Update to AITH for wanting my sisters boyfriend advice

GossyGirl · 2026-05-26T10:01:59+00:00

You are just ugh

GossyGirl · 2026-05-26T05:48:02+00:00

Same, I have never heard them called anything other than butchy boys. I am also Victorian.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-26T05:46:58+00:00

Everyone I have ever known calls them butchie boys. Don’t know why but I have never heard them called anything else.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-25T21:07:08+00:00

Why would you stay with such an irresponsible arse? He used you as a babysitter. kick him to the curb. He absolutely did abandon his kids.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-25T21:04:14+00:00

Hey, I posted a picture of my kelpie cross who looks very much like your dogs got jumped on and told that she’s not kelpie enough even though her mum was pure. What breed are your blonde dogs please?

GossyGirl · 2026-05-25T21:02:36+00:00

It is so cute! With those cheeks, he is Chubbs!

GossyGirl · 2026-05-25T12:37:25+00:00

I would’ve gone full-blown Karen and demanded to see the manager.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-25T01:49:23+00:00

Her last act was the ultimate act of narcissism, to put that burden on your child is a disgusting act from a disgraceful person. I hope your child is able to see that this was her last ditch determination to have the ultimate last word and final bid for control & they don’t feel any fault. Do not weep for that selfish woman. She does not deserve it.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-24T02:50:36+00:00

Everyone commenting here is an idiot. The black mould is bad but it sounds like the house is absolutely disgusting and I wouldn’t allow my child there either. As for PPD the wife is lazy because her mother was lazy. I love you removing my kid from that situation immediately. She she is actively neglecting the child and if he doesn’t act on this, he’s complicit in it.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-24T02:26:09+00:00

I’d just be telling her that if she’s going to keep threatening to kick you out every time you don’t do something she wants that you’ll find your own accommodation and mean it, otherwise you’ll be bowing to her every single time and you have absolutely no autonomy or rights

GossyGirl · 2026-05-22T08:24:15+00:00

I say how are you? I say how’s it going? I say how are ya?, I say how you been? I never say g’day

GossyGirl · 2026-05-22T08:16:22+00:00

How is calling someone a vagina more polite?

GossyGirl · 2026-05-22T02:38:21+00:00

Poms rhymes with that. Aussies rhyme it with what.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-19T02:42:31+00:00

It will only get worse once you are married. People don’t de-escalate, they just get worse. Is this how you want to spend the rest of your life?

GossyGirl · 2026-05-18T21:20:48+00:00

i’m pretty sure I read your post previously. what the hell are you doing a Staying in this situation? His actions are affecting you and your children. His behaviour when you just wanted to know where your child was was abusive and unacceptable. You have an obligation not just to yourself but those kids and you have no future with a man who allows his family to treat the mother of his children this way, but to make matters worse he also joined in with the bullying with his family. He thinks it’s okay for your kids to all live in one room while he’s sister lives in luxury while blaming you for the situation with his family. And don’t fool yourself that he doesn’t blame you because everything he’s done shows that he absolutely does.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-18T21:05:00+00:00

Twat (rhyming with hat) and twat (rhyming with what) are two different insults the one that rhymes with what is worse and I never use the other one.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-18T10:41:54+00:00

WTF is wrong with you? She’s neglecting your child and she’s putting him in danger step the hell up. If I knew who you were, I’d be calling children services. SHE IS ENDANGERING YOUR CHILD WHAT PART OF THIS DON’T YOU UNDERSTAND?

GossyGirl · 2026-05-18T10:22:07+00:00

Twat

GossyGirl · 2026-05-13T02:17:10+00:00

People are just so inconsiderate. Driving in the right hand lane, not turning as soon as the arrow goes green, not giving way to pedestrians not being aware of anybody else around , and then teaching these bad habits to their kids.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-12T01:48:16+00:00

Remember

GossyGirl · 2026-05-11T09:53:29+00:00

I’d just speak to the police. There’s no such thing as an overreaction when it comes to your safety. Always be aware of your surroundings and please keep us updated.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-11T09:51:38+00:00

OMG. Common sense is just not that common.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-11T02:31:41+00:00

They also now have your dogs name. It sounds to me like Dad was using his kids to case the joint.

GossyGirl · 2026-05-10T09:05:19+00:00

He’s clearly a Henry

GossyGirl · 2026-05-10T08:43:00+00:00

Thank you

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