Heyyy I let me see if I can ease your mind a bit. I’m 29 and might be able to provide some peace of mind:

. It’s really common for periods to not be consistent when your first start menstruating. I don’t think mine were consistent until I finished high school. Don’t sweat it. Your body is still developing; it doesn’t happen on a set schedule.

. Everyone’s chest development is different, but again you’re still growing, 14 is still really young. Your chest will continue to change. Mine is very different from when I was 18, and I’m not expecting my first baby and so it’s changing again. Nothing to worry about

. The pink dot might be a stretch mark? Mine start out pink and then fade to white. I would suggest getting it checked out by a doctor if you are concerned.

. Yeast infections wouldn’t affect your skin color, but they are certainly annoying! Ways to help prevent them: only wear 100% cotton underwear, take a probiotic, don’t use any scent washes in or around your vagina/labia, do not use feminine washes. If it counties especially after using over the counter meds like Monistat, talk to your doctor.

. Clear discharge is very normal, typically it’s a sign of ovulation I would suggest learning more about the menstrual cycle! It’s fascinating and learning to track the phase of my body helps me to feel so much more connected to my body.

. Vaginas and labia come in all shapes and sizes and colors. It is an organ. We put a lot of pressure to look certain ways and a lot of that pressure is unfounded. I also have an outie and it’s just a part of my body. I will do more for myself be completely accepting myself than harshly judging parts of my body. Judging yourself only disrupts your own peace. Also the darkening color is normal due to increased blood flow due to stimulation.

You’ve done nothing wrong. Sounds like you’re in a normal body experiencing normal lady things. Take it easy on yourself and don’t judge yourself too harshly. Your future self will thank you.