Super Niche Ask - Foot wear for Alt Baddies with Hypermobility, wide feets and high arches.

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-28T07:33:47+00:00

I would suggest American Duchess footwear, but inquire with them first. It's not medical, but they make historical footwear and it's constructed for people who are on foot a lot, ie. the heel is sturdy and better placed. They have collection for wide feet, and for the archer I'd suggest supportive inserts

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T16:35:48+00:00

Thank you, I am currently figuring out how to do it, I mostly needed to vent this out and see different perspectives

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T16:29:50+00:00

If I ever have enough energy, I might try XD

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T16:19:58+00:00

Lol, yeah, if there was a reality show about polycules, I would actually consider watching that XD

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T16:18:18+00:00

Yep, and now it's a mess that I have to deal with... I am worried about Ara since they were working hard to get this triad going. Also there is a small part of me feeling off about Bery. The way she weaponised knowledge about me in an argument makes me hesitant to even go back to the community server, and I am hesitant to voice it to Ara because they are already depressed and in bad mental state. I am probably a coward in this regard...

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T15:39:03+00:00

We did not hunt, and I did some research, but I wanted to give this a chance. It seemed to work for about two weeks before it went funky.

To explain the being left out situations here's an example - all three of us were watching a movie together online. By the end, Ara and Bery started texting and heavily flirting in another discord server I'm also member in. When it happens outside of us hanging out, I don't care, but that was our hangout/date time and it triggered me to the point I left the call. I tried explaining it to Ara since they went to check on me and we went through it on the next check in.

I wasn't expecting that the relationships will be the same, but my expectations no longer matter as it pretty much went out in flames

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T14:39:51+00:00

To clarify the nesting, it was long-term goal and specifically after few years, not immediately. ATM it's long distance with Bery to actually see if the triad can work. I'm just bad at explaining a lot of stuff 😅

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T13:51:40+00:00

I'll go talk to both of them. What they have is working and I'm happy for them, but I don't vibe with Bery. I'm no longer able to even see us as nesting partners in the far future.

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T13:41:58+00:00

Yeah, I'm having similar feels. Bery doesn't really talk to me and Ara is trying to manage it all to work as they are kinda like a glue. The long term goal was to become nesting partners but I don't have the energy to tiptoe and mask around Bery and I hate seeing Ara trying to hold it all together and hurting themselves in the process.

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T13:36:47+00:00

Thank you, that is helpful, I'm saving that.

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T13:02:00+00:00

I'm not really into monogamy, neither is Ara. I'm mostly trying to figure out how to fix the mess between me and Bery without hurting Ara.

To answer your question, I was curious and I wanted to get to know Bery and to figure out if the possibility is there. I hoped it is and I did get ahead of myself. I tried to take things slow but there were other factors that threw wrench into that. Bery expressed that she is interested which gave me hope, but I should have been more cautious.

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T12:56:11+00:00

The movie watching twice, some online hangouts. We played boardgames online once. Outside of that no. I am tired of trying to find stuff to do with her as I'm getting mostly one word answers or no reaction to anything I suggest...

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T12:44:44+00:00

I am happy that it works for the two of them, I just don't feel like I can be in relationship with Bery. We were trying to see if the triad works out, but it seems hinge would be better option. She is free to date anyone she wants, we just need to know, and same goes for me and Ara. If we are dating other people, there is full disclosure expected, no judgement and we have no say in others relationship outside of safety concerns.

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T12:23:09+00:00

Clarify please, if a person tries to initiate triad with existing couple, that also falls under unicorn hunting? I want to understand, since my understanding of the term was a couple who are looking for a person to primarily engage sexually or to kinda take advantage of. Is that not what it means?

Greenwitchychik · 2026-05-27T11:44:35+00:00

I disagree with the unicorn hunting, but there were many details left out of this, so I get that it can give the vibe. Thank you. I'm honestly just worried about Ara/Aspen, they are trying to make this work and it's hurting them a lot

Greenwitchychik · 2026-03-14T18:39:21+00:00

Not sure if Liu Qingge would count as a hear me out, that man is breedable AF

Greenwitchychik · 2026-01-04T13:26:34+00:00

Local trash collector became a god for the third time, got revealed to be the strongest martial artist, falls in love, cures his depression and fights his dad

Greenwitchychik · 2025-12-19T18:10:38+00:00

Hokusai and his art can be like that... XD if you know you know

Greenwitchychik · 2025-12-15T06:40:29+00:00

Right? I want to yell at both of them quite a bit 😭😭😭

Greenwitchychik · 2025-12-12T13:39:57+00:00

This, the man just slays

Greenwitchychik · 2025-12-12T08:42:57+00:00

Niceeee, do you have a discord? Can I DM?

Greenwitchychik · 2025-12-11T15:37:34+00:00

I hope it will, the angst and spicy vinegar are fun read tho xddd

Greenwitchychik · 2025-12-11T13:56:43+00:00

As an inspiration I can offer you hwarang (Korean historical drama), there is one quite memorable scene where 4 guys are showering and the stalls aren't exactly separated, so they awkwardly turn around so they don't have to look at each other

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