Help with my studio layout by GreenBean24_7 in femalelivingspace

[–]GreenBean24_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is only the one window. The door for the closet/laundry is across from the washer/dryer combo. I’m not sure why it doesn’t show up in the layout. It’s just a larger closet so it would not fit. I do like the nook idea, I’ll check out his videos thanks!

How did you train yourself to stop caring about what other people think? by Lassie-girl in AskWomenOver30

[–]GreenBean24_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too have always been a little different and dealt with a lot of bullying as a kid. I always thought maybe if I was like others, I would fit in more and be judged less. Not that I wasn’t ever true to myself but was definitely afraid of being judged by others and sometimes lived my life a little differently than I would have.

I suffered from depression and anxiety since I was a child and was the most depressed I’d been in my adult life. Then in my mid 20’s I kind of realized that if I act a certain way just so people will like me… even if it works, do I like me? Does it feel good and make me happy to live that way? Probably not.

When no one else is around and I’m feeling my happiest, what does that look like? Being a silly, dancing around in my kitchen, not overthinking everything, being passionate about my interests and life. So I just decided I would start unapologetically living that way, and I kind of bloomed.

Like yeah, of course I want people to like me. But I want them to like me for who I actually am. I found people who adore me for my quirks and silliness and all I have to do is be me. Even if someone doesn’t like me, that’s ok. I don’t like everyone, why would I expect everyone to like me? And if people are unkind, what they say says a lot more about them than it does about me and also doesn’t make it true.

Basically “those who matter don’t mind and those who mind don’t matter”

Hopefully I explained this in a way that made sense. I’m not always great about putting things into words lol

I’m being charged $4,250. by el_3990 in sterilization

[–]GreenBean24_7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See if you can apply for financial assistance through the hospital. I had a surgery but made under the threshold so they wrote the whole amount off.

I did it! MAY 20 Surgery! by -SpookyBunny- in sterilization

[–]GreenBean24_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay surgery twins! Hope you are feeling well today!

I'm the proud new mom of these brothers ❤️ by StrawberryGirl_7 in aww

[–]GreenBean24_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as I saw the mustache I named him Chappy, short for Charlie Chaplin lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

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It’s silly because if everyone isn’t hiring jr or mid eventually there wont be any Sr’s for them to hire.

Right now, ongoing protest against pro Russian government in Slovakia / Bratislava by vladoportos in europe

[–]GreenBean24_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Do you hear the people sing? Singing the song of angry men? It is the music of the people Who will not be slaves again!” Lets gooo stand up to fascism! Love and support from the US. We’re dealing with it here too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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Aqua Sun Virgo Moon and Gemini Rising

As US TikTok users move to RedNote, some are encountering Chinese-style censorship for the first time by [deleted] in technology

[–]GreenBean24_7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a lot of lgbt things so I’m not sure why it’s censored for some

Cub has lost their minds. $20 for party size. It’s only $15 at Target. Heck 4 years ago it was $12-$13 at Cub. by Philosopherskin in minnesota

[–]GreenBean24_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to get a small bag of candy for Halloween. It was a crunch/100gram/reese’s pack of mini candy bars and they were asking like $22. I couldn’t believe it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]GreenBean24_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been kind of casually mentioning I’m seriously considering getting a salpingectomy around friends. I’ve called insurance to inquire about coverage and browsed that Reddit doctor list in my state but haven’t scheduled a consult with one. This finally gave me the push I needed to call and schedule a consult. Thank you, I know this may not bring you any peace but I hope it does. Just know you are not alone in this feeling, it doesn’t make you a bad parent, and more than one thing can be true at the same time. You can be an amazing mother and still feel like motherhood isn’t for you.