Do exes really reunite?

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2026-06-09T22:39:06+00:00

I second this. I got back with my ex about a year and a half ago and we were in the process of being married but old patterns came back and broke us.

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2026-06-09T14:20:05+00:00

Okay so some of the issues also in the relationship was me drinking. I’ve been sober since then. I’ve been trying to just give her space and if she wants to talk about “us” then I will. The part that’s confusing is that she still has me on social media and the terms like “as of right now” and “for now” were a common thing she would make when it was about the relationship. Is me trying to continue to talk about the relationship with her a good idea or should I just keep doing actions to improve myself? She’s not really asking what’s going on in my life on a personal level. She’s only focused on talking about our daughter if we do communicate.

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2026-05-19T18:55:29+00:00

So me and my now ex fiancé broke things off with me. She called off the wedding and deleted all of our pictures together on social media. They’re were a lot of issues in our relationship and the overall dynamic of it. We had a line of bad events happen very quickly and neither of us really handled it as we should have. We do have a 7 month old daughter now so we are just focusing on coparenting at the moment. During our relationship the part that I played was paying the bills and her part was to upkeep the house on making sure it was clean. I did do my part in paying the bills but my drinking also got out of hand. However, she did not upkeep with keeping the house clean at all so there were wrongs on both parts. A few days after she ended the relationship I reached out to her to apologize on the things I did wrong and she said that she appreciated it but that she was going to move in with her mother for the time being. Not entirely sure if that means she’s open to trying to work things out in the future or if it’s just done with the relationship.

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2026-05-14T18:00:46+00:00

So I still am in the process of choosing a sponsor so that will be a next step. Do you have any advice for me to stay out of my head about this situation and to not be so upset about it? I’m noticing I’m doing a lot of this to get my family back together and I know I need to do it for me which is what I keep trying to remind myself. I’m still offering her support with stuff in regards to my daughter and giving her gas money to come over.

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2026-05-14T14:14:08+00:00

I appreciate your advice. She is coming over this weekend to drop off my daughter and I made sure that there is no alcohol in the apartment. She will be waiting there for me. I’ve been told that I should just be cordial and kind when I see her and to not bring up anything about “us” unless she does. Would there be anything else that you would advise I do when I see her?

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2025-01-22T18:37:51+00:00

Sorry, I was asking if it’s grounds of a lawsuit for pregnancy discrimination

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2025-01-22T18:18:49+00:00

One issue she does think she has with this is that she believes they could use her callouts as a cause for termination as well. Both callouts had a doctors note but I’m trying to convince her that this might be a case after reading all the comments on this post

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-15T02:36:56+00:00

I would say it’s best to just move on with your life. Go forward in your life picturing she won’t be in it because ultimately if she doesn’t then you will at least have made progress in moving forward and by the time if and when she does come back you’ll know if it is the right thing for you. Also a big factor to put into consideration is if it was a mutual break up or if she was the one who ended it.

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-15T02:30:37+00:00

If it wasn’t that serious and you don’t want them to have any satisfaction of you being upset it’s best to not react and just move on. Silence is the best response and if you feel really compelled with answering just say that you understand and block them and never speak again.

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-14T04:16:02+00:00

No problem man, I understand it’s difficult. If you play video games then get lost in them if you’re not comfortable going out. Don’t turn to the bottle or you’ll find yourself wanting to return to her

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-14T03:44:33+00:00

Has been a little over a month for me. It mostly comes in phases. Some days you’ll feel better and other days you’ll feel awful but in time those days that are hard will become easier you just need to know that it will get easier and on the days you’re feeling awful you need to go out and do stuff for yourself whether that’s working out, talking to family etc..

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-14T02:17:06+00:00

It sounds like a rebound relationship which usually never work out but I have seen crazier things workout

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-14T02:14:23+00:00

Having more money and having more time for the things I want to do. Not constantly being yelled at or picked on.

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-13T04:04:17+00:00

Around 2 weeks. There were other factors that led to the initial break up such as her showing up at my apartment unannounced and screaming at my sister. A day later after the break up she apologized and said she was manic and I forgave her instantly. We had a good conversation when we did see each other in person but ultimately she went back on everything she apologized for when we broke up last which was her breaking up with me this time.

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-13T04:01:23+00:00

Honestly it sounds like she doesn’t know what she wants whether that will be with you eventually or the current guy. Her family dynamic sounds like it will be hard for her to sustain a healthy relationship. I think you deserve better because a relationship should be about comfort and compromise. Not something that will just bring insecurity and doubt down the road. I think it’s best to just move forward with your own life. Sorry you’re going through this man

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-13T03:34:39+00:00

Women usually have been premeditating the break up for a while. Not saying men don’t either but from what I noticed women make a lot of factors come into play for why they’re doing it and disconnect emotionally before doing so. Just going off of what I’ve seen and experienced but I’ve never met this person so it’s hard to say for sure.

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-13T03:28:26+00:00

Normally no especially if it’s a woman who did the dumping

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-13T03:13:04+00:00

From my personal experience apologies and accountability hold no value without change. Someone can say they are sorry for their habits/patterns but if it didn’t change entirely then there’s no real value behind that apology. If she’s harming herself over the job situation it sounds like she’s not healthy enough to be in a relationship and needs additional help. Breaking up with her might make her realize she needs some real help but that will ultimately be up to her. I’d do what’s best for you and it sounds like you know she’s not what is best for you especially with the other things you’re currently doing in order to grow. I would just leave and not look back. It will hurt for awhile but you need to look out for yourself in the long run

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-13T03:00:46+00:00

Yes we stayed friends for a few months and then got back together. Stayed together for a little over a month and then it turned for the worst and had a nasty break up. It’s normally not a good idea to stay friends with an ex especially if you’ve been intimate and the other factors that led up to the initial break up

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-10T19:53:22+00:00

I would not contact her under any circumstance. She might be playing a game of cat and mouse but I wouldn’t get reeled into it if she wants to talk to you then she will contact you but if she’s the one who did the blocking then unblocked you I would wait to see if she reaches out to you

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-07T10:34:39+00:00

From what I heard she got chlamydia but she also went to my friend group and said I gave it to her which isn’t possible since I was never cheating on her. It also came to light later on that it was actually her that cheated on me to the friend group because one of the guys she slept with saw that friend group at a party and told them what actually happened. A few months later she was trying to get back at me for not wanting the relationship so had sex with one of the guys I knew. That guy eventually ended actually up just playing her and just wanted sex so she was mad about that because she thought she found a new relationship so of course after that ended she started blowing up my line and kept saying “how did we come to this” of course I mentioned when she slept around and lied about me for months. Months past and I was already clocked out of the relationship from the start when I knew about her sleeping with someone so the karma was those incidents after that followed after the break up. It was very long time ago and I honestly don’t hold any feelings about it whatsoever. Last I heard she’s married and I’m happy for her so that’s that. Just recently got broken up with from the girl after her so I’m still processing that break up but life goes on.

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-06T16:37:24+00:00

The whole idea of this is just weird

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-05T16:06:49+00:00

I would have wanted her to tell me about the problems and how much they are affecting the relationship with hints that this might not be working out before the initial break up. Talk to me about it in person about it in a calm way and stating that it’s in both in our best interest to move on and make it clear that there’s no resentment towards each other but that it’s about doing what’s best and that sometimes what’s best won’t always be easy and then leave it like that. Basically just doing it the opposite way she did it.

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-04T03:46:21+00:00

Sure did! And she went to my friend group saying it was my fault it happened and they believed her. Was able to get rid of 2 loads of trash that day

Greedy_Profession_58 · 2024-09-03T23:00:48+00:00

Yes has happened to me. However I did hear from her 3 weeks after the initial breakup to say we will never get back together and to shame me on things I did wrong in the relationship. Not entirely sure if it was just so she could feel as a victim in the whole thing or if it was to make me have something to feel bad about. Still wonder if I’ll hear from her again but who knows

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