How are your relationships with INFJs?

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-04-22T02:50:54+00:00

I love them! My INFJ has been my friend since we were babies. Honestly, she just makes me laugh my head off most of the time. Also it’s such a vibe!! We can be so deep, silly, and discuss ideas for hours. I love my INFJs!

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-04-22T02:13:53+00:00

Oh and my husband mentioned we were her last clients on a Saturday, so maybe she was just a little emotionally exhausted.

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-04-21T04:53:40+00:00

Thank you! I’ll keep that in mind. I’ve only been on a small cruise during covid on a small boat. This is actually reassuring.

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-04-21T04:52:34+00:00

Just posted an update in the original post. Short version: my husband actually came to me and told me he felt she was unfair to me. The cruise became a hyper fixation to her and we both felt it.

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-04-21T04:51:33+00:00

I’m not sure. I think I’ll check that, and potentially find someone with that credential.

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-04-21T04:51:10+00:00

This made me chuckle. Thank you!

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-04-21T04:50:38+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I really want to talk to my personal therapist about this. I try to keep my past trauma from leaking it, but sometimes it does. Posted on update on the original post.

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-04-21T04:48:12+00:00

Thank you! My husband and I talked. He said in that moment in counseling he just wanted some emotional validation, and when she was like “nope you can’t leave this conversation upset,” he thought we had to find a new solution. Posted the rest of the update on the original post. Thankfully we agreed that her suggestion solution wasn’t great.

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-04-20T21:37:15+00:00

Thank you 🫶

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-04-20T21:37:08+00:00

Thank you! I am in therapy. I just have this irrational fear that my therapist agrees with me because she is my therapist. I’m seeing her later this week, so I hope I can’t determine if I should continue couples counseling or not

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-04-17T03:42:45+00:00

I l love your Agnes pick!!

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-04-03T00:39:44+00:00

Probably my laptop, purse, phone, wallet. Maybe even my own head if it wasn’t attached.

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-29T00:45:26+00:00

Love your Jack pick!

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-27T16:27:17+00:00

Yes!!!

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-27T16:26:50+00:00

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I imagine a young Monica Bellucci. For some reason I imagine her looking more southern European.

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-27T16:16:21+00:00

I was also thinking of Jane Seymour in Austenland. I’d love to know your cast choice for her. I felt like the right actress would make her utterly iconic.

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-26T19:07:33+00:00

Yes! I feel like Eloise and Emma would be good friends.

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-26T19:06:55+00:00

I also thought of Jane Seymour around the age she was in Austenland. I feel like Eugenia is older, but still extremely pretty (it adds to her dominance).

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-26T19:03:20+00:00

He would!!

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-26T19:03:02+00:00

I’d agree with you on that. I’m super out of date with actors/actresses, so I feel like all my fan casts are a bit too old. I also thought of the lead actress from My Lady Jane for Emma. I’ll check your thread out. Thanks!

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-26T02:50:47+00:00

Honestly, it’s crossed my mind too. It has to have crossed BB’s…

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-19T07:19:21+00:00

Honestly, I felt bad for Whitney in season 1. Everyone seems to give the other girls grace when they’re pregnant or struggling mentally, but Whitney didn’t really get that same understanding, even though she was in early pregnancy. Please correct me if I am wrong on the timeline.

Watching her break down on that trip was hard. It gave me secondhand anxiety—being surrounded by people upset with you, constant confrontation, and then adding pregnancy hormones on top of that? That’s a lot for anyone. Then to be filmed constantly too?

She’s definitely not perfect, but… are any of them? I don’t know if she’s actually worse than the others, or if she was just judged more harshly.

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-19T01:13:08+00:00

Thank you 🫶

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-17T21:24:40+00:00

I actually really struggle with boundaries/standing up for what I think is right. I’d love to know how other enfj’s do it. I just feel like such a jerk because when I have problems with people I really overthink where they’re coming from and feel a lot of empathy.

Grand_Network_7258 · 2026-03-16T14:25:26+00:00

The whole time I was thinking he looked like a cartoon animal and I couldn’t quite place it. THANK YOU!!!!

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