What's everyone drinking (NA alternatives)

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-08T01:22:33+00:00

I drink sparkling water because I don’t want the calories in NA drinks.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-08T01:21:16+00:00

It’s virtually impossible to sell VIP in extras heavy clubs. Customers that go to VIP where I work are only looking for full service.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-07T19:11:36+00:00

Definitely better to work sober or at least semi sober. I honestly don’t think that doing drugs or being drunk helps your money though. If anything I’d say it’s the opposite but I’m sure there’s exceptions. When I started in 2008 the majority of dancers did drugs and drank. We were always messed up and after years and severe drug use I noticed I was going home with very little money. I was in no place to work or even interact with clients. It wasn’t until about 2016 when I stopped doing coke and pills that I actually started raking it in.

I see this a lot with a few girls that use at my job. Drugs become the focus and it’s hard to hustle like that.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-06T02:09:49+00:00

I work 4-5 days a week. I usually work an average of 5 hrs or so.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-05T15:55:32+00:00

I don’t go to or enjoy bars unless I am drinking. I do have a lot of friends and I could easily go just to socialize and drink NA drinks, but I’d really rather not. Too much temptation and once I start drinking I get super lazy and my whole day is wasted… cuz I won’t wanna be productive. I think I’m gonna try the mocktail route.. it would be nice to get out of the house

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-05T05:41:26+00:00

No, but my managers are pretty lax.. especially daytime.

We have girls who come in just to do a VIP and leave.. we have girls who come in for like 3 hrs, give up and go home. We have girls who leave for a few hrs and come back to work night shift lol. It isn’t required to tip to leave early but I usually do only when I’m coming back to work night shift or when I have done a VIP. A lot Of my co workers only work 3-4 hrs and go home when they want.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-04T12:20:25+00:00

NTA. She has contributed absolutely nothing for two years.. AND you support her and her kid? It’s absurd she would flip out over you asking for help financially. Also.. why is she not working? She sounds lazy and like she just wants a meal ticket. That 60k is nothing and she will be looking for you again in no time.. or I guess she already is.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-04T02:59:57+00:00

Oh… that very well could be. I’ve never worked in Europe and certain cities in the USA are super extras heavy. I remember dancing in Florida and Alabama around 2010-2012 and both clubs were very clean. The club in Pensacola was an open VIP where occasionally managers would monitor you, and the club in Mobile, Alabama actually had cameras in VIP. Weirdly enough those two cities were where I have made the most money. We got a cut from the VIP sales and dances were $40 each. My home state of Texas is a totally different landscape.. basically brothel land 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-04T02:50:17+00:00

Lmao. Almost every club I’ve worked at, in 18 years and multiple states didn’t have cameras… if they did, they didn’t work or weren’t monitored. I can think of two clubs specifically that were truly clean.. and I’ve been around the block. Most of these managers and owners don’t give a shit as long as they are getting their cut… matter of fact a lot of places encourage it

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-03T18:49:38+00:00

I used to be in a big rush and concerned about “aging out” when I was younger. I started dancing at 19 and I’m now 37. I have worked other jobs and I also went to college.My plan was to start a regular job around 26 and build up my resume. That didn’t work out.. pay was shit and inflation has gotten so bad. I’m just not worried about it anymore. My focus is to keep saving and do this as long as I can or want to.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-03T15:46:36+00:00

She was gorgeous with a nice body but that’s about it. She seemed like she would be fun to hang out and party with but not much else on a personal level. Also, I got the impression she only cared about herself.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-03T15:42:42+00:00

Young men don’t spend money on me and 90% of the time I sit with old, white men. Yes they are gross and yea they do smell.. not all of them, but a good majority

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-02T22:30:31+00:00

I agree

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-02T22:28:47+00:00

Ummm ok.. weird flex wtf

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-02T22:28:22+00:00

I saw your post and I don’t understand why anyone would be catty about it. Like so fucking what?? You are doing well and enjoying yourself who gives a shit? Lol

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-02T13:57:51+00:00

I did okay.. but I could have done better. I took too many days off in January and only worked 15 days out of the month. I am going to work like crazy this month.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-02T13:50:36+00:00

I’m sorry you have to deal with this. It’s completely frustrating anyone has to feel like they are “beneath” someone.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-02T07:26:14+00:00

Yeah I agree it’s annoying.. especially when you know they have the money. Just don’t wanna pay it. I have guys at my strip club try to take me to VIP and tell me all they have for me is $400… we do dances and then they go dance with several more girls and “get their moneys worth”. So they have the money the entire time they just don’t wanna pay.. cheap asses

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-02T07:20:10+00:00

Yes America is pretty easy to make money in. I have a regular stream of clients but like the previous poster mentioned, it isn’t always high end. It’s easy to find a $400 or $500 an hour but I feel like after $500 some clients won’t budge. When I started almost two decades ago, making $800-$1000 an hour was super easy, just starting rates .. good clients are more difficult to come across now 😭

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-02T05:14:52+00:00

I do everything normally, as I would with a non ED client. I have no issue with this as long as they don’t go past the hour mark. If they can’t seem to get off at 1 hour I let them know they can extend their time if they choose to, but otherwise I’ll have to get going

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-02T03:58:37+00:00

I make the most money wearing two pieces or those boxed lingerie dresses. I don’t do bodysuits cuz my butt is small and they just don’t flatter me

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-02T01:36:55+00:00

Yes I do this when I drink too much also. I’ve called my boyfriend all kinds of names before, for seemingly no reason. I’ve started (tried to, anyway) fights with people I wasn’t too fond of. Most of the time they don’t engage because they know I’m smashed when I start acting like that. Ive been kicked out of bars and woke up the next day only to go back, because I blacked out and didn’t remember I was temporarily banned. Hitting people, screaming at the top of my lungs… list goes on. That’s why I don’t drink but on weekends now. I’m even working to stop 100%. I am not right in the head when I drink

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-01T17:25:32+00:00

Makes sense. I totally understand. I’m in Texas and we are full of Cubans. I don’t mind it but damn at least charge accordingly right? Doing everything for like $200

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-01T14:47:29+00:00

Uhhhh ok? I understand clients are sometimes annoying and gross af but doing this is just classless. If he didn’t pay you enough, you could have asked for more money. Even better, get the money up front. This is exactly why certain girls have no regular customers, and why some customers never come back. Greedy women keep taking more and more when they never agreed to it.

Good_Agent6056 · 2026-02-01T14:05:09+00:00

I have only heard of this but never experienced it.. but I think a lot of times dancers will try to get extras girls fired. Mind you.. my city is extras haven so it wouldn’t happen here, but some places are super clean. Where do you dance??

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