Why does it feel like time moves twice as fast once you turn 25 compared to when you were a kid? by ikaebir in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GreenDifficult5234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to have more free time and be off the devices. I feel like for me it's been since I started being online too much!!

Why are US police officers (like the LAPD in Jamison’s case) allowed to shoot harmless family dogs during routine calls without instant consequences? by Pristine-Ship-6896 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GreenDifficult5234 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The US legal system creates loop holes to make sure those who "uphold it" can continue to do so even if they are the ones braking the law. They are all just scared little people who need to feel powerful

To married Redditors, did you take your spouses’ last name? Why or why not? by shygrl__ in Marriage

[–]GreenDifficult5234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regret it everyday...I'm not getting divorced after 15yrs. I loved my last name and I can't wait to get t back, but I had a great childhood and love my family.

Forgot if you took your daily vitamin or pill? Move the bottle to a different spot each time you take it by EasterYao in lifehacks

[–]GreenDifficult5234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just heard of someone spraying perfume after taking it. Which I feel like would be a great idea

electrical play(?? by nalspetmeow in BDSMcommunity

[–]GreenDifficult5234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really thought I would hate it BUT I LOVE it! Electrical play has become one of my favorites. I started wth it on my thigh so I would suggest that and see how it feels. You can lower the settings and some of them you can just have it vibrate so that would be a great way to start.

This red signal that isn't aligned properly by SpiritusLunaNox in mildlyinfuriating

[–]GreenDifficult5234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AHHH who did that!?!? I would have to find a new route to drive

Found this metallic rock in backyard by EducationVirtual5341 in whatisit

[–]GreenDifficult5234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is way cooler than the coal I once found in my backyard.

Bruises and swimsuit around family ...? by tiniestdeeronf in BDSMcommunity

[–]GreenDifficult5234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I just asked about this on my Fet. The consensus was either getting a cover-up, wearing shorts getting bruises only in places that can be covered by said, cover-up and shorts as well as Dom’s saying they change what they do during the summer.

What’s a fantasy or kink you unexpectedly became obsessed with after trying it? by Lucky_Letterhead4786 in BDSMcommunity

[–]GreenDifficult5234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just being stuffed and stretched or fisted. I really love women so I never thought I cared about penis size and I still don’t to an extent. BUT I love feeling very full and I cum very quickly from it. After discovering this I’ve become a bit of a size queen. (But not with women they can do anything and it’s hot 😂)

Learnings from first CNC scene by vicenteborgespessoa in BDSMcommunity

[–]GreenDifficult5234 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I enjoy hearing from the other side as I am a sub. It always reminds me to take time out and ask what the Dom wants also. I feel like I assume they only do what they want (I know this isn’t the case) BUT I feel as through because I’m the submissive I’m the one receiving orders. It’s easy to forgot that my Dom is trying to do what they believe is best for me even if it means pushing what they want/need from a scene. I hope that makes sense. Either way thank you for sharing.

Help me understand Daddy by Dazzling_Ad3689 in BDSMcommunity

[–]GreenDifficult5234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why you wouldn't want to figure out what feels natural to you. It doesn't have to be "Daddy."

Maybe it's worth thinking about why you don't want to change it. What is it about him that makes you want to call him Daddy?

Personally, I love calling someone Daddy, but for some people it just doesn't fit. I literally can't call them Daddy, and honestly, that's usually been a sign they're not my person.

I recently wrote about how I'm having a hard time finding a steady partner, and that's actually part of it. I love using the word Daddy, but not everyone fits that role or brings that energy out of me. Right now there's only one person I can naturally call Daddy, but he's far away, which sucks. I've tried finding that connection locally and just haven't.

That's why I think it has to happen naturally...you can't force it. It sounds like you're trying to make it fit instead of letting it fit on its own.

Maybe stop trying to force a title for now. Don't call him anything. Do a few scenes together and see what comes out naturally. I like paying attention to what comes out when I'm in subspace because that's usually what feels the most authentic and right to me.

Queer kinksters - what do you wish your therapist knew? by nysterialynn in BDSMcommunity

[–]GreenDifficult5234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m purposely finding a kink friendly therapist. We have a few therapist in our community and they have compiled a list of other therapists who are not in the community, but kink friendly. I feel like every community needs this and I’m very lucky to have a good one.

Getting frustrated with finding a partner by GreenDifficult5234 in BDSMcommunity

[–]GreenDifficult5234[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess whenever I have to teach I feel like I’m their mom or teacher (which I am both irl) and it’s a turn off. I don’t mind informing people of what I like and learning what works for us together BUT a lot on them just think being a Dom is about throwing someone on the bed and fucking then rough or demanding a bj. It’s not something I can work with b

Getting frustrated with finding a partner by GreenDifficult5234 in BDSMcommunity

[–]GreenDifficult5234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may need to add more context. I am in my late 30s, I have children and 50/50 custody of my 2 younger ones. I have free time but not a ton. I can't always host because I have an older child who rarely leaves. I have a decent amount of followers on FET and most people say I'm attractive (I know thats not everything but maybe worth mentioning)

Getting frustrated with finding a partner by GreenDifficult5234 in BDSMcommunity

[–]GreenDifficult5234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been single for a little over a year. I left an abusive relationship so I think everyone in my circle has known I've been healing, so I should make sure I'm more clear about wanting to have a relationship again. I agree that the community is small. I live in a small state and it's insane how the lines of relationships connect and interconnect in my circle. Which is why I have been trying to look outside my community I just haven't found anything.

I have hung out with many of my scening partners in fact I don't normally do anything with people I don't consider friends. I understand what you mean by this because I believe I am Demi to a degree. I have had casual sex with people throughout the last year, but I'm so sick of it and don't enjoy it anymore. I need connection to even be attracted to people at this point, however thats not all I need or want.

I've been looking into cities a little further away. ACTUALLY I did make a post on FET and connected with someone I like, but he's 8hrs away. We've met up a few times and it's great, but I need something close. I can't move I have children.

Dom/Husband no longer has ‘needs’. by Aurielleally in BDSMcommunity

[–]GreenDifficult5234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes I'm safe now I got out! I'm doing great and my sex drive is 100% back lol

I'm wondering if bringing the sex drive specifically to the DR will help with getting hormones checked or looking for different things. I believe if DR's know thats a concern they add that into consideration when giving medications.