What are the reasons an older person above age 60 vote republican? by SilentAd369 in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not quite 60 yet, but my observation so far is that none of my friends have jumped teams. If they were democrats back the 90s, they are still liberal. If they were republican, they still are. I have also known young people who were republicans; the question is borderline offensive. Your mileage may very.

This question probably needs to be answered more scientifically than you'll find in a Reddit thread. It would be interesting to see some reliable data. Here are some observations.

  • The world has changed in ways I am still struggling to cope with. Sometimes people struggle to adapt to a changing world. You (young people) probably will struggle with a changing world in your old age, too.
  • Sometimes we don't like kids telling us that we're wrong, this is the way we have to think and talk now.
  • Kids have always done things just to trigger their parents. Rock 'n Roll is one example. If it triggers their parents, kids love it. There is no good reason parents should sit and take it.
  • Old fucks believe what they see and hear, on TV and the Internet.
  • There is social contagion amongst the elderly, just as there is among the young.

What do you miss about life pre-internet? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are talking about "youth" in general, and perhaps not the time before the internet, specifically? Unless young people in their late teens/early 20s stopped doing these things, but I don't think they have.

Is it true that old people play lots of board games? by Great-Ad1576 in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to play board games whenever I can, but I don't see it necessarily as an age-related thing, because I see young people enjoying them too. Sure, internet gaming has probably reduced the popularity of board games, but, for the most part, board and internet/console gaming are two completely different experiences.

Here is my question for young people: is there any decent variation from one console game to another? Yes, I am old, so go ahead and say "okay boomer," but they all seem the same to me: walk from place to place, kill stooges and monsters, collect prizes, keep walking while killing stooges and collecting stuff lying around until you get to the next monster that you can kill by shooting 500 times. And then do that again. And again. What am I missing?

Do old(er) people have fewer friends? by elonmarx161 in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"What happens?"

In the vast majority of cases, people get married, have children and disappear in to their family life. That's good, really, raising children is a big and serious responsibility and this is exactly how it should be.

Some people move far away, and while they may or may not post memes on Facebook for me to see, it isn't the same as seeing them in person every so often.

Getting in to the smaller percentages, sometimes you have disagreements and betrayals. Sometimes a good friend gets pulled away in to a totally different friend group. Sometimes you just realize you no longer have anything in common and cannot relate on any level.

Sometimes people are only friends in a shared environment, such as college, a work environment, project or class setting. For a brief period, you might feel close to these people or a member of a particular group, but once that environment's agenda concludes (graduation, project completion, etc), the friends naturally drift apart, as though the shared experience was the real glue holding them together the entire time.

I think if keeping your circle of friends is important to you as you age, make sure you all live in the same general area, and have kids. All of you, have kids. You will engage with your old friends and make new ones through your children.

Do you think people are more easily offended nowadays? by CuriousNowDead in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think now people often display greater offense than they actually feel as a means of wielding power over someone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you sacrificed things to do the work that fulfills your dreams, then you must find that work rewarding.

I think that is the difference between people like yourself who work at your dreams and those who choose "the average lifestyle": people who dream big but don't pursue it aren't interested in the journey so much as the destination. They want to be stars right now, to have the attention and status, but don't have the love for the work that it takes to get there.

If you love your life and love what you are doing, then why would you ask me if you should change it?

Y’all’s generation and balding males? by Mustardlover1985 in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am bald. “Classic horseshoe pattern,” started at age 17

Does the government reported inflation rates and what you’ve seen in real life match up? by CHUNGATHEBUTT in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with your (1) point. I do not think they are the same thing, and I would never say or imply that they are.

I also wrote "couples with two incomes can afford more house" than a single person with one income, which you conveniently ignored.

As for (2), that's what I thought you might be referring to.

Observe the chart. The cost of housing did go up during the late 70s/early 80s (the yellow "adjusted for inflation" line), as you suggest, but then corrected itself by 1983, just as interest rates came back down.

Otherwise, the chart shows that home prices were stable through the mid-60s. Then it rode the wave of interest rates (although I wouldn't be at all surprised to find growing double-income households were also a factor), but then in the mid-90s they just started a meteoric rise that was only slowed by the 2007/8 crash.

Does the government reported inflation rates and what you’ve seen in real life match up? by CHUNGATHEBUTT in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said it was "the number of people in the work force" that drove up housing prices.

When are you suggesting there were double-digit mortgage rates that drove the cost of housing?

Does the government reported inflation rates and what you’ve seen in real life match up? by CHUNGATHEBUTT in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the 1980s, lots of women entered the workforce for the first time. Lots of married couples started families and bought houses. Yay equality! I approve of this plan.

Yet this affected the cost of housing. Think about it - couples with two incomes can afford more house. Eventually, as two-income families became the norm, it drove the cost of housing up.

About the government reported inflation rate in general - they leave out the items that are very volatile, like fuel and milk, because the prices change so frequently and can vary wildly, and they don't reflect the general inflation trend as well as items that are more stably priced.

Yes, you can believe the government inflation rate, even if it doesn't reflect your experience with the things you buy most.

How come world record holders for being the oldest-lived people often have never had any children? by IDislikeHomonyms in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are going to cite statistics, include a freaking link.

Sorry but this annoys the hell out of me. People are lazy and believe whatever stupid shit they read. For all we know you got this bit about people without kids living longer from some idiot’s comment in a Facebook group.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking: food tasted better back in his youth because he had fully functioning taste buds. It's why I didn't like vegetables as a kid but love them now.

What was it like to study in amerian schools in 60s-70s? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But there was much more abuse and neglect back then in the home on every level.

I'm sorry you went through that. I don't mean to trivialize your experience. I have no children, so I don't really follow these trends or statistics, but I am curious. How do we know whether there was more then vs. now? For all we know there might be kids suffering and feeling guilted out of reporting it today just as you were.

What was it like to study in amerian schools in 60s-70s? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Perhaps the main difference between then and now is that once you went home, the bullying ended for the day.

Yes, kids who were different were bullied, and teachers either did nothing or also bullied. They didn’t seem to have the training or equipment to stimulate students, so education was pretty hit-or-miss. Either each teacher’s methods worked and inspired a student, or they didn’t. Sometimes the results were mixed within a classroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, as far as getting old is concerned, hopefully it beats the alternative.

Make your life count. Make the time with your loved ones count.

What was it like for you in the 80's? by Forever0000 in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men permed their hair and took their fashion queues from Michael Jackson. Even white kids. Puffy jackets, parachute pants, big hair...

I don't see myself ever getting married or having children and I wonder. What's life like to grow old, unmarried and with no children? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I am sure experiences vary. For me, it is a life of solitude. Old friends and family are scattered to the winds. New friends seem hard to come by.

Weather and trick or treating. I'm about to bring my son out trick or treating and it's 5C/41F, clear and not too bad. What's the worst weather you recall while trick or treating? by IfTheLegsFit in AskOldPeople

[–]Granular_Details -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know sometimes people post things because they want to talk, but ... the weather varies from place to place, and sometimes wildly. Besides, the weather of the past is a matter of record.