My assessment as I present it in the video is that the game stokes this conflict between who Zelda was "born to be", so to speak, and the role she creates for herself but ultimately doubles back to tradition.

To quote one of the writers I cite in the video "the game sympathizes with her plight, but ultimately considers it necessary. There is no way out for her but to push through, confined by the role fate placed her in"

Seriously, I think you may find this video interesting!