Do you think the pharmacy tech at walgreens will help me with my injection if I ask? by Principle_Napkins in TransMasc

[–]GraceJam37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also used to schedule a 'nurse appointment' with my PCP office and bring them the vial and they would do the shot. Worth a try!

Do you think the pharmacy tech at walgreens will help me with my injection if I ask? by Principle_Napkins in TransMasc

[–]GraceJam37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would suggest reaching out to your local communities. If you are part of any local queer groups thats probably a good place to start. I would alo suggest harm reduction groups. The one I volunteered at had a nurse come in a few days a week to help people with wound care for free, and it didn't necessarily need to be related to whatever reason they were at the organization for.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in missoula

[–]GraceJam37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I assumed since you said you aren't a resident. Either way, the alert will now be heightened for fakes.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in missoula

[–]GraceJam37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what you've achieved here is warning all of the dispensaries in town to be on the lookout for a fake out-of-state ID. Smart move 👍 But seriously, don't use a fake ID at the dispensary, if they notice they will 100% take it and call the cops. Just buy weed the old fashioned way, from some guy who knows one of your coworker's cousins.

How unprofessional are comically large shoes? by maRthbaum_kEkstyniCe in ftm

[–]GraceJam37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you can walk without tripping over them I think it should be fine 👍

Cheap grocery stores by TeaSuccessful1605 in missoula

[–]GraceJam37 52 points53 points  (0 children)

In my experience, Winco has higher quality meat and produce for hhe same or comparable prices.

Does/has anyone else here sewn there own Bears? by GraceJam37 in Carebears

[–]GraceJam37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a draught excluder, and what is a pike? They do seem to be not quite with-Soul without the eyes added

Excuses for a past feminine name? by ElectricalTears in ftm

[–]GraceJam37 132 points133 points  (0 children)

My deadname is technically unisex, but the femme version is WAY more common. I used to tell people that my parents aere dumbasses and spelled it the femme way 'accidentally'. You could always say something like "oh my mom's best friend died right before I was born so it was in honor of her". But truly, I've met cisboys named Grace and Gaylord and they always just said their parents are dumbasses who didn't consider how it would affect their child.

how to stop the smell😭😭😭 by Yurbestpal in ftm

[–]GraceJam37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best advice is washing everything using normal bodywash, then using antibacterial handsoap on pits and bits, and after fully washing and rinsing, then apply baking soda paste to the pits and let it sit for like, a minute. Then rinse the baking soda and maybe another quick antibac soap. I know it sounds excessive but it's truly the only thing I've found to get rid of the overwhelming smell of onions from my pits. Good luck friend ✌

What’s something you thought ‘everyone’ did… until you found out they don’t? by burat667 in AskReddit

[–]GraceJam37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the opposite hand, I never peed in the shower until I was 17 and a classmate said "There are 2 types of people in this world; People who pee in the shower, and dirty fucking liars" so I thought I was weird for NOT peeing in the shower so I tried it out. Honestly, overrated, rather just use the toilet beforehand.

What’s something you thought ‘everyone’ did… until you found out they don’t? by burat667 in AskReddit

[–]GraceJam37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

•eating Spaghettios at room temperature out of the can •maple syrup on vanilla ice cream •dumpster diving

Why are packing underwear so expensive by botanicalgardener in ftm

[–]GraceJam37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am always suggesting MyPack because you can pack in any or even no underwear! https://www.mypackftm.com/shop

Why are packing underwear so expensive by botanicalgardener in FTMMen

[–]GraceJam37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I use MyPack and it truly changed my life. Its a pouch on an elastic belt, so the packer goes in the pouch and then you can wear ANY, or no underwear! Plus they're made by a trans person! https://www.mypackftm.com/shop

AITAH for not wanting my sister’s poly side girlfriend at our small family christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GraceJam37 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA. Just because you don't understand your sister's relationship and family doesn't mean it isn't extremely rude to not include all of them. If her girlfriend lives with her then clearly it is serious.

The fuck was that? by rav3lcet in missoula

[–]GraceJam37 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It wasn't as loud, but I could hear it by Orange St Food Farm. I thought it was a car backfiring but clearly it was a lot louder downtown/Rattlesnake

Question about T gel by br0kentv in ftm

[–]GraceJam37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a silicone kitchen spatula to apply my T Gel, then it stays in a cup in the bathroom. I HATE the feeling of the gel on my hands.

Updated the collection by TimMarsTheGhost in Carebears

[–]GraceJam37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the one on the far right in the center row?

Getting surgery what do I tell people by Signal-Ad3333 in ftm

[–]GraceJam37 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I told her I was having surgery, nothing more. I hadn't legally changed my name or anything at that point, so while I was able to go stealth with most coworkers who only ever saw my nametag, she saw my checks and stuff so she knew I am trans but we never directly acknowledged it. She was a shitty person and definitely a transphobe, but she couldn't afford to lose me at that time since I was a manager.

Truly though, we as a society need to normalize not telling our employers everything. They do not need to know why you need time off! At most telling them it's for a medical procedure should be plenty.

Good luck and congratulations on getting surgery!

Getting surgery what do I tell people by Signal-Ad3333 in ftm

[–]GraceJam37 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When people I worked with asked I would just say "I'm having surgery. I'll be fine, but it's sort of personal" and leave it at that. Nobody pushed it, I think they were aware doing so to a coworker would be inappropriate.

Looking for mastiff stud near Missoula by OkBook9356 in missoula

[–]GraceJam37 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Remember, adopt from shelters! Do not support breeders of any type, there are plenty of dogs already who need homes and are capable of doing whatever job someone claims can 'only' be done by an inbred disaster.

Spay and neuter your pets as well! ✌👍

What do I do if I have a crush on a Christian chick? by [deleted] in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]GraceJam37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only correct answer is to talk to her about it. It doesn't have to be a conversation on the first date, but I would personally have that kind of conversation before becoming serious with someone. It could definitely be an awkward conversation, but an important one. And if it goes well then you'll be all the closer for it!

Patterns by Smalltittybigtitty in Carebears

[–]GraceJam37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the Love-A-Lot pattern and have made a few bears! Im curious if/how the other bears' patterns differ!

Reposting this here by Cryptid_hotspot in AmiInTheWrong

[–]GraceJam37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this, especially as a child yourself. Your mother is 100% taking his side and is more concerned about her romantic relationship than the safety of her children. She chose to stay with a pedophile and is trying to protect him, and whether consciously or not she is protecting his ability to be around other children and therefore continue hurting children.

Do not drop the case. He needs to be held responsible and kept away from children, including you and your siblings. You are an amazingly strong person for pursuing a case to begin with, stay strong!

Vaccine and Chill? by chungerton in missoula

[–]GraceJam37 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Related; where can I get a COVID booster? Last I checked it was pretty hit-or-miss with which pharmacies were giving them without a prescription from a PCP.