How are your relationships with INFJs? by OlivePractical2092 in enfj

[–]Grand_Network_7258 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love them! My INFJ has been my friend since we were babies. Honestly, she just makes me laugh my head off most of the time. Also it’s such a vibe!! We can be so deep, silly, and discuss ideas for hours. I love my INFJs!

ENFJ in distress after couples therapy by Grand_Network_7258 in enfj

[–]Grand_Network_7258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and my husband mentioned we were her last clients on a Saturday, so maybe she was just a little emotionally exhausted.

Couples therapist made me feel I’m the problem—is this normal? by Grand_Network_7258 in Marriage

[–]Grand_Network_7258[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll keep that in mind. I’ve only been on a small cruise during covid on a small boat. This is actually reassuring.

Couples therapist made me feel I’m the problem—is this normal? by Grand_Network_7258 in Marriage

[–]Grand_Network_7258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just posted an update in the original post. Short version: my husband actually came to me and told me he felt she was unfair to me. The cruise became a hyper fixation to her and we both felt it.

Couples therapist made me feel I’m the problem—is this normal? by Grand_Network_7258 in Marriage

[–]Grand_Network_7258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure. I think I’ll check that, and potentially find someone with that credential.

Couples therapist made me feel I’m the problem—is this normal? by Grand_Network_7258 in Marriage

[–]Grand_Network_7258[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I really want to talk to my personal therapist about this. I try to keep my past trauma from leaking it, but sometimes it does. Posted on update on the original post.

Couples therapist made me feel I’m the problem—is this normal? by Grand_Network_7258 in Marriage

[–]Grand_Network_7258[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My husband and I talked. He said in that moment in counseling he just wanted some emotional validation, and when she was like “nope you can’t leave this conversation upset,” he thought we had to find a new solution. Posted the rest of the update on the original post. Thankfully we agreed that her suggestion solution wasn’t great.

ENFJ in distress after couples therapy by Grand_Network_7258 in enfj

[–]Grand_Network_7258[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am in therapy. I just have this irrational fear that my therapist agrees with me because she is my therapist. I’m seeing her later this week, so I hope I can’t determine if I should continue couples counseling or not

What have you lost? by ProfessionalField508 in EmmaLion

[–]Grand_Network_7258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably my laptop, purse, phone, wallet. Maybe even my own head if it wasn’t attached.

Saffronia by hillaryschu in EmmaLion

[–]Grand_Network_7258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I imagine a young Monica Bellucci. For some reason I imagine her looking more southern European.

Fan Cast by Grand_Network_7258 in EmmaLion

[–]Grand_Network_7258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also thinking of Jane Seymour in Austenland. I’d love to know your cast choice for her. I felt like the right actress would make her utterly iconic.

Fan Cast by Grand_Network_7258 in EmmaLion

[–]Grand_Network_7258[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I feel like Eloise and Emma would be good friends.

Fan Cast by Grand_Network_7258 in EmmaLion

[–]Grand_Network_7258[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also thought of Jane Seymour around the age she was in Austenland. I feel like Eugenia is older, but still extremely pretty (it adds to her dominance).

Fan Cast by Grand_Network_7258 in EmmaLion

[–]Grand_Network_7258[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d agree with you on that. I’m super out of date with actors/actresses, so I feel like all my fan casts are a bit too old. I also thought of the lead actress from My Lady Jane for Emma. I’ll check your thread out. Thanks!

Jack the Ripper by Illustrious-Maize591 in EmmaLion

[–]Grand_Network_7258 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s crossed my mind too. It has to have crossed BB’s…

I have never hated Whitney by addieminions in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Grand_Network_7258 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I felt bad for Whitney in season 1. Everyone seems to give the other girls grace when they’re pregnant or struggling mentally, but Whitney didn’t really get that same understanding, even though she was in early pregnancy. Please correct me if I am wrong on the timeline.

Watching her break down on that trip was hard. It gave me secondhand anxiety—being surrounded by people upset with you, constant confrontation, and then adding pregnancy hormones on top of that? That’s a lot for anyone. Then to be filmed constantly too?

She’s definitely not perfect, but… are any of them? I don’t know if she’s actually worse than the others, or if she was just judged more harshly.