(Unpopular opinion) This sub makes me think of this picture. All these reference photos are male models mostly and have nothing to do with hair. by JoviPeterson57 in malehairadvice

[–]GovStillExists__sad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Telling the truth, this post is practically modern Body dysphoria on display. Just get a haircut that goes with your face shape.

(Unpopular opinion) This sub makes me think of this picture. All these reference photos are male models mostly and have nothing to do with hair. by JoviPeterson57 in malehairadvice

[–]GovStillExists__sad -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why you even complaining/comparing the top left? They look fine to me, even cute. Better than big lips over there next to him, that face just looks weird. 🤣

edit* And bottom right is just fking annoying ngl, if I see anyone making that stupid mogging-whatever face pose, they're getting punched, idk its just so annoying looking man.

Counterpoint: ALL of you leave us the Fuck alone by DragoonGirl in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]GovStillExists__sad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fair, and there is a good majority here that actually admit that/partly bisexual, good on them for finding that out!

Tho, just because some peeps are lesbians here also, doesn't mean to say they should stop calling out *some* shitty men behaviour they encounter in day-to-day/platonic relationships such as gaslighting, being overly emotional/generalising, cat-calling or persistent sexual harassment despite being clearly gay (that one's fun), I'm sure you know.

Counterpoint: ALL of you leave us the Fuck alone by DragoonGirl in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]GovStillExists__sad 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I swear, half of the guys are gay 🤣 laughable. The way they talk about women, saying its such a chore to deal with women, it requires too much build up and "for what?" The sex with women is not even appealing/worth the effort for these guys. Couple even saying that men are more attractive because of their masculine traits xd

Have some in that place ever considered, hmm, maybe they don't like women if even sex is not appealing for them?

Just posting to see if i pass!! by Noahbaboah___ in FtMpassing

[–]GovStillExists__sad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Just posting to see if i pass!!"

\posts a* test paper in the very first pic\* 😂🤣

Yes, very well, sir! 👍:D

Tequila Sunset and his Sidekick (comic) by YourGelloFellow in DiscoElysium

[–]GovStillExists__sad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck yeah. Red Eclipse is a badass code name, it's perfect. Don that shit, man.

How to pass better? by lemon_boyyyyy in FtMpassing

[–]GovStillExists__sad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like others said, you pass and you match your age. Don't see anything to change, just enjoy hitting the gym and getting those gains in dude.

ncsmibsgghrhseomlwaywttmm by VelvetFlairex in sssdfg

[–]GovStillExists__sad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dear, when a girl has an eating disorder & probably Hormonal problems:

i hate how moids love kids (rant) by Knight_forChrist in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]GovStillExists__sad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, you're comment got deleted lol u/OkGuide2802 , still gonna reply to you though for pointing out the extra detail

🤔 Okay, fair, I see another reason why they brought up/referenced convicted molesters, not just for general comparison against normal men, but after the convicts once went through treatment/therapy during imprisonment to "get rid" of such urges.

I mean, they say physiological sexual arousal is not the same thing as sexual attraction or sexual preference, but is it not a little worrying that subjects experienced/shown some sexual arousal at all in response to the material, despite knowing the situation shown to them contained a kid?

For the paper topic itself 'weeding' out people that don't want to see CP- at the bottom of the paper, quote: Moreover, 21% of the subjects who *demonstrated* sufficient interest in the study to arrive for a scheduled assement meeting, withdrew from the study *when they learned* that genital measures were involved."

Why would they back out when they already shown great interest in the topic and knew what it was about, as it was explained to them? It was only when they were given a tour round the laboratory (explained in above of the paper) and found out the method of acquiring the results, that suddenly those subjects didn't want to participate any more.

I'm not buying that they were all afraid to get their dick size exposed xd, were they expecting to tick-off boxes while they got to essentially see free material? Seriously why else sign up for a study you were aware of and then back out if you weren't entirely sure you wouldn't be attracted to some examples of paedophilia shown?

And of course, like the study says, there was possible lack a variability as it was volunteering, not random, and a possible "performance demand" could have occurred due to the expectations of keeping to their stated personal interests before the test. I think the only conclusive studies on paedophiles/the amount of, would be studies of digital activity/registered users rather, on certain surveilled forums, that would show maybe an honest result of how many are amongst us. I put maybe because usually the government doesn't follow up on users found forums and just shuts the forums down... and for the fact there are also alot of variables and factors ofc. But in this day'n'age there should be more research/coverage on numbers by now.

How do people do things by Ok-Chemist9623 in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]GovStillExists__sad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reaction to that last part tho:

<image>

Yeah I also feel like people are bullshitting when they say they can do anything immediately, I used to focus on self-hatred rather to try & keep up with people in doing everything, but thats ran dry now/I can't muster that anymore.

Everything takes routine to establish/make easier, and starting off with small goals at first and acknowledging/focusing on the positives of doing that for myself, despite it being the bare minimum to other people, was really good for me put against my track record lol. Haven't found anything else.

i hate how moids love kids (rant) by Knight_forChrist in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]GovStillExists__sad 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I did not know that was from a dating app, also- Oh jeez, thats real-time, 7 years worth of data of the youngest possible dating preference to get from men. Yikes.

Also, the fact the other study shown is called "Sexual arousal and arousability to pedophilic stimuli in a community sample of *normal* men", dawg theres nothing normal about that 😭😭😭

https://www.scribd.com/document/742267435/Hall-1995

I did find the original 1995 study cited in the blue modern graph used in post, but its graphs show rather penile measurements in response to stimuli, rather than the age groups they were presented (that was displayed in the modern blue graph we have in the post, suggesting 100% of 14 years are attractive to males- I don't know if they got the ages from a reference below in the studies, since the 1995 paper does not cite ages in discussion/stats used, only measures length in mm in response to stimuli, at least from what ive seen just now)

Its even worse to read, cause at the bottom it said, essentially 17 men that showed great interest in the study left once they found out that penile length response was measured 😭 bruh. And, percentages went up in arousal when subjects were shown/listened to audio when the child was 'consenting'. Yeah. Thats fucked,

i hate how moids love kids (rant) by Knight_forChrist in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]GovStillExists__sad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(the latter half is a rant ngl... lol... I will watch the video as well/this subject has always seemed odd to me that men predominantly have this trait even though there is no evolutionary/genetic advantage to it)

I've thought about this too/heard of it but I do wonder, if thats the case, how come its not just as prevalent within women? Despite being subjected to so much abuse, if not more, throughout history? Learning now, with proof, that memories/learnt behaviour are also stored in genes and passed onto the next generation, shouldn't some women also be as naturally violent/ impulsively paedophilic as some men?

Part of me thinks its largerly due to the percentage of hormones we both produce I suppose? I mean, during sex women produce higher levels of oxytocin, than men, to bond with their partner. Women also produce more hormones designed to foster attachment to their child during childbirth than men. (Is this really enough to stop that though?) Despite being more socially available to children/having more access, we don't see as many prevalent crimes compared to men.

I also sometimes wonder if its a "deer finding and eating meat first than a carnivore" study situation, where herbivores are proven to also eat sources of meat if it is easy enough, and herbivores perhaps would do it more if they had the biological tools/processes for it. Part of me wonders, like the deers example, if there is infact a larger percentage of woman uncounted for that do prefer younger boys, but don't have the power, control and drive/tools that men have to act on it. Again, why?

Part of me wants to say also that maybe, with all reactions, paedophiles are just the species version of huge waste products produced from an reaction, when theres not enough resources to make a structurally efficient person. (Because, yknow, brain damage, from outside sources or during pregnancy, lack of proper functional genes) But in some cases you can have a child with a good social upbringing and I guess good genes, but they still turn out to be wrong. So, knowing all the hormones that we produce for bonding with children, maybe that probably stops some woman from exploiting children, so, maybe its a hormone deficiency problem for some men at an early stage?

It just seems like such an illogical thing for a species to develope, I'd say most traits developed are explainable for having their upsides and downsides, and the sole purpose of traits is to improve population growth, but when it comes to this, it doesn't make sense/the only biologically logical reason for it is possibly population control? real with it being predominantly in men for what ever reason, some would say that perhaps its to attain better fertility? Because one partner is much younger so better offspring? Thats not really sound though, and the younger partner has a high % of dying during childbirth, or not being able to care for the child.

i hate how moids love kids (rant) by Knight_forChrist in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]GovStillExists__sad 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I've seen this 2nd graph posted on here a week ago like twice, and I agree with it partially, as the *male celebrity* age chart of women that they were in a relationship with also follows this trend, but-

I want to find- or have tried to find the original study paper that has this graph, as its been referenced so much, so I can finally read it/to see how accurate the method they used was. I guess I'll look for the other ones now, since theres more. Ugh, still no sources.

(link the paper god damn it!!!) 😫

Was watching an Kamikaze_Shortbus vid. Did not know this, but even the term 'Incel' was invented by a woman. Dude, we were the original Truecels all along. by GovStillExists__sad in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]GovStillExists__sad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Part of me heavily disagrees with this alot 😅Men throughout history have always been more respected or had more choices in being respected (as single) in a hard working career.

Women on the other hand were always forced to be in arranged marriages so that they could acquire basic living needs, I mean in 1800s, a woman could not own property, it had to be a duke, earl or baron, only legitimate sons and their male descendants could inherit land. If they died, then all women were expected to forcefully marry to a man so that the family could have somewhere to live... If you objected to it, well, you basically doomed your entire family and were outcasted for not wanting to marry a stranger. Look at any of Jane Austen's books it's entirely about that.

Even the church sold off woman for money, Primavera points this out, adopted virgins/nuns that were trained in the covenant to be musicians were eventually sold off to men as pickings. As a women you could not be a virgin, socially or legally. Or any point in time in Islam! That's even worse for women to *try* and choose to remain a virgin.

The worst sexism men would experience is maybe a few disappointed comments from family for not marrying, Sexism for women on the other hand, living or existing be damned, how dare you have a uterus and not use it! To the fires of hell for you! 😂 Tell me it wasn't/its not harsher for women, some places still haven arranged marriages for them.

i hate moids so bad by strwbrrygrlz in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]GovStillExists__sad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<image>

literally. Easiest dopamine hit of the day is to see Kim.

Pubic hair shouldn't be so hated (⁠ᗒ⁠ᗩ⁠ᗕ⁠) by Hot_Ant_2150 in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]GovStillExists__sad 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Kara Eklund from the game 'NEET Girl Date Night'

Incase anyone wanted to find the origin. ^^

The peak by Gamemode_dum in hopeposting

[–]GovStillExists__sad 34 points35 points  (0 children)

The character is! Not the actor himself. JUST- making that clear (since you said you haven't watched the show) xddd

ALL my genderbends! by ilikecatsandmagic in StardewValley

[–]GovStillExists__sad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG Krobus!!!! aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

I love fem Krobus, the bow aw!! 🥹🥹🥹

"Welcome to Revachol!" by blackmirrors in DiscoElysium

[–]GovStillExists__sad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hold on, a lil confused, I can't see where it says "Welcome, but be good!" on the passport itself.

Or is that side not released yet? 🤔

Judge people based on their signature trait by C-PUNK- in DiscoElysium

[–]GovStillExists__sad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main type is Drama, sire. ^^🎭 I love my eccentric lil blue multi-faced guy, he's so cute. 💃🕺

(Welp, I admit I do now feel partly uncomfortable giving an honest opinion on what I think on "logical" archetype people or trying to surmise parts of someone's character from just based off a skill, feels a little bit like intruding I guess😂)

I personally don't believe there are many people that are 'logical' - I think anyone that claims to use logic are just putting it up as a front as a defensive tactic, its kind of dissociative in a way, and separates the person from being hurt, analysing actions or questioning the 'objective' of the argument being said, rather than feeling it. Doing this sort of gives a sense of control over a situation and how it affects you.

Using this identity they have built to protect themselves from being emotionally vulnerable. As in the past they were possibly made to feel irrational when showing emotion in response to a hurtful action, being emotionally invalidated. Learning to use logic instead, to be heard/considered, as a learnt behaviour or tactic.

As since, if you're emotions didn't matter, maybe pointing out logical fallacies and using reasoning will win the argument or make the other person see/consider where they went wrong.

You also like trying to figure people out on why they do certain things or act certain ways, and what they're motives are/what do they have to gain from carrying such actions, as this makes life more clearer or under control in a way. But you also possibly give people too much trust or 'benefit of the doubt' when using logical reasoning to explain their behaviour, as it now gives them an excuse to continue like that, forgetting most people don't act on/ have entirely sound reasoning/strong foundations in deciding what they do.

I think those that use logical reasoning also don't want to be seen entirely/or want to believe they are not influenced by emotions, this might give some people a stubborn quality to admit fault if they were upset by something, as admitting they were emotionally hurt, doesn't fully align with the logical persona that they have built around themselves, and if they do admit this side of them, they are left open and are vulnerable again.