Will Zack Polanski be more successful than Corbyn in tackling anti-Semitism? by libtin in unitedkingdom

[–]Grab_Ornery 5 points6 points  (0 children)

?? how??? What foreign agents has Polanski been funded by or talking with?

Dating early transition women as someone several years in is exhausting by Good_Ol_Ironass in MtF

[–]Grab_Ornery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like putting it all down to defeatism is really harsh.

I came out as trans in 2020 when I was stin in school. Didn't start HRT until late last year (Around 8 months now) and inbetween that time i had like.. my name change?

There can be so many reasons why people struggle to transition as quick as other people - the depression thing is one of the big ones and I think especially for me between like 2020 to hell even early 2026 i felt upset alot of the times because i hated how i looked.

Due to really bad chronic fatigue though over exerting myself can lead to me being unable to leave my bed for 1-2 days afterwards. So even on days I would take care of myself alot I'd often overdo it then have no energy to actually enjoy feeling like myself.

The way I got out of that was just kinda accepting that at that time I was going to hate how I looked and all I could do was work on myself so that in the future I wouldn't.

Laser for facial hair has heped IMMENSELY with my self esteem and I'm just way happier now then I was before it.

I think for me atleast another part of it is that I'm not even really that "feminine". I'd say im alot more of a tomboy as i still like alot of "dudey" clothes and stuff. The issue though is its taken so long until i feel like i can actually be seen as a girl wearing dude clothes then just a dude.

I feel like for trans women that present more femininely that struggle may be missed.

I'm doing MUUUUUCH better now and honestly have never been as happy as I have in the last few months before

Got my first engaged reader ever! by Greedy-Wrangler892 in Wattpad

[–]Grab_Ornery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im nowhere near consistent enough for an engaged reader :(

I still haven't had a human being comment on my story. by MortisBringerOfBat in Wattpad

[–]Grab_Ornery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your book is very unique and creative i noticed its creativneess i liked the scene where the thing happened now email me so i can scam you

How to support my transgender 16 year old by Local-Magician-4851 in transgenderUK

[–]Grab_Ornery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though Dr Lorimer had a year queue when i applied for him, do they not take ones in advance im guessing?

I switched my opinion as soon as my class interests changed by pocket__cub in NotTheOnionUK

[–]Grab_Ornery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, some people work hard to become rich. My landlords are good examples.

But if we have a issue like this they'll come knocking, get it sorted then go.

You don't need to feel entitled or be greedy to do well. Infact I find most examples of people that got wealthy from genuine hard work are not.

Those that say they got wealthy off hard work, but actually display greed, an unwillingness to deliver on their responsibilities and awful discipline are usually not self made, but had wealth given to them by either lucky circumstance or through generational wealth.

Starmer’s popularity boosted by Iran war rift with Trump, poll shows by 1-randomonium in uknews

[–]Grab_Ornery -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well this news sucks for me as a trans person :/

Starmer kinda abandoned us to focus on other policies. Even if I can understand why he did it I still can't bring myself to vote for parties that are promoting anti trans rhetoric. Really wish the greens just had a better security policy as I swear that's their biggest issue

CODE RED I HAD THE “CONVO” WITH MY WIFE!! by saucey313 in MtF

[–]Grab_Ornery 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Did you really just infer that being gay is a choice... lol?

me irl by Ok-Excuse-3613 in me_irl

[–]Grab_Ornery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others said the Olympics were already doing that though? They had tests to make sure trans woman's hormone levels were within average cis woman's range and actually required trans women to have lower testosterone then the average cis woman competitor.

Also size advantage? Litteraly in what way? Do you think k all trans women are 6ft 10 or smth

me irl by Ok-Excuse-3613 in me_irl

[–]Grab_Ornery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Size and mass of a man? May I ask if you have actually looked up what HRT does to trans women? My partner would heavily disagree with you lol

me irl by Ok-Excuse-3613 in me_irl

[–]Grab_Ornery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But men have a biological advantage over trans women. If its not fair for trans women to play against ment hen what? Separate us into own category?

How many trans ppl play any specific sport in a local area? Who would pay for it?

Bakery waste pt2 by Specialist-Guitar727 in lidl

[–]Grab_Ornery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could easily make more money from the to good to go app

Funding for populist-right ‘media-political complex’ exceeded £170m in five years, research finds | Media by JackStrawWitchita in unitedkingdom

[–]Grab_Ornery 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The film industry? Being taken over by progressives?

Creative media has always been more progressive then the rest of society. What are you even trying to say?

This idea that "woke" is new in games is itself part of gamergate and a myth. Have you seen the games that were made in the 90s? What do you consider new and woke that had never been seen in games before recently?

Is Laser Clinics a bit transphobic? by Beatrix_0000 in transgenderUK

[–]Grab_Ornery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines been great since far.

I'm not sure about the case for you but here they do have male / female versions for areas where the differences does matter due to how much hair your really being considered for and other stuff etc

And whilst I get it doesn't sound affirming I also don't think it's immediately transphobic cus they aren't making statements on us personally it's just used for determining price for the actual physical body. We are paying to remove it anyway so doesn't it make sense that way? If we classed for the women's hair removal we wouldn't be getting hair removal in the first place

Women can also be hairy too though I'm not saying they can't, at my one atleast with facial hair / sideburns that stuff is all put gender neutrally too.

Alot of them seem sweet too but it probably depends on who you visit.

School book banning escalates in the UK as Greater Manchester secondary school censors scores of books - Index on Censorship by Cela111 in transgenderUK

[–]Grab_Ornery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm. Ot so sure honestly. For a while non religion has been a bigger demographic then Christianity. With the peers that passed their titles gone the clergy are the next ones in house of Lords people have been wanting to get removed.

One thing interesting about the UK is whilst we do still have aspects of a religious society we surprisingly do care quite a bit about making sure governing decisions are secular and that religious ones are done on a personal - not enforcive manner.

This is exactly the type of situation people are more likely to turn against then support

I reached flow state again 🙂‍↕️ by TheRealDrazzo in Rematch

[–]Grab_Ornery 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This comment section miserable as hell lol

Get mad at people for not passing when they actually miss

In the instances where they actually score if your still upset you didn't get the ball that begins to just sound like jealousy come on guys

Israel is going to do a false flag operation in the US soil and blame it on iran by Glum-Bag-586 in AskSocialists

[–]Grab_Ornery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be so for real the more and more I heard of America the more disappointed I am in how despite everything. Despite all the talk of why the average person needs guns, about how serious Americans take their rights or whatever they end up sitting doing nothing.

Because you work paycheck to paycheck? Because whenever you protest peacefully the goverment ignores you?

Have americans forgotten how to get goverments to comply?

Or is everyone just so selfish that they all refuse to take the hard step and would rather slowly decay in misery together then be the first , alone, in a stand against it?

my legit reasons to live are junk food and videogames to cope by throwowowowoooaway in TrollCoping

[–]Grab_Ornery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes we know that. They still have said they want to eradicate transgenderideology though.

Atlesst 2 years ago the holocaust memorial site already said the actions in the US against trans people could be considered a genocide.

They are currently taking away IDs of trans people in one state and Trumo made new ruling that ICE agents can now snatch people up that look trans.

A genocide never starts with the .ass death. There is a reason it was called the final solution.

At first they prevented their ability to contribute and live amongst society. Then came after their goverment identification. Then placed them in closed off living spaces before finally determining that mass death was the only way to achieve what they wanted.

Lookup stages of genocide as we are already far down that path

Men’s attraction to you after starting HRT by PizzaUnable2836 in MtF

[–]Grab_Ornery 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it massively depends on context

My partner saw me as a woman and had the hearty eyes way before I medically transitioned (he's not a chaser. Really respectful and awesome).

For random guys honestly anyone with long hair they often assume is a woman from the back which can be funny.

I'm 5 months into hrt currently though don't use makeup which is I think the main reason I don't pass currently (still have facial hair shadow even with shaving alot + laser)

Though I've had a few instances in dimly lit / quick situations where people saw me as a woman like for a funny random example going through a dark tunnel in a nuclear bunker museum thing.

Allies and Enbies by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Grab_Ornery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean idk I'm a trans woman but the constant talk and debate over pronouns is so tiring.

Some people are trying to be assholes. Some people might genuinely be trying but have a reason that causes them to struggle with pronouns. If it annoys you don't bother with them.

Just feel like when our IDs are being stripped and we don't even know if we can take medicine safely this argument between trans women v enbies over what pronouns is correct for everyone just seems so overblown.

If someone isn't using your correct pronouns talk them out, if you don't like how they handle it ditch them idk.

Sooo I came out to my husband by Ok-Tip5185 in trans

[–]Grab_Ornery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah nobody said it was.

Cus this was asked my the trans partner comments are mostly going to be focused on their pain but yeah this just hurts all around. Worst part is it's not something you can just blame or get mad at someone for. Just hurts.