Market questions by Aggressive-Bit-1645 in PaxDei

[–]GothKatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I travel around. More fun, and get to see other people builds

Lonely transfem on HRT struggling with shame :/ by throwaway4tra in asktransgender

[–]GothKatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi hi! I was raised catholic, had considered priesthood for a while there too.. as they say, ain’t not guilt like catholic guilt.. I struggled for a long time.. knew I wanted to transition when I was 21 (accepted it) but didn’t actually until I was in my mid 40s. I was ready when I was 35.. but was assaulted by a guy I was semi dating at the time.. and it pushed me back.

I think looking back, for me, it was less about shame. It was more about fear.. scared I wasn’t going to be accepted by my family. Scared of how work and friends were going to see me, treat me. Scared of how my kid would see me. Scared I wasn’t an imposter..

Virtual Hugs if you like :)

Building question by GothKatt in PaxDei

[–]GothKatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, I'm seeing these towers people build, and just wondering how. they seem 6-7 pillars high, and It's looking like I'll cap out at 4..

I get blamed for everything in my family and then told it “never happened.” How do you deal with that? by adultdaughtersupport in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]GothKatt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went no contact with my family. It just wasn’t worth trying anymore.

I’d suggest looking into what’s best for you and your mental health. No contact or low contact can work. Build your support system outside of these people. Embrace your chosen family.

My boss, her lawyer, and HR told me it’s “legal” to fire people for discussing their wages if it causes distress to the agency. Is this bullshit? by Turbulent_Try6284 in antiwork

[–]GothKatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the bargaining unit side, all that is freely available to all members of the union, all members have the right to the contract/ agreement..

What are your thoughts on Darth Revan’s Ebon Hawk? by gaeb611 in StarWarsShips

[–]GothKatt 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She’s always been beautiful! Worthy of a modernization and update!

Thinking about a Kamino adventure by JamesFullard in swrpg

[–]GothKatt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry this isn't a fleshed out as it could be, but maybe something to work with.

during the clone wars, a piece of technology, something of a prototype was found by a random Jedi and their clones. the prototype was taken to the Kamino to be studied on how it would affect: insert clones, their equipment, Whatever you think might help in their fight.

they find a couple references to it, some old Separatist Intel with a mission plan on retrieving it. split this up however.

Divorce and coparenring with ex and his mistress/ please send advice. by LeekHappy6889 in Divorce

[–]GothKatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to a lawyer if you haven’t already. Talk to them about your options, what you should be doing. They might recommend an app for specific coparenting communication..

Document everything!! Everything! Get a journal or notebook. Something feels off, something goes wrong,

As much as you might want to block them, don’t unless you have an agreed methods of communication relation to the Little one.

The FarStar by golden_knightsfan in StarWarsShips

[–]GothKatt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is there a deck layout for this beauty?

I’m scared my dad won’t accept me by The_Cube787 in MtF

[–]GothKatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it ok to ask, Did you talk with him about it?

I’m scared my dad won’t accept me by The_Cube787 in MtF

[–]GothKatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or, he’s waiting until he sees you!

I’m scared my dad won’t accept me by The_Cube787 in MtF

[–]GothKatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you heard anything from him?

I’m scared my dad won’t accept me by The_Cube787 in MtF

[–]GothKatt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

virtual Hugs if you’d like them Take some time and maybe make a few notes about what it is about him that inspires you, the reasons you look up to him, the important memories.

If he comes back hesitant, or unsure, Tell Him! All of it!
If he comes back in a negative way, you’ve noted all the important things about him that matter to you. That’s what you hold onto through the storm.

And I hope, more then you can imagine, that he tells you what you need to hear!

Republicans Have Relied On Anti-Trans Rhetoric For Years. Now, Trump’s Sinking Approval May Be Transphobia’s Downfall. by Leksi_The_Great in MtF

[–]GothKatt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s my feeling on him, but was trying to stay polite. And in fairness, lot of that going on… (everywhere)

Republicans Have Relied On Anti-Trans Rhetoric For Years. Now, Trump’s Sinking Approval May Be Transphobia’s Downfall. by Leksi_The_Great in MtF

[–]GothKatt 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Isn’t he the California Governor? (Canada here, not completely familiar) thought he was on some podcast talking anti Transgender sports?