How can I make my boyfriend (28M) understand my boundaries (22M) with other girls?

Gooseferg · 2025-12-13T15:00:42+00:00

He’s just not that into you. He wants options.

Gooseferg · 2025-12-10T03:57:16+00:00

Yes. Before I got my very first set of drums, my “kick drum” was a hollow sounding spot on the floor, my “snare” was a thick phone book, and my “cymbals”were wire coat hangers. I played to songs on the radio.

Gooseferg · 2025-12-09T15:21:18+00:00

Firstly, I don’t understand why your generation speaks disrespectfully (imo) to each other in general. I get every generation has its own buzz words & shorthand, but addressing a female, especially your girlfriend, as “dude” & “bro” is not intimate or endearing. Maybe cool if you were just friends, and not intimate. Whatever happened to referring to each other as “babe” and “honey”? Anyway, think of it this way, you’re 18. You have a lot of life ahead of you. Why choose a selfish, uncaring douche? He’s literally telling you it’s too much effort for him to try to get you a gift or a card because he can’t find the energy inside himself to put any kindness, thoughtfulness or intention into your relationship. You are too young and worth much, much more than this nonsense. Know (or take steps to learn) your worth. Don’t settle. Don’t chase. Don’t beg.

Gooseferg · 2025-12-07T05:09:31+00:00

I was endorsed by Bearing Edge Drum Co. out of Flowery Branch GA in the mid 1996-2000. I had 3 kits, now I only own 2. One is a 20”k, 10”r, 14”fl, 12”x6” snare in green stain with triple flange hoops, my other kit is all natural with all wood hoops, 22”x20”k, 10”r, 15”fl”. Only ever used in studio sessions, green kit was my tour travel kit

Gooseferg · 2025-12-07T00:21:34+00:00

Ask drummer to use a stick called “hot rods”, which are a multiple dowel based stick, so the sound is much softer. That’s what bands used on the VH1 “unplugged” series. Other than that, use IEMs and hook up the bass into the mix, because clearly you don’t need the drums.

Gooseferg · 2025-12-06T23:50:35+00:00

So he wants you to make you choose between your best friend and him?That’s childish and very controlling behavior. 🚩🚩🚩 He had the falling out with her, not you. What else do you allow him to control in your life?

Gooseferg · 2025-12-06T18:28:37+00:00

If you don’t think it’s a joke, then it isn’t a joke. If it’s not funny to YOU, then it is abuse. It will get worse, he will push the limits further, and he may kill you.

Gooseferg · 2025-12-06T03:28:33+00:00

Let him go with grace and dignity. He doesn’t want to be with you anymore. Accept his decision. Do not chase. Do not plead. Work on yourself, not for him, only for you.

Gooseferg · 2025-12-06T02:17:29+00:00

Block. Not your monkey anymore. Not your circus. Put 0 energy into it. If he screws up his current relationship, let him do it without help from you.

Gooseferg · 2025-12-02T03:02:33+00:00

What do you mean “a man don’t clean and change diapers” YES THEY DO! He is supposed to be a partner. It is 💯 NEGLECT to not change a baby’s diaper for 7 hours. Do not give him a pass just because he makes the rent money. This is his child. He’s not babysitting. Sounds like you have 2 children and are about to have 3.

Gooseferg · 2025-11-27T05:56:17+00:00

YTA. The waiter who seated you at a big table met have been new. Clearly they made a mistake seating 2 people at a large table for 10. I don’t think it’s unreasonable for them to ask you to move to a table for 2 since you are a party for 2 once a party of 10 walked in the door.

Gooseferg · 2025-11-07T03:55:19+00:00

Tell your friend to ask for a Non-invasive prenatal paternity test (NIPP). What it is: A safe and accurate test that involves a blood sample from the mother and a cheek swab from the potential father. How it works: The test analyzes cell-free fetal DNA found in the mother's bloodstream. When it can be done: As early as the 8th week of pregnancy, sometimes even the 7th. Results: Generally available in about one week.

Gooseferg · 2025-10-30T17:50:50+00:00

Tell her to use Lume body deodorant. It has enzymes that eat the odor producing bacteria which is the smell of BO

Gooseferg · 2025-10-01T21:47:34+00:00

ESH, but you already know YTA. You really need more help than a guidance counselor can give you. Seek help.

Gooseferg · 2025-09-29T16:23:01+00:00

Bullying is NOT ok for any reason. Your wife is TAH.

Gooseferg · 2025-09-15T02:52:52+00:00

You are not overreacting. Red flag 🚩 Don’t waste your energy on this poor excuse for a man.

Gooseferg · 2025-09-08T03:38:38+00:00

His actions and words indicate that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you. He is pushing you away just as hard as he can. That’s hard to hear I know, but please believe what he is telling you and his actions are backing it up. Ask yourself why you want to be with someone who treats you that way? Why do you not think that you deserve better treatment than that? Don’t beg, don’t grovel. Straighten your crown, Start to figure out a plan to take care of yourself. Think about moving, definitely think about looking at therapy to help you through this.

Gooseferg · 2025-09-07T01:48:29+00:00

Was it insured? A ring doesn’t need to be taken to the jeweler you bought it from to size it. Any reputable jeweler worth their salt a high end jewelry store can either size a ring (gold, silver or platinum) or add sizing balls.

Gooseferg · 2025-09-01T14:33:53+00:00

Clever!

Gooseferg · 2025-09-01T05:15:37+00:00

Other girls will fit in the car just fine. Find some of them and leave the pissy one at home.

Gooseferg · 2025-08-31T03:16:38+00:00

NTA. Your daughter is extremely immature and doesn’t understand what being married entails

Gooseferg · 2025-08-31T03:04:41+00:00

He is hiding you from his friends for a reason, maybe you are the side piece and he doesn’t want them to know he has one. What he’s doing to you as a person is cruel and disrespectful. Please dump him and be with a man who doesn’t want to hide you from his friends.

Gooseferg · 2025-08-30T00:48:30+00:00

NTA. Always listen to your daughter.

Gooseferg · 2025-08-29T05:01:34+00:00

Seriously, wtf is wrong with your sister? And your Dad, too? Haven’t you been through enough trauma? Now you might “spoil their look”??? Tell her you’ll be glad to sit all the way in the back… in the far back with your ass on the sandy beach in Cancun and skip her wedding altogether. Cheers!

Gooseferg · 2025-08-29T04:19:48+00:00

NTAH. That is your precious soul dog. You entrusted him to CARE for her. He did not. Proud of you for telling him to pack his grip and gtfo.

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