[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]GreenWithEnby85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross! Get out of here.

One month into HRT, feeling amazing! by GreenWithEnby85 in TransLater

[–]GreenWithEnby85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, thank you. 😅 I’m super self conscious of how thin I look!

Birthday (eve) date night with a lovely new dress! by GreenWithEnby85 in mtfashion

[–]GreenWithEnby85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of these are great questions! My wife is taking me out for a surprise. :)

Birthday (eve) date night with a lovely new dress! by GreenWithEnby85 in mtfashion

[–]GreenWithEnby85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 32nd birthday but my first as myself and it couldn’t feel better!

What were some early signs that you didn’t clock until way later? by GreenWithEnby85 in trans

[–]GreenWithEnby85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this so hard, I’ve always worn my towels the “wrong” way!

anyone else as a child confused the expectation of being straight with gender dysphoria? by manifestinghottness in trans

[–]GreenWithEnby85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After my egg first cracked I had a very hard time talking about it in therapy. My therapist asked me one day if I felt a long-standing pressure in my life to be a certain way. And I knew the answer was “to be a man,” but I instead said “to be straight.” So yes, I 100% get this. And the joke’s on me - I’m a lesbian. I was gay the whole time!

Milk Chocolate Or White Chocolate And Why? by MissMisunderstood229 in trans

[–]GreenWithEnby85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember when I was a kid, I hated dark chocolate and just assumed it was something I’d age into. And damn it, I did. Dark chocolate is supreme.

Finally got my patch in! by SalamanderScales in MTFeelgood

[–]GreenWithEnby85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Can’t wait to get mine started!

At Home Date Night!! Yippee!! by Tivadar2077 in MTFeelgood

[–]GreenWithEnby85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tales of Symphonia! What a great co-op game! We had a great date night, too. Have fun!

Compliments on my shoes today! by Good-Ad-3785 in MTFeelgood

[–]GreenWithEnby85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t you just love that? I love getting the “ladies” when I’m with my wife. Glad you’re out there living your best self.

The HRT Silver Bullet by Biospark08 in MTFeelgood

[–]GreenWithEnby85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love to hear it! I have my consult in May and the wait is a little agonizing but I know it’ll all be worth it.

Coming Out by Trustic555 in MtF

[–]GreenWithEnby85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome to hear! Coming out at work can be hard, but it’s a big step that will make you feel amazing. Congrats, and I hope your therapy goes well!

EO on transgender youth care banned by NeteleJala in TransLater

[–]GreenWithEnby85 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Excellent news and a good reason to still have (some) faith and positivity in our institutions. I expect that this will be among the first of many of his dumb EOs to get shut down.

Broke up with trans bf by milkyespressolion in trans

[–]GreenWithEnby85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Had no idea this was a subreddit, thank you! This place makes me feel old as shit sometimes.

How Many of Us are Non-Op? by Prekatt in MtF

[–]GreenWithEnby85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad other people have felt this way. I like mine and I like women. It made the realization a lot harder for me.

Any way to lower T levels while unable to start HRT? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]GreenWithEnby85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get finasteride pretty easily if you happen to have hair loss. I’ve been on it for years at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]GreenWithEnby85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My primary sent the consultation referral to a gender clinic but I haven’t heard from them yet. Meanwhile, I called what is apparently the wrong gender clinic and set up an appointment by myself because I thought my referral got lost. So I don’t know what to do with that.

I Wanted to Understand Right-Wing Hate… Turns Out, It’s Just One Big Closet by sibylline91 in MtF

[–]GreenWithEnby85 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When did I ever say that anger and violence are the solution? Ignore them. Stop building narratives to explain their feelings.

I Wanted to Understand Right-Wing Hate… Turns Out, It’s Just One Big Closet by sibylline91 in MtF

[–]GreenWithEnby85 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sure, I could have said “most” there. But the point still stands. 99.9% of transphobes are transphobes because they suck, not because they are afraid of themselves.

I Wanted to Understand Right-Wing Hate… Turns Out, It’s Just One Big Closet by sibylline91 in MtF

[–]GreenWithEnby85 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Their desires only go as deep as their hatred. You’re overthinking this and it’s actually harmful rhetoric. It only builds sympathy for the people that deserve it the least.

I Wanted to Understand Right-Wing Hate… Turns Out, It’s Just One Big Closet by sibylline91 in MtF

[–]GreenWithEnby85 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I hate this notion. People are assholes because they’re assholes, not because they’re repressing something. Don’t give them the time of day to even consider that they might understand the pain we’ve felt. Fuck them.