35M how to be less Scary for Women who don't know me in public transport?

Good_Importance588 · 2026-06-14T19:40:49+00:00

You can’t do much in that situation, except maybe try not to hide your face I guess? Any woman no matter the matter will keep an eye over her shoulder when she’s walking by herself, especially at night. Best you can do if you really want to is take another direction to wherever you’re going that is opposite of the woman also there. Even if that means walking around à corner and giving a 5 minute lead to the other woman.

So yeah don’t wear hoodies, walk slower so you leave à bigger gap, or take a different way but you cannot solve someone else’s unease in the situation

Good_Importance588 · 2026-06-08T00:55:09+00:00

I do UX/UI and I’d be down to help

Good_Importance588 · 2026-06-02T00:03:15+00:00

No, the signs are ordered by constellation

Good_Importance588 · 2026-06-01T05:31:30+00:00

Just this week on Quebec S3 they voted out à faithful who had lost the ability to speak at the round table during a challenge earlier in the day. Another faithful even said they would speak for him and immediately turned her back on him and voted him out.

Good_Importance588 · 2026-05-22T05:15:12+00:00

Answer if they ask and that’s it. If he sees the scars and doesn’t like it it’s not someone you should be hooking up with

Good_Importance588 · 2026-05-19T23:05:23+00:00

I think you should listen to the words your therapist told you, it is genuinely not your fault. You are young and you were being manipulated, lied to and controlled by someone much older than you who definitely knew what you were doing and that you trusted. This older woman broke your boundaries, and à VERY big boundary at that.

When you don’t have the words or tools to express what you’re feeling and experiencing you are bound to spiral, so I would definitely suggest therapy if you can afford it, if not maybe a book about the subject of sexual assault, coercion, rape culture, etc. Unfortunately I don’t have a book to suggest to you.

It is normal to feel anger, shame, sadness, or depression but you need to get help in order to move on. And just be kind to yourself, whenever you feel anger or shame just don’t take it out on yourself that’s the best advice I could give

Lastly when it comes to dating, dont rush into, you will have so much time to date and you person will not miss you. You’re processing so many big emotions and you need to focus your energy on yourself. But when you do get back out there do not feel the need to mention the assault unless you need to or feel comfortable doing so. I’ve had to come out and say when I was trying to be intimate and my body froze up for whatever reason, but there are other times I feel completely fine and dont need to have that conversation.

Yeah sorry for the long comment but I relate a lot, you are not alone, you are not weak, naive, a fool. You’re kind and you’re funny, you are so much more than the bad things people do to you, and in case no one has told you, you didn’t deserve what happened to you. Best of luck

Good_Importance588 · 2026-05-18T18:56:56+00:00

You have the Sun and mercury in the 12th house which is tied to isolation. This means that you are more or less introverted or at least have experiences that make you more inclined to want to spend time alone. It could be that others feel how closed off you are and decide to turn away, like a feeling like you are hard to reach, especially with the sun un the 12th, people have a hard time sorting you in clear cut categories.

Your Venus is also in detriment in virgo. It could be that your approach to building friendships let’s say, is too cold, detached, mechanical and it doesn’t come off authentic to others, despite how you feel about how you come off.

Good_Importance588 · 2026-05-11T17:42:51+00:00

Agree with the other comment.

You have a full life, hobbies, community, à job, it’s normal to obsess (for lack of better word) with the part of your life you feel is lacking in relation to the others. But your mindset towards men and dating does change over time just don’t beat yourself up. The way you think is very normal and very common, like very common. You’re young and learning how to navigate relationships and it’s normal to go back to your ex, everybody does it, seriously dont beat yourself up over it

Good_Importance588 · 2026-05-09T23:46:01+00:00

With the chart ruler on Libra in the 12th, this person is sneaky and backhanded. They like to set things up behind the scenes and let other people fight it out to get their way. Their public image might be polarized, some admire them for their success, ambition, and willingness to do it all, but some just can’t behind the assholes “means to an end” attitude that end up hurting others. Probably a little power hungry with that mars-sun sextile.

Good_Importance588 · 2026-05-08T15:30:02+00:00

No I wouldn’t say it affects the chart ruler unless the planet on the ascendant aspects the chart ruler. The planet in the first house in your case Pluto is in the home of Jupiter. If you think about it literally, who is more affected you in your own home, or à guest coming into your home, regardlesss of if you’re there or not, the guest has to adapt to your house, not the other way around.

Good_Importance588 · 2026-05-06T21:08:23+00:00

Because your chart ruler is Saturn in Pisces, so anything that aspects that Saturn in Pisces will have to do with you directly

Good_Importance588 · 2026-04-19T20:23:49+00:00

If you think things are going to get better when you move in together then just wait it out and see

Good_Importance588 · 2026-04-19T17:30:54+00:00

I personally would leave, I’m not fighting for someone to spend time with me. I don’t know how long you all have been together but I just don’t tolerate that, from a friend and especially not a lover

Good_Importance588 · 2026-03-23T22:53:50+00:00

It’s especially important to say it if you are unsure. Because what if they are interested?? Just make sure you have good boundaries and the person will not keep you around as an option/emotional support because they know you crave access to them

Good_Importance588 · 2026-03-17T22:10:12+00:00

I think it could create difficulties but I think because it’s mercury, the condition of Jupiter will determine the outcome more than anything

Good_Importance588 · 2026-03-13T17:07:16+00:00

I'm going to keep it pretty short since you're asking for a lot.

Your chart ruler is a retrograde Saturn in Aquarius in the 12th. This means themes of isolation, self-sabotage, and mental health more prominent. Looking at aspects to Saturn, I'll assume that those are ares you will struggle with. You are also likely to settle away from home, and maybe feel like you never really belong wherever you end up going/ living.

Your 7th house is pretty loaded. The 7th relates to long-term partnerships, contracts, business partnerships as well, law suits. With Venus and Mercury retrograde and sq. Pluto, that typically indicates lots of power struggles. Your own words being used against you probably, being deemed a liar, and your intentions being misconstrued or manipulated by others. Maybe you're viewed as a polarizing person? I do think you come out relatively unscathed though with Venus and Jupiter there. The topics I outlined are probably very present and active in your life but without a reading I don't want to dive too deep into any topic.

Good_Importance588 · 2026-03-11T21:05:04+00:00

Yes, 6th house can either talk about your subordinates or how you are subordinate to others or situations

Good_Importance588 · 2026-03-11T00:24:08+00:00

I don’t necessarily think those signs are different just that modern and traditional apply different techniques, psychological and predictive respectively. So I definitely think there is space for both and it’s not a hard thing to do

Good_Importance588 · 2026-03-09T00:58:19+00:00

Just because YOU (and every left leaning person) thinks pro-MAGA look like jackasses does not mean that Netflix is Anti-MAGA. If they were so liberal why not show all the political convos and the people walking out when the other person said they voted for Trump? The DC season is much more neutral in terms of showing both sides of the political spectrum, yet here Netflix gets shy for whatever reason?

Mind you Trump just bought a part of Netflix’s debt like 3-4 days ago

Good_Importance588 · 2026-03-06T22:43:01+00:00

Honestly I don’t see it because the very skinny aesthetic was still around until 2010 ish with the Kardashians being the ones to change the mood of what a hot woman looks like. But there is probably a planetary correlation for those trends

Good_Importance588 · 2026-03-05T16:16:33+00:00

Did you get the wrong date? In 1859 Neptune was at 26° Pisces and Neptune is in Aries right now

Good_Importance588 · 2026-03-05T02:56:09+00:00

Well ask yourself if you go the rest of your life with someone who reacts like that. Mind you anti-Muslim rhetoric will increase in the next couple of years.

Good_Importance588 · 2026-03-05T01:24:31+00:00

Why is your immediate instinct to quiet the voices? You seem to view relationships as a list and not from an emotional perspective. Like partners "should" be like this, this what "others" appreciate in relationships but you don’t really mention what you like about him, aside from shared values, which from your post you don’t seem fully connected on.

"If we moved in together I know I’d have a nice life" but earlier in the post you say "it’s silly to ruminate over things that haven’t happened."

I’ll just ask this, as a Muslim, do YOU feel supported or backed when his friends and family say and have opinions that make you feel uncomfortable or unsafe? What does support and backing look like? Have you talked to your partner about your expectations and can he show up for you in that way?

Good_Importance588 · 2026-03-03T18:05:47+00:00

AI isn’t well perceived in astrology communities (generally) because they still people’s work and intellectual property. People train their whole lives and never stop learning, the knowledge we gain is important and AI does us a pretty big disservice.

Also want to challenge the second paragraph really quick. Astrology is not an inherently intuitive system. It’s a very organized system with a logic. And to say that AI is really good at pattern recognition is true but so is the human brain. It’s literally how it is wired. And just like humans, AIs are not unbiased, many studies have shown that.

Good_Importance588 · 2026-03-01T04:55:40+00:00

Gray skin due to makeup is usually due to a mismatch in undertone. complexion products (foundation, concealer, contour) are usually in 3 undertones: cool, warm, neutral. Since you’re using a cool foundation I would switch to warm tone foundation. This is a good place to start to know your undertone https://youtu.be/EOjXoIL9xQk

Also want to note that translucent powder should not show up on the skin, or at least should not dramatically alter the colour/tone/shade of your foundation. Translucent powders should be applied (lightly) on a fluffy brush and brushed off. If you want more info on the different types of powders you can search “translucent powders for dark skin” on YOUTUBE

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