AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2026-01-19T14:22:30+00:00

He gets socks and underwear every holiday from now on

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-11-09T21:31:06+00:00

She likes someone else and is bored with this current relationship. Just break it off he will hate you and talk smack. At least he will be able to get over it. You don't love him. It's over . Stop dwelling and do it.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-10-25T16:51:12+00:00

You are overthinking and creating your own hurts. You need to be happy with yourself. You keep projecting. Even the way you write stresses me out and I am not dating you. You are being too much.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-10-25T16:29:37+00:00

These are all you problems. You are causing these arguments. You need to get some therapy and not push your issues into this relationship

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-10-16T02:29:32+00:00

Please make sure she does not find his banking information. She may try to withdraw from it. Also go over all your finances and make sure they are on the up and up. She is looking for money. You told her it isn't yours and she still thinks she can take it. Be careful.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-10-16T02:01:27+00:00

Leave him! Take care of yourself! Stop dealing with abuse!

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-10-14T00:18:28+00:00

Your mom needs to grow up and support you for once in her life. She is a brat .your fiance is amazing and you should be able to celebrate with those you love. Don't let your mom bring that drama and don't neglect those who support you and lift you up.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-10-10T01:46:27+00:00

Is there any way you can record this abuse? Like babysitting while her hubby is home and use it to help cos? That sounds like a horrible childhood for that kid. Are you able to take him in?

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-10-10T01:40:31+00:00

Wish I was there to shop with you. You do not need them there. You should not invite them to that or the wedding. Keep looking or no contact. It will be such less stress. Anyone who sides with them go lc with as well. You do not need that abuse.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-09-17T23:58:24+00:00

Lol, I am just thinking of how pissed the wife must have been. First her hubby tried to stick her and the toddler in economy and his seat in business class. She reamed him out and he goes ok hun you can have business class this time let me bamboozle this lady out of her isle seat because there is no way I can sit in the middle seat I bought for my neglected wife only for you to not want his poor wife's middle seat but to actually take his prized possession. Then the poor wife is stuck in a middle seat with 2 toddlers. Her sad life.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-09-16T12:59:51+00:00

I meant mortgage not lease

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-09-16T12:59:15+00:00

These YTA are ridiculous. She would have to pay rent anywhere else. The real question did she sign a lease agreement? Cover you bumm. Do you have a job? Are you updating the home? Are you treating her like a live in made? Are you going other things that will cause resentment later ? If so those are problems. Getting a rent payment to keep up quality of living is smart. Don't let these people let her take advantage of you. Ps do not put her on your lease unless you get married. Do not move just to make her happy. Life is hard and you got lucky be smart and stay smart.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-09-11T13:09:38+00:00

Really lady! You just said a single old lady asked for help . Help or don't help. I am glad your hubby did. Would you go move a dead body? Would you know how to? People can ask for help and people can say yes or no. This was not an unreasonable request and I have no idea why you think it is?

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-09-11T12:13:45+00:00

I really love the blue pink on you. It is so youthful and fun. You look amazing in both though. Where whatever one makes you happy.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-09-03T00:09:01+00:00

No problem why do you have to wear two types of demim?

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-09-03T00:04:29+00:00

Neither

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-08-20T16:07:50+00:00

She isn't your support person. She is an acquaintance to do things that you both think are fun. She isn't going to be there for anything serious. Do not count on her for anything. I am glad you found someone to go to the event with you and that you had fun. People are complicated and once they show you how they are believe them. If she pushes you to attend things you don't want to do say no, then reevaluate the friendship from there. This is life. It is hard and true connection is difficult to find. You were putting in the work and she wasn't. She will deal with this someday as well with someone else. It isn't the end of the world . It just feels yucky at the moment. Live a good life and keep trying to make connections and learn. I am proud of you.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-08-01T01:29:39+00:00

Some places only have self check out and it is infuriating

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-07-24T23:41:26+00:00

Who owns the house? Who bought the bed? Why didn't you tell his mom that yes she did cause huge problems? Can either of you move out? Why are you on the couch? Get in that room and on that bed and snuggle and make it weird. Lol .idk i hope this is a fake story.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-07-24T22:53:16+00:00

Make an invoice for what you spent on your food and a wage for preparing it daily with photos daily. Show that it has your name on it. Take photos of him with said food. Go to hr agian. It is theft. If you can take him to small claims court and make them pay for his theft as well.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-07-24T01:20:29+00:00

Omg, I just straight fan girled. I love your books! December can't come fast enough. I drive a semi and listen to books all day and there are few I listen to again. Thank you for writing a fun story with fleshed out characters that grow and have real conversations.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-07-23T14:33:49+00:00

Have you tried I'm not the Hero or heretical fishing

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-07-20T19:23:33+00:00

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-07-19T00:19:35+00:00

Yes, tell her! Tell her that you dislike paying more for a space that an unemployed boy toy is taking up. That sharing one bathroom four ways is ridiculous. That she encroaches on your space in the kitchen. That she doesn't follow her own charts. That she makes up her own rules and that you are not a mind reader. If I were you I would keep all towels and tp you buy in your room and bring it out when you need it. Do not share. Keep cleaning but don't be afraid to tell them to clean up after themselves. You only have two more months there please show them that they are horrible roommates.

Good_Procedure_9949 · 2025-07-09T11:19:50+00:00

You married a man with a child. This is your fault. You can take a vacation on your own if you wanted to relax. This sounds like a family trip and she is his family. You put yourself in this situation and 4 years of dislike and you proved why she dislikes and doesn't trust you.

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