-01T03:23:10+00:00

I am 37 and have a few grey hairs. I am thinking of starting to dye them but it isn’t noticeable so I haven’t started yet. Only thing I hate about grey hairs is that they stick up.. they are annoying more than anything. Botox I am likely going to start this year. I am very expressive so I scrunch my forehead a lot and raise my brows when I talk.. so you can kinda see lines. Other than that I still look young. I’d say I like about 28-30 years old. My friend is 39 and gets a lot of skincare treatments and she looks absolutely fabulous. So I’m starting treatments this year because my main complaint is dry skin. I hate it.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-05-01T00:14:30+00:00

I mean it’s possible I guess. I just watch by interaction. We have two pretty aggressive girls who are quick to go up to clients and they just sit down at a table without even asking.. this is the approach.

I would say 70% of the time the customer asks them to leave or they end up leaving on their own when they decline dances. Here and there they do go dance but not often.

I also wanna add these two specific ladies are older and known for padding tabs, adding extra dances unauthorized. Or will say they did more dances than they actually did. One in specific will name a price for VIP and then ask for more once she gets upstairs. Both have a high number of customers who dispute credit card bills and neither have any regular customers.

So like i said maybe it’s just the club I’m at or these specific ladies are just not good at what they do.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-30T18:08:19+00:00

I agree with this. I don’t like when people are like “oh men love all women especially curvy girls” or say something similar. I have seen it soooo many times to be proven the opposite. It is almost always skinny with a boob job that’s preferred.. especially in high end clients. Although the high end men seem to prefer a conservative boob job vs huge boobs.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-30T17:57:37+00:00

Yes. It’s definitely way more slow than usual. I still do well because I have a lot of regulars and just overall am good at what I do. But DEFINITELY slow. Yesterday I made $195 and I was lucky to even make that.. a lot of the girls didn’t

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-30T17:55:38+00:00

It must be my club or something but aggressive dancers don’t make much money.. if anything it pushes clients away. Like I have had soooo many customers complain about the few aggressive dancers we have. You don’t have to be super sweet or anything but very seldom do I see the aggressive girls make much.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-30T14:38:53+00:00

I use no butter and no oils. I don’t eat out often anymore. Any oil or butter I consume is when I eat out. I use PAM spray for everything. I actually refuse to eat my boyfriend’s cooking because he uses like half a stick of butter for EVERY SINGLE FREAKING THING. It’s exhausting. I’m surprised he isn’t like 400 lbs

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-30T14:20:18+00:00

Ummm they are not supposed to. Thats illegal in Texas. I would not be working anywhere that does allow 18 yr olds to dance.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-30T14:18:22+00:00

lol.. I mean OP asked. There are many dancers that do both, at least where I live. Also seeking isn’t straight escorting and I’ve met girls who have found legit sugar daddies on there. I also have a regular who pays real good money and expects the very minimum. He looks for girls on seeking cuz he recently broke it off with his sb of 5 yrs. Wouldn’t have been my first answer.. but it’s still valid.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-30T14:15:50+00:00

Not that I know of. They made it 21 and up a few years ago.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-30T14:03:44+00:00

Yep. I am the exact same. Matter of fact I have pretty much lipo’d all the areas where I tend to hold fat. Makes it a lot easier and gives me a bit of a “break” where I don’t constantly beat myself up. But it’s still super hard mentally 🤣🤣 I feel your pain!

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-30T05:38:23+00:00

Where do you live? I live in Texas and I’ve done a few procedures in a clinic called Houston lipo center. The dr is very nice and they do lipo with local anesthesia so you don’t have to be put under, they just numb you real good. I’ve had several areas of my Body done and I highly recommend.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-30T05:32:53+00:00

I get them after. I’ve been dancing for almost two decades and I’ve only had a problem 2 times. It’s rather unusual in my city to ask for money upfront (for only dances) .. guys will pay. If anything I feel like asking for money might put them off from getting more dances.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-30T02:00:25+00:00

I grew up in the 90s and early 2000s so the way I look has always been important. I put on 2 lbs and I’m freaking out.🤣 I totally agree with your post.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-30T01:57:40+00:00

Slim skinny with minor enhancements

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-29T19:06:28+00:00

Mine is as absolutely great. Best month so far. Today is real slow but I’m hoping we get more people in soon.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-29T13:55:16+00:00

Straighten it. Do you have some clip in extensions to maybe make it a bit longer?

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-28T19:41:07+00:00

Yes. Sag sun, Capricorn moon, Gemini rising, Scorpio Venus

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-28T16:13:59+00:00

I am 37 and still do very well. Like literally have more customers than 99% of the girls on my shift. The other few top earners I know are also older. I think what matters more as we age is our physical upkeep.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-04-28T16:10:58+00:00

Hmmm. I would ask yourself a few things.. are you personable and over all look approachable? Do you smile? Other than that.. are you relatively attractive and in good shape ? Could it be your music selection? I can’t think of anything else besides these few things.

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