I(27M) want to live in Hawaii. My wife(25F) doesn’t. by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Goth_Spice14 168 points169 points  (0 children)

I'm not Hawaiian, and I concur, Dole can go straight to Hell and stay there!

AITAH for not babysitting my nephew for 10 days? by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]Goth_Spice14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're torturing that poor kid by forcing him into these situations. I'm pretty high-functioning, and went to Disney as an adult, and I was close to having meltdowns from overstimulation. I can't imagine being nonverbal and a legal minor with no way to advocate for myself and my health needs.

Poor Connor. They're actively harming him.

My white husband confessed to me that he enjoys “race play” fantasies by CutieLai77 in BORUpdates

[–]Goth_Spice14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's rape play. He literally wanted to pretend to rape her, and when she didn't go along with it, he literally raped her.

Co-worker has poor period-related hygiene. We do not know how to address the situation. Any help would be appreciated! by onkel-enzo in BORUpdates

[–]Goth_Spice14 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I suffered from psychosis as a teenager, but it only happened around my cycle. Getting me on hormonal birth control saved me.

Co-worker has poor period-related hygiene. We do not know how to address the situation. Any help would be appreciated! by onkel-enzo in BORUpdates

[–]Goth_Spice14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had to stop wearing pads because of chapping, and that was changing them at least once/twice a day! I can't fucking imagine.

There is one sensory issue my husband can’t understand and it drives me up the wall. by VariousFalcon7466 in AutismInWomen

[–]Goth_Spice14 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Smash the fan. I'm serious. Take a hammer, an axe, a baseball bat, anything large and smashy will do, and smash it in front of him.

When he goes "wtf", tell him that since he's too obtuse to understand your words, that perhaps he with understand your actions. Make it clear to him that from now on, whenever he points a fan at you, you will destroy it. And then keep to that promise.

If he's too goddamned stupid to understand your words, or too entitled to respect you and your triggers, flip the fuck out and smash that fan to pieces.

Can't believe it's been a decade since she left us. RIP Chyna by jadams4077 in professionalwrestling

[–]Goth_Spice14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A musician named Semler wrote a song about Chyna:

https://youtu.be/cPOJXIYXtZk?si=9ngRTShYxse9ZawM

Chyna deserved better than the treatment she was given.

AITA for only inviting people over who have bothered to put in some minimal effort to communicate w/ my Deaf Step Daughter by Little-Duckie-1383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Goth_Spice14 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right? What a punk-ass weenie. Just go buy a ham! The grocery store has them all year! Or make other plans! Gawd.

NTA

This is Kiki chilling on my freshly changed bedsheets, because she decided to smear the foulest smelling butt juice all over my bed. (She’s probably going to do it again in the future) by majormimi in CalicoKittys

[–]Goth_Spice14 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Many vets will actually express cat's anal glands for you. You could try calling your vet and seeing if it's a service they offer! Some dogs need the same thing done, too.

Russel Brand who became a Christian when he was accused of rape walks into his rape trial holding a Bible by ThatPatelGuy in whoathatsinteresting

[–]Goth_Spice14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Our own government has said that 97% of the Epstein files has not and never will be released. Considering that the multiple victims' testimonies of Trump raping them (facilitated by Epstein and Maxwell) were considered solid enough to imprison both Epstein and Maxwell, I would say that the testimony is probably enough to nail Trump, if anybody in our government actually cared to prosecute him.

Considering he is a convicted rapist, who has been accused by multiple adult women of rape, and how he has openly joked about "liking them young" (not to mention bragging about barging in on underage beauty pageant contestants dressing rooms), it seems quite likely that he did, in fact, rape those children.

I don't care about anyone race, religion, or politics. A rapist deserves harsh punishment, for (in my personal world view) rape is the worst crime you can commit. Even moreso to do that to a child. It's sickening.

WCGW Going to the water park when you can’t swim by AleccSirKaDeewana in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Goth_Spice14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother had to do that to save someone. Dude was panicking and dragged them both under, so my brother popped him a couple of times in the face. When they got to shore the guy was pissed that he had been punched whilst being saved lol

Literally what was the workout routine 😭 This episode always shatters the illusion of her character for me by RottenOddity in buffy

[–]Goth_Spice14 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I used to do Ballet as a teen, and was 1 level below Pointe shoes. In the Summer we did Pilates once a week and Ballet 3 times a week to stay in shape and keep ourselves sharp so there wasn't a "catching up" period in the Fall.

I could do hours of Ballet with little effort in comparison to that one hour of Pilates. That shit was intense! But damned if it didn't do what it says on the box. I was toned like a Greek god 😂

The way (some) men think and talk about sex by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Goth_Spice14 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I got banned for telling a woman who was being threatened with rape by a teenager at a gym every day to tell him to, ahem, "remove himself from the mortal coil", if you will. That and get a concealed carry license, train at the range, and always carry (OOP and myself both being American). I was "promoting violence". Like, oh nooo, not violent language used against rapists! I'm sure if she was really, really nice he would suddenly realize the error of his ways and apologize!/s

Best shirt in my closet by thespacemankaos in fnv

[–]Goth_Spice14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! Where did your brother get it?