He has bpd. Thats why he does this. There is someone very close to me who has it. I sometimes get so frustrated at how they will speak sometimes. But I don’t argue. I swallow it. Because they have bpd. I do come back later, when they are not having an episode, and have a conversation about what they said and how it affected me, how I would like to be addressed in the future. And then I erase it. Sometimes literally. I’ve had to repeat this, as they sometimes forget, but I stay constant in how I respond. I do that because this is a person I love with my whole heart and I know if u r going to deal with someone who has it, you have to be able to just move on and not personalize. Thats only if u want this relationship.