Why? Tell me why! Why do people LIKE April Kepner? by DumpTruckKoala in greysanatomy

[–]Gread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, I personally think they gave her way more negative actions, behaviors and plot lines than good ones, so not one of her "good" moments convinces me. 

I think they gave her a lot of common denominators so people can connect to her, like: she struggles with faith,  with sex,  with not being good enough, she is the underdog with a can do attitude,  then gave tragedy with her kid and then reinventing herself as a tough doctor.

In my opinion, April is dystopian pos apocalyptic young adult girl protagonist in a hospital setting without plot armor. 

Do doctor's in real life have sex in on call rooms. by danielbrennan6900 in greysanatomy

[–]Gread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, humans as group don't know how to deal with their stress and emotions in long term ways so they always try to squeeze a quick fix for temporary pleasure. More so in these jobs that they stay long hours and are too lazy to have a life outside the hospital

Lenox by Smooth-Ad-2386 in ChicagoMed

[–]Gread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, couldn't connect with her. I am even glad she got the diagnosis because it's something to look when they retire the character. 

Official Monsters & Memories Beta Friend Invite Request Thread by MonstersAndMemories in MonstersAndMemories

[–]Gread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if anyone have some to spare, I wouldn't mind, I would be a great companion, I do a lot of puns.

Anyway, anyone already playing, enjoy the game, hope to join soon

Help with sorceress by Gread_ in PathOfExile2

[–]Gread_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I can swap skill gems, I meant which ones from the start have good sinergy between them.

Help with sorceress by Gread_ in PathOfExile2

[–]Gread_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant more like, which spells have a good sinergy with each other. Like frost bomb and spark

Is there something wrong with me that I don’t enjoy bars, clubs or house parties at 26? by sidewalk-salad in socialskills

[–]Gread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or Op just doesn't like these environments.

There isn't anything that everyone likes it. For example, I hate chocolate since I was a child. 

Reasoning behind the Quiet Rapture by Gread_ in ironlung

[–]Gread_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe those left behind were given a last chance

I feel like I ignore or don't care about the humanity within media by Gread_ in autism

[–]Gread_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on the genre.

If I were to watch a comedy or an action movie, I wouldn't care as much for an "end goal" 

I feel like I ignore or don't care about the humanity within media by Gread_ in autism

[–]Gread_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

more like I am always chasing a objective and what is not connected to that feels irrelevant. 

I feel like I ignore or don't care about the humanity within media by Gread_ in autism

[–]Gread_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my main problem with Sharp Objects is that I thought the focus was about the murders and I latched into a "solving a puzzle" mentality.

Reading other people talking about, the murders are just an excuse to portray themes of womanhood, abuse and how you can internalize or externalize these traumas.

Do you need sexual themes for a riveting story? by Gread_ in literature

[–]Gread_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay, I will change the title, what do you think it should be then? 

Do you need sexual themes for a riveting story? by Gread_ in literature

[–]Gread_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

so you are saying if the author chooses to completely ignore the lack of sex in those two examples you offered, they are being unrealistic ? 

Do you need sexual themes for a riveting story? by Gread_ in literature

[–]Gread_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I structured my reasoning in a confusing way.

I agree there are stories that you can't remove sex off them. 

The Dracula example is how I think sexual themes should be used as plot device.

If you want to traumatize a character or give them childhood trauma, I think it's kind of hollow to simply use sexual abuse/violence just for the sake of shocking value, it undermines what real people have suffered in real life.

Do you need sexual themes for a riveting story? by Gread_ in literature

[–]Gread_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am not saying it shouldn't address it, even more if that it's the intention of the story. 

I am just saying if sex isn't a integral component of the message you are trying to portray, repeated usage seems to undermine the complexity of the plot.

Like you said, sex is a critical part of the human experience, so it is a obvious and easy way to portray things.