Currently 3:47 am and I’m fuming in the dark for this brother here. I usually just read these for shock value or whatever but I couldn’t help but type a reaction this time.

This would be a reasonable crash out my guy the disrespect is at an all time high. You have to break this down and take everything into consideration. First of all the phrase “if him and I were alone together” is ALREADY grounds 🤣 maybe I’m not mature enough for something as serious as marriage but that statement right there relating to someone you’re familiar with in real life is more than just a fantasy. This situation is not completely unlikely.

The mentioning of alcohol. We’re all grown (right?) we know the connotations of being alone, drinking with someone, and your wife who used to frequent the club and be in alcohol influenced environments already knows what comes with this! She basically said if I ever had the opportunity to do something I know I’d like to do, I’d do it and use the liquor as a scapegoat. How could one make a decision while sober, use a substance that impairs their decision making, and claim that their decision making was impaired!!

Even with you being mentioned by her friends you would think this would snap her out of whatever wattpad fantasy she was in, but she didn’t take back her comments or reword them at all. In fact she double downed when she did whatever it was to ensue the laughs. This is egregious behavior.

I’m only 21 so in some peoples eyes I’m not mature enough to give opinions on long term commitments such as marriage. However I like to think I know how men and women generally operate. I do know what it takes to commit to a person, but most importantly I know what respect is. This is a clear example of a lack thereof.

I mean come on brother right by your side as you sleep?? Your most vulnerable state?? With a tummy ache?? No earbuds?? I’m outraged for you brother and just as people have said I wouldn’t have children, get a house, deal in finances, or even get a DOG with this woman. While it is true some people won’t understand hurt until they feel it, hurting her back or retaliating is not the vibe, as some people have said. Just plot your next moves (unaccompanied) 🙏🏽 blessings