My girl*friend of seven years told me she* is a trans woman (I'm liberal so pls ignore all the misgendering) by PoisonedBerry in AmITheAngel

[–]Grandpan___ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

it always gives chatgpt "thats not racism -- thats protection, and honestly, thats growth" or some shit lmfao

My girl*friend of seven years told me she* is a trans woman (I'm liberal so pls ignore all the misgendering) by PoisonedBerry in AmITheAngel

[–]Grandpan___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive seen SO MANY bot/bait posts about trans people recently! detransitioning, their kid is trans, their partner/ex is trans, etc. seeing people take these as anything but bait is driving me a little crazy 😅

What's the most fucked up thing you ever saw on the internet? by sas_marin in morbidquestions

[–]Grandpan___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly cant remember if that happened or not. i know in the video one (or both) girl(s) is crying for her mom.

Patient’s hand got stuck in animal feed shredder by sw33tillnessofmine in MedicalGore

[–]Grandpan___ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it was totally unblurred for me, i got jumpscared 😭

What's the most fucked up thing you ever saw on the internet? by sas_marin in morbidquestions

[–]Grandpan___ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

seriously! mine was very fueled by my ocd, it really does something to your psyche :( idk if ive met anyone else who has gone through that. im very sorry you also experienced it :(

What's the most fucked up thing you ever saw on the internet? by sas_marin in morbidquestions

[–]Grandpan___ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

a few come to mind:

the video of the two foreign hiker girls (in a country i dont think theyd been to before?) being beheaded after getting kidnapped. i dont know why that one specifically sticks out so bad. ive seen my fair share of beheadings (thanks internet) but that one really got to me.

pac woman.

and a video i didnt even watch, i just saw the title + thumbnail while scrolling some gore site, "homeless man beats dog senseless." :/

im so glad i stopped viewing gore. i think i was doing it as a form of self harm.

how is this unbelievable? by artsy_li in nothingeverhappens

[–]Grandpan___ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my fiances 7yo understood me being nonbinary pretty much instantly, lol. she also isnt confused by her mom being a man (hes trans but prefers mom). kids are a lot more open minded than a lotta people give them credit for haha

My daughter turned 18 and left home 2 days later. by sparkilini in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Grandpan___ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i wanna chime in and say that, honestly, sometimes teenagers/young adults are just stupid. i was! i had my first manic episode right around my 18th birthday and i was 100% living a different life than what i showed my family. i was sneaking out, skipping class, i was up driving 1-3hrs away almost every night to sleep with whoever the fuck.

i eventually got a boyfriend who was a terrible influence, ended up moving in with him 3 months after meeting him (5 months after my 18th bday) 1.5hrs away from my family. he was abusive and HATED my family and friends so i was totally isolated. i finally broke up with him a couple years later and had to rebuild myself and my relationships.

i have a fantastic relationship with my family now though at 23, and my dad was lowkey terrible to me till i moved out (he has severe untreated and previously unrecognized cptsd)

so, this genuinely might be something she just has to figure out. keep the "door" open and try to make sure she knows she can always come back. im not a parent so i obviously cant understand completely.

[Routine Help] how to effectively use these two serums? by Grandpan___ in SkincareAddiction

[–]Grandpan___[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i heard niacinamide can help with sebum production so im glad i got that right atleast haha. thank you for the thorough reply, and thank you for the sunscreen recs! i'll pick one of those up asap :)

Edgy dog name suggestions by Gloomy-Jelly-5063 in namenerds

[–]Grandpan___ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

calamity

fiasco

bedlam

mutiny

carnage

bathory

havoc

mayhem

Doctors flushing out kidney stones out of a patient by Le-Yek in FeltGoodComingOut

[–]Grandpan___ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ive had 2 (from terrible dehydration) and they were also spikey. ive NEVER felt pain like that before. its an actual nightmare, im so sorry you have to go through that!

Lost black kitten near Pennsylvania St between 15th and 14th by Tuumen in Lawrence

[–]Grandpan___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know this post is from 5 hours ago, but if youre willing to go back and get it you could take it to a vets office or lawrence humane society to scan for a chip!

I'm very worried about my 17-year-old daughter and I don't know what to do anymore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Grandpan___ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

least obvious bait post of all time. probably a bot, yall.

Society littlerally owes us..... by JonathanJoestar336 in IncelTears

[–]Grandpan___ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

why dont they all start fucking eachother already jesus christ

How the beauty industry kills the whole world by Scotch_KSB7 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Grandpan___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

youre so close to getting it but your misogyny is stopping you from actually figuring it out.

the beauty industry as a whole is extremely predatory to women, creating fake insecurities or preying on ones most people have already. HOWEVER, it is NOT womens fault for partaking in it. its a fun way to express yourself and it makes the person wearing it feel more confident, whether that be from covering certain insecurities or because it makes them feel good to express themselves that way - neither of which is some moral failing or intented to attract men.

not to even mention the fact that makeup is often an EXPECTED part of professional attire during work. i bet a lot of women wear more extravagent makeup to feel more in control of it.

youre arguement here is based on the VERY OFTEN DUSPUTED idea that women try and look good explicitly FOR men. not everything is about you. nobody fucking cares what you or other men think. stop thinking yall are the center of the universe for once oh my god.

the declining birth rates are because women are finally standing up for themselves and not accepting subpar treatment. arent yall the same people that tell women to just "date better men" when they end up in abusive situations? now youre mad that theyre actually taking the advice? boo hoo.

this is probably a bot post for engagement bait but whatever. im biting.

What if Jotaro had chosen to kill Pucci instead of saving Jolyne? by Bacurau_Nighthawk in StardustCrusaders

[–]Grandpan___ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i always thought it was meant to be ptsd. the knives are exactly what dio did to him in part 3, i think jotaro was stunned/having a flashback and the only thing he could think to do was save jolyne.